So I listen to Elvis Duran and the morning show everyday here in NY and they keep talking about this book called 50 Shades of Grey and describe it pretty much like porn with no pictures.

My thing is all these women call up loving the book but then they want to act like saints wtf.

They're* my bad

That's just the way most of us ladies were brought up. How does that saying go...lady in the streets and...well you know the rest.

From NY here too. Lots of women are reading it. There is also a back story of mystery that pulls you in. There are 3 books each with very descriptive sex scenes. People are embarrassed that they are reading it cause it isn't how they were brought up. They are embarrassed to be turned on by it. I say if its too uncomfortable stop reading.

wendy

I just wish you girl were more upfront and stopped worrying about society

LOL depends when you were brought up. Society has a very strong hold on us.

You know if you do not do what society dictates you get punished for it.

It's a struggle every day.

So when a guy hits on you girls and might be a little bit straight forward and you girls act offended does your inner freak actually enjoy it?

lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets!

That's just the way most of us ladies were brought up. How does that saying go...lady in the streets and...well you know the rest.

Like Dhales why couldn't you finish your sentence? See women need to be more like us guys just say what's in your mind

This is an awesome topic.

Firstly, a lot of women enjoy "book porn." We enjoy thinking about sexual situations while being able to picture the people the way we want to picture them, without having society's idea of a beautiful woman shoved down our throats *chuckle*.

Secondly. Not all women "hide their inner freaks." I am incredibly open about all aspects of sexuality and sexual behavior. It just depends on what circle of people you associate with, and how open your friends are comfortable with being. With that said, not many ladies would enjoy you being overtly sexual immediately after meeting them. It comes across as overly aggressive and makes us wonder about the quality of woman you prefer (not many "classy" chicks would be okay with this behavior). All in all, a lot of women have no problem being sexual AS SOON AS WE ARE COMFORTABLE with you. Trust is a huge part too.

I was fairly shy when I met my husband 7 years ago, but since we have been married (and since shortly after we started dating) I was never afraid tell him/do to him what I wanted no matter how dirty it was! I really think it just has to do with how comfortable the woman is around the people she is with. If we just talked dirty all the time to whomever, we would give the appearance that we were easy or slutty. If I'm around my friends on the other hand, I'll tell them every naughty detail!

50 shades of grey is 50 shades of HOT!

I bought it but I've yet to read it. So who wants to act out the scenes with me lol

I bought it but I've yet to read it. So who wants to act out the scenes with me lol

dude how do you know its something you want to experience? as far as you know it involves donkey's or objects you don't even want to be around? heh...

Cause that's all Z100 talks about and how the women are all submissive

Z100 would do anything for ratings...as you can tell its got your listening.

I've learned to get to know a person and when you know that person and they know you then you are in a comfortable position to take it to another level. If all you are looking for is to get your freakon there are definitely outlets for that, weboards, help wanted ads, dating sites (specifically for casual sex), etc.