So I listen to Elvis Duran and the morning show everyday here in NY and they keep talking about this book called 50 Shades of Grey and describe it pretty much like porn with no pictures.

My thing is all these women call up loving the book but then they want to act like saints wtf.

Oh yes they are if not worse.. As a matter of fact me n a couple of my girl friends got kicked outta the sex store lmao

Haha wtf that's epic r

Yea apparently they frown upon me trying a few whips on random customers without permission lol

I wouldn't complain

I am going to put my quarter in this vs just two cents. I have been into BDSM all my life to various degrees and also have worked as a Professional/Lifestyle Dominatrix back east in the Tri-State area. I moved back to Southern California from the Philadelphia area because this is where I am from. I can tell you stories of both Men and Women who will not own up to their own sexuality/desires/fetishes etc. I have not read the book 50 shades of Gray, however one of my girlfriends just got it last night. I also write erotica and do not have any problem expressing my desires or wants to my husband. The lifestyle is accepting to all sizes and shapes of men or women. If you go to any of the bondage clubs that are around in the tri-state area you can find others that have the same interest as you do. There are websites for meeting others interested as well. I cannot tell you how many people I have counseled on ways to speak of their desires to their mates. Both men and women have these desires but due to family backgrounds, religious backgrounds, past experiences etc they will not speak of it. Many people hide their feelings in shame vs talking about it. I will also state that not all women are submissive and there are people who also have the ability or desire to switch and be either Dominant or submissive and it can be situational due to many reasons. What I have found to be the primary reason for most women to hide their inner freak is fear of judgment. I have in the past been open about my sexuality and desires and I do not have a problem owning them! I have dated men that wanted to get their freak on, purchase the items, actually suggest scenarios etc.. Later to be told that I was basically a (insert W term for Hooker) for even doing that to them, when they are the one that wanted it. Luckily I kept my sanity, know where I am, what I am about and moved on.

I will tell you that there are TONS of men and women all over that are living that life on a daily basis. You just are not looking in the right places... the fruit is ripe for the picking for both men and women.

Go to a BDSM club, a munch, one of the online sites, there are events all the time in the tri-state area.

Haha u r more open minded then the people I decided to slap

Haha u r more open minded then the people I decided to slap

Get it on camera next time classic

Oooo I see we got a kinky one likes filmin the action lol

I'm down for making films

Lol been there done that

Krussell I agree with you I hate feeling fake around a group of women cause I have to watch what I say and then I find out that they are just as bad as men

HAHAHA Women (well as for me and my group of girlfriends) are just as bad as men if not worse! I'm a lady on the street and freak in the sheets, Betty crocker in the kitchen and Porn star in bed LOL !! Unfortunatley in society It's "ok" for men to Concur Multiple women and be known as "Ladies Man" But if a woman is in multiple relationships (sexual or not) she's considered to be Passed around or easy.... Thats why you be slutty outside your home town ladies LOL

This is funny as I'm on book two right now It is very hot and very educational. I've had to look a few things up to see what they meant. Lol!

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Ha..... FREAKS! I'm loving this. My bestie gets upset with me ALL the time because she says I'm such a flirt but I've heard this all my life. I'm like okay, if I don't talk to anyone stuck up but when I do I'm a flirt, I mean really? I don't know about everybody but I like going against the grain. Everyone told me I shouldn't have dated my ex so that kinda drew me closer to him and WOW! We were so open and spontaneous and the places we had sex at were probably illegal but the possibility of getting caught and knowing how us together could ruin my rep was such an adrenaline rush!!!!! Aah I'm just that person I guess. Life of the party

My cop friend of mine always took his now wife to all kinds of places to have "fun". Of course now he doesn't, but as you get promoted, you're more in the limelight, than when you were a rookie.

I absolutely hated the book. I refuse to read the rest. It wasnt the content it was the writing. It felt like a teenager wrote it. Bad writing from my stand point but that is just my opinion. I do like to read as one called it "book porn". It just better be good writing and a bit more real for me. I agree that judgement and trust play a huge role in how women act. I am not inhibited with people I know at all. But.... upon meeting some one I dont just launch in to a sexually charged topic. Well, not usually but it has happened.

I bought it but I've yet to read it. So who wants to act out the scenes with me lol

:-) hmmm!!!!!!