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Are There Any Single Sleevers Out There..

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Newly single, newly sleeved, New me .. I am looking for other single sleevers out there to talk about single life, before during and after the sleeve. Maybe a place were us singles can come together and talk about whatever who knows maybe Someone can find love.. In a loveless world. So if you are single and out there lets hear from you.. :P

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  • Ah, great idea. My M.O. In the past has been to lose weight, pick up a loser, gain weight, drop the loser, repeat. Uggggggg, hopefully now I can drop that behavior and feel like I can offer a guy mo

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    i was single but one year post op I got married to the love of my life Oh how life has changed

  • I am single and have pretty much been single my whole life except when I had my daughter, couldn't do that alone lol. I found it hard to let someone else like me if I didn't like me so I pretty much

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well its good to see that none of us are alone. newbie i am in your shoes as far as being alone at the begining. lets all truly keep in touch and help each other out how ever we can

I'm single. Sleeved three months now. I'm a single mom and I even did that by myself! =) Well, my OB helped...

I'd kind-of like to get out a little and socialize but I'm not Miss Social - I'm more the friend of Miss Social type. My closest single girlfriend is dealing with some of her own issues and doesn't want to go out so I sort-of feel stuck. Maybe that's good because I'm also one big walking hormone and might make a complete fool of myself falling all over some poor soul! That and the idea of someone actually being attracted to me is a little freaky. I remember my surgeon's PA telling me that I needed to get used to the idea of people being interested in me and I think I looked at her like she was speaking a foreign language. I don't mean to be down on myself but the thought of someone seeing me naked is just too horrifying for words.

  • 2 weeks later...

Checking back in, I went out with my wingman on Friday night, he was helping me see what kinda guys are out there.

Had the best night, got hit on like 4 times in one night......not sure any were 100% serious, but more attention than I ever got pre-op.

Guess I am starting to get sexy...will embrace that :)

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Sounds like u had a good time assu

Absolutely! Good for you.

Checking back in, I went out with my wingman on Friday night, he was helping me see what kinda guys are out there.

Had the best night, got hit on like 4 times in one night......not sure any were 100% serious, but more attention than I ever got pre-op.

Guess I am starting to get sexy...will embrace that :)

Hey everyone I'm single myself, looking forward to some attention once I'm surgery date is May 1st. I hope some men post here as well

Hey all the single ladies. I've been single most of my life, a boy or 3 here and there, even a few serious relationships, but never married. I haven't had low self esteem as an adult, but definitely in high school and college. I'm looking forward to more attention. The best part of being single on a diet is no temptation food and not having to cook something I can't eat for a family. What is the best part for you?

There really arent very many single male sleevers... I guess that means I get first pick? Just kidding.

It's great to see all the single sleevers out, I'm joining the ranks (been single for a few months, but was using the time to get myself on track) and glad to be here. I'm still on the 6 month diet/exercise regime and in month 2 I'm down 31 pounds. If my college schedule doesn't fit the surgery date, I'm just gonna do in Mexico. It's nice to have both options.

Anyways, bring it on singles - were the ones who keep the party going!

There really arent very many single male sleevers... I guess that means I get first pick? Just kidding.

It's great to see all the single sleevers out' date=' I'm joining the ranks (been single for a few months, but was using the time to get myself on track) and glad to be here. I'm still on the 6 month diet/exercise regime and in month 2 I'm down 31 pounds. If my college schedule doesn't fit the surgery date, I'm just gonna do in Mexico. It's nice to have both options.

Anyways, bring it on singles - were the ones who keep the party going![/quote']

So when are you schedule for surgery? What's your stats? Where are you from? Introduced yourself flirt ;-)

So when are you schedule for surgery? What's your stats? Where are you from? Introduced yourself flirt ;-)

My name is TJ, I'm from Maryland but born in Ohio. Smart enough to work for the Man, dumb enough to get back on a motorcycle after half a decade of no riding (one of my major reasons for losing weight - I miss my HD Dyna Glide :( ).

My nutritionist made the recommendation for August 16 which is about 3 weeks after my program ends. The surgeon will respond soon we hope. Personally, I hope they can push it up because class starts again at the end of August. So I might pick up the knowledge from the insurance and just pay out of pocket with Dr. Kelly.

Stats as requested (demanded?)

26 years old

5'10"

337 pounds prior to nutrition class

306 pounds as of this morning

Im like a life size teddy bear ;-)

Now I have to read the rest of the thread and figure out who else is in here and who they are hehe.

Well nice to meet you! Hope you dont have to wait long? And I hope to continue hearing about your process through out the group

Well nice to meet you! Hope you dont have to wait long? And I hope to continue hearing about your process through out the group

Definitely - might just do the Mexico option if I can't get the timing right. Honestly, I don't talk too much about the progress thing. It feels too much like bragging. But I love reading stories and offering encouragement.

Definitely - might just do the Mexico option if I can't get the timing right. Honestly' date=' I don't talk too much about the progress thing. It feels too much like bragging. But I love reading stories and offering encouragement.[/quote']

I don't feel it's bragging! You are giving a testimony of the surgery being a success and also sharing what you go through gives hopes to others.

My name is TJ, I'm from Maryland but born in Ohio. Smart enough to work for the Man, dumb enough to get back on a motorcycle after half a decade of no riding (one of my major reasons for losing weight - I miss my HD Dyna Glide :( ).

My nutritionist made the recommendation for August 16 which is about 3 weeks after my program ends. The surgeon will respond soon we hope. Personally, I hope they can push it up because class starts again at the end of August. So I might pick up the knowledge from the insurance and just pay out of pocket with Dr. Kelly.

Stats as requested (demanded?)

26 years old

5'10"

337 pounds prior to nutrition class

306 pounds as of this morning

Im like a life size teddy bear ;-)

Now I have to read the rest of the thread and figure out who else is in here and who they are hehe.

Welcome to the Single Sleevers forum.

Get ready for some more attention.

I still dont see it but I have been hanging out with my wingman lately and he says there are always guys checking me out...but hopefully I will realise when a good guy does come along...

Good luck with your surgery :)

Hi all - single here as well and no kids! Scheduled to be sleeved on November 19, 2012....this was a great idea! Thanks!

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