Aussiegirl

Hi Everyone, An old timer returning for a visit. And thought I would share my story with the newbies, so good to see new people supporting each other. I know this site and the people on it helped me massively in the first few years. I am now almost 3 years out from my sleeve surgery. I consider myself a success story. I am maintaining my weight, have been through 2 plastic surgeries and am booked for another one (in Oct, the research for this brings me back here for a bit). My life has changed significantly, I am more confident in myself, in front of people, are having more success in my role. I am now dating a great guy who thinks I am amazing and loves me for who I am. He knows my past, and doesn't see anything wrong with even how I looked before (I do tho.. obviously). My nephews don't even recognise old pictures of me, they will never know the old me, I run around with them. I exercise, not as excessively as I originally did but still regularly. I eat pretty well, most people don't recognise I had the surgery. Breakfast and lunch is pretty similar to most people, can eat yoghurt and Cereal for breaksfast and a sandwich at lunch (normal size one). I find the main meals are where people will notice the quantity I eat, but rarely. I can eat around 100gms of meat and then some veg and carbs etc. I have recovered from my first round of plastics (extended tummy tuck and arm lift), had a bit of a shocker of a recovery, and experienced one of the associated risks. But am getting ready for a 3rd surgery for a fluer de lis tummy tuck to remove more additional skin. This will finish my journey. I have put back on some weight, around 5kgs. I am okay with that as a fair bit of that has gone back in my breasts, which don't feel like pancakes as much now and a bit more on my face, which I felt got a bit gaunt. I currently sit between a size 10/12 (pants) and size 12/14 top (mainly cause of my boobs and generally wide shoulders). Life has its ups and downs but now I feel a bit more comfortable in myself in handling them. A new profile picture has been updated

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Random sleeve catch up thanks to Sydney city closure. Ran into Sue on her way home. Ended up in drinks and trivia and a burger the size of our head apparently.. any guesses on how much 2 long term sleevers could have eatten?

Random sleeve catch up thanks to Sydney city closure. Ran into Sue on her way home. Ended up in drinks and trivia and a burger the size of our head apparently.. any guesses on how much 2 long term sleevers could have eatten?

For those coming out in Sydney tonight, I am early as I got out of work early and have a table on the roof, near the end of the rooftop. Look for me I have a black top on and ponytail tonight

For those coming out in Sydney tonight, I am early as I got out of work early and have a table on the roof, near the end of the rooftop. Look for me I have a black top on and ponytail tonight

Sue/Kelli, Look forward to seeing you all. A bit of a crappy day for it tho. However there is an indoor area on the 2nd floor with a cocktail bar. Maybe we can meet there. I may head down a bit earlier and scope out the place. See you soon

I am in. Somewhere around the Rocks would be great. I am looking forward to meeting you all. I am definitely in (providing my work doesn't send me off on a last minute trip to hell aka Melbourne, happened way too many times end of last year). If we go to the Rocks we should go to the Glenmore, it is at the top of the rocks with a rooftop bar with views over the Harbour. My favourite place at the rocks, and on a Mon/Tues there should be space.

Thanks Lessismore The plastic journey so to speak is very different. Mine was made much harder due to complications with the surgery (which almost cost me my life but thankfully did not). It is definitely not something to under take lightly. But in the end result (now 4 months afterwards) I am fairly happy with the result, I would have liked to have seen some more skin removed as I still have some over hang and also have a recurring issue with numbness and pain in my arm from the arm reduction. There are days when I am like, really there isnt much difference but I was looking at photos that I took just prior and the difference is significant, need a reality check sometimes eh. But shopping is definitely much more fun, my last trip to the US I went on a dress shoppng spree (like 13 dresses and most of them tight fitting) and I feel good in them. Ditdee, as everyone has said the 3 week mark is notorious for being a stall period where you may not loose weight and may gain weight, it is just your body reajusting. Just keep working it and eatting smart and the weight loss will return

Happy New Year Everyone!! I have not been back here in a while but still see all your updates come through to my phone. Good to see some more newbies come in and the "oldies" still around Everyone is looking and doing amazing. I admit to having lost my way for a little bit. After the prolonged recovery from the plastic surgery (where no exercise was allowed), quickly followed or concurrently with a very stressful period of work (travelling constantly/demanding clients/long long long long hours) and then overseas trip and Christmas (read alcohol period) I admit to having lost my way for a bit, and found I have put on 5 kgs from the lowest I have been. Strangely tho I dont look like I have (but go figure). So much for getting off the weight rollercoaster, i think for me it is life balancing act. I am back into it and back to trying to get into 2 work outs a day (a kick starter so to speak), as I know how hard I still have to work, but 5kgs is better than 75kgs. And now I do know that I can do it, through eatting better and exercising more (besides I do feel better emotionally when I am exercising) and I have two 5km runs to get ready for at the end of Jan/beginning of Feb. I hope everyone is well.

AusSmith...So exciting..how are you handling the Optifast? Bella, yep the Aussies are going strong and rocking their sleeves How are you doing?

Hey Misty, I work in the city, so if you would like to catch up let me know..would be good to meet you if you have time in Sydney

Have a drink (or 2 for me). I will have a Margarita in Vegas for you all. Wish I could have been there I am sure Sue will give you a great tour of my home lol

Mother F'er....sorry I dont swear often but this is annoying. I will be in Vegas that weekend before a conference for work. I would have loved to have met you!! GRRRRRrr Skudbidz ..All the best I hope that the surgery goes well.

Thanks Kelli and Lissa It was great to see your pics from the weekend, looks like fun. And you all look amazing!!! Catching up after a hectic long weekend, I am so exhausted I can only imagine how pre-sleeve me would have handled the weekend. Lissa, any dates for when you will be in Sydney?

Yay Birdie, glad you are safely on the sleeve side. Have fun on Saturday all, I sooooo wish I could have been there Damn too many parties. BTW if any of you read Take 5 mag, there are some articles on people with sleeves...you may recognize one of them.

You dont know what the new confident you can do. Not sure it was confidences but I did feel at ease with it, putting rumours to rest etc. You can see all the changes people make when we feel better about ourselves

Also wanted to add, we all feel differently about telling ppl or not. I chose to tell a few people, some ppl assumed I was getting banded, as that is pretty accepted nowadays. I told people that supported me and knew my story, that at 150 kgs I had tried and failed so many times. People often have different reactions, some out of fear for you or jealousy or any number of other reasons. At any point you have to trust you are doing the right thing for you. Anything anyone says after that is just words. Last year I officially outed myself, and had such a supportive reaction, of course at that stage I had lost 70 kgs and was living a healthy full life. But this I knew when I made the decision to had the sleeve. Outing myself so to speak put to rest a lot of rumours, only you will know when and even if it should be done.

Hi all, So good to see more people safely on the flip side. Donna, you are doing great and definitely the first week post op is the hardest post op. Bec, I can't see the pics but that is a great loss. You should be so proud. I wish I could be there on the 5 th...damn! Hope you all have fun and there will be pictures can't wait to hear the stories. Sorry I have been AWOL for a few days, had a bit of a hiccup with the plastics surgery and have an infection in my wound, spent a couple of days in bed with fevers and sweats but am on the way back now.

Misty, can you say sexay!!! Off to the beach with you now

Thanks Kelli and lessismore. I would have loved to Kelli, but that weekend is my nephews 5th birthday and also one of my close friends 30th Birthday, a weekend of parties. I would love to finally meet you guys, hopefully we can work out some time soon.

http://www.verticalsleevetalk.com/gallery/image/23207-collage/I thought I would share something that I put on my facebook page today. I have officially called it, I am now officially have the 1/2 the size I was 2 years ago. It aint been easy but it has been worth it, even the plastics

Welcome All!! Yes, the hair loss is annoying. But as Lissa and Kelli have said it does grow back. And yes get to a hairdresser they can help you get a hairstyle around it as well. Misty and Lissa, you guys are doing great with the 5kgs challenge. Lissa, I know how hard it is to give up the "weight loss: journey and what do you do when you get there. I started to focus more on physical goals, running further, lifting more, toning as opposed to a number. Cause even when we get to where we want to be we always want more eh lol BTW K8ee, love your new profile shot you look great.

Fingers crossed for you both.... Strange how modern technology allows us to video conference with our docs eh