Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

I'm sooooooooooo hungry!!



Recommended Posts

:hungry: OK bandsters...help me out. I am 15 days out (still on mushies) and I can't seem to get enough food in me to stay satisfied for more than 2 or 3 hours. I know that once I get my fill I will stay satisfied longer but this is driving me nuts!! I want to keep my caloric intake down to 1200 but I'm not doing a very good job of it right now.

I lost 10 lbs the first week on liquids but I don't think I've lost anything since then, because I eat so often. Is it possible that my doc would do my first fill before the 4 weeks is up? Does anybody have any suggestions for mushies that stay with you longer???

Thanks

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

i also had my first fill at 2 weeks out of surgery

my doc did it because he couldnt see me again for a cpl of months

im hoping to get another fill on fri when i see him

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I had my first fill 3 weeks after surgery...and several fills later (3 months since banding) I'm just getting somewhere near restriction. My doctor is not conservative with fills either, so don't place too much hope on that elusive first fill, I know it was a bit disappointing for me.

I know when I was on mushies I was always thinking about food - could it be 'head hunger'?? Good luck and don't forget those mushies are probably just slipping straight through. The band is not really working yet.

Good luck :rofl:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Anca, I can NOT believe he filled you at 2 1/2 weeks post op! :rofl:

The ONLY thing that helped MY hunger was a small mcdonalds shake. Not protien shakes - only the mcd's!

Id have one a day.

Before I started having this daily, I was doing some serious cussing... b/c ALL my tummy did was growl! Like Ive said before, mcd's shakes are made with yogurt, not just plain ice cream. It may be a mental thing, but they sure helped me!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Anca

LOL...

no wonder Spiegel wants to "get rid" of you.

You know more then most MD's... and definately have more sense!

(sorry for the hijack!)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

This last week at my initial evaluation, my doctor showed me a diagram of what happens when you're banded. It's sort of like a belt that gets cinched -- put your husband's pants on your son. The stomach folds in on itself, creating layers upon layers of folded membranes. A cross-section shows almost NO room for food to get through. Add to that the edema (swelling) from the surgery & you're probably not very hungry immediately following surgery... and liquids make sense.

But the edema goes down soon after surgery (the rate of de-swelling depends on the person). As it goes down there's a little more room for food, creating more hunger. And per my surgeon, at about 3 weeks, food can slip through fairly easily (again, depending on the person). That's when we start mushies. At that point, the pouch is basically just an extension of the esophagus, so of course you're hungry.

BUT... they don't want to do the first fill until the stomach has totally absorbed all the extra "folded" membrane. Doing so can lead to lesions and possibly the dreaded erosion. That occurs between 5-6 weeks. Hence their desire to wait that long. Mushies make sense, since solid food could get stuck in folds & create issues.

As my doctor put it, "Yes, you'll be hungry. I'm sorry. But it IS only about 3 weeks & for your own safety you really need to suffer through it. We'll face it together. Call us if you need help."

I haven't experienced it yet... but I figure I can tough it out for 3 weeks. Better that then losing my band.

Sorry I'm not jumping on the doctor-bashing band wagon, but I bought his sales pitch. Of course, I'm not there, so I can't really know what you're going through. I'm sure I'll be groaning with you in about a month. :rofl:

I'd try some warm Water, take a walk, then cold Water, take a walk. See which works better for you. Get your mind occupied & find a support group to go hang with.

Hang in there, it'll be over soon... and just THINK of the difference!! :rolleyes:

Good luck!

Janet

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Ohmigawd - I can't believe some of you had your fills so soon after surgery since it's contraindicated until at least 6 weeks.

The stomach is a very sensitive organ (remember what it did to you the last time you had the flu?) Any surgery on the stomach, Lap-Band notwithstanding, is followed by the same kind of diet we're on - clear then full liquids, mushies, etc.

The reason for our Lap-Band surgeons to require this post-op diet is not to boost their weight loss statistics, it's to ensure long-term success with the band and to prevent vomiting for the first six weeks while the band gets situated and your stomach heals. There is an extremely high incidence of band slippage with people who don't heed the six week post-op diet.

The surgeon most likely stitched a portion of your upper stomach to a portion of the lower stomach right over the band to keep it in place. This area needs time to heal. When the surgeon placed the band around your stomach and cinched it in place, your stomach reactly negatively and swelled. So with the combination of the stitches and the swelling, you NEED to be on foods that will pass easily through your new stoma.

Like people have been saying, the first six weeks is not about how much you can lose - it's giving your new stomach time to heal. Yes, you should try to watch your calorie intake, but if you're hungry, have something. If you stay with liquids and soft foods with substance, like cream Soups and oatmeal, you're less likely to be hungry again so soon.

You have to look at the big picture ... 1 year, 5 years, or even 10 years from now when you are at your goal weight and living life the way you have always wanted, the uncomfortable 3 or 4 week period post-op is a pretty insignificant amount of time.

I beg you to follow your doctor's recommendations, go slow and take it easy on yourself.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Sorry - I just have to respond to some things that were said in previous posts.

I would be really concerned about a bariatric surgeon who claims you will lose 30 pounds in the first month following Lap-Band surgery. If they are, they shouldn't be doing this surgery because they don't understand the band. Doctors place the band with no saline in it, let the stomach heal for 6 weeks, *then* will make adjustments. Since there is no restriction for the first six weeks, once the swelling goes down in stoma, there is no reason to believe you will not still feel hungry, because it's almost as if the band isn't there. I'm glad some of you are able to eat solid food so early, but you're taking your chances with problems further down the road.

Also, the Lap-Band has always been an *adjustable gastric band*, meaning even when it was first introduced in Europe, it was adjustable. There is a previous surgery that is still sometimes done called vertical banded gastroplasty. Here's a picture:

vertical-banded-gastroplasty.jpg

Uh ... sorry about the naked chick up there, I could have done without her but that's the only good picture of the surgery I found in a quick google search of VBG. But yeah, there's a band there, but there's lots of staples and you get a circle in your stomach. You can see they really screw up your stomach and the plastic band is not adjustable in any way. This is *not* the Lap-Band.

Sorry for running off at the mouth like this, but I started researching bariatric surgery in 2001, have known about the Lap-Band from before it was even approved in the United States, and just want to make sure people get the facts correct.

Thanks.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

My doc's diet was clear/full for 7 days. Then on to mushies for 7 days, then soft/low fat for 7 days then on to regular. I'm on the soft diet now. I'm really afraid to eat too much so I stop as soon as I "think" I could be full. I haven't felt fullness yet. I've been drinking about 100oz of Water per day inbetween meals to make sure I don't get hungry. For some reason I'm hungriest at night. I've started exercising and just feel better. I have to learn the difference between head and body hunger, and I think I'm getting better about it...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Ohhhhhhhhhh hunny...let me tell you, I had the same problem as you. The only thing that actually helped me, was drinking a Protein Shake everytime I was hungry. Honestly, it fills you up, and satisfies too. I just got really creative with mine, like putting Peanut Butter in the chocolate one, or blueberry yogurt in the vanilla. Trust me, it works!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thanks everyone for all the great advise.

When I get hungry I'll eat til I feel satisfied. I'm not going to worry about calories or losing 30 lbs in the first month. I did not get this band so that I could starve myself into losing massive amounts of weight the first month.

LBTers...you are the best!!

Good luck to all

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • vsg.with.sharon

      Hey everyone!
      I’m new here! Looking for some friends! 🥰
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • LeighaTR

      Four days post surgery. I am sipping as fast as I can and getting NO WHERE near the goal of 60 - 80 grams of protein or the 64 oz of liquids. I just feel FULL. I don't know if it can still be the gas build up (I would think by now that would be gone) but it is a struggle to drink. And so far I have not had the nausea or spasms and don't want to wander into that territory by pushing too hard with liquids. I about passed out today as it was my most "strenuous" day. Went from second story to basement for shower and I was sure I was going to pass out. Looking back on my last few days I have had a total of less than 1000 calories. Am I just not getting enough nourishment in me? Once again a friday where I can't get ahold of the doc until Monday rolls back around so I am hoping maybe someone here has some experience on how to keep energy going. I do have fibromyalgia too and that may be where some added fatigue comes into play. How did you all fair with the goals the week after surgery?
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      2 days until I fly out to San Diego to have my Bypass Surg. in Tiajuana Mexico. Not gonna lie, the nerves are starting to surface. I don't fear the surgery itself, or the fact that I'm traveling alone, but its the aftermath that I'm stressing about the most, after this 8 week wait. I'm excited to finally be here, but I am really dreading the post surgical chapter. I know its going to be tough, real tough and I think I'm just in my head to much now that the day i here. Wish me luck, Hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones, and everything goes smoothly. Cant wait to give an exciting update,. If there is anyone else have a June bypass or even a recent one, Id love to have someone to compare war stories with. Also, anyone near San Antonio Tx? See ya soon with the future me. 💜
      · 3 replies
      1. Phil Penn

        Good Luck this procedure is well worth it I am down to 249.6 lb please continue with the process..

      2. Selina333

        I'm in Houston so kind of near you and had the sleeve in Dec. Down 61 lbs. Feeling better. Was definitely worth it. I hope the everything is going well for you. Update us when you can!

      3. Doughgurl

        I am back home after my bypass surgery in Tiajuana. I'm post op day 4. Everything went great! I guess I'm one of the lucky ones who have not encountered much pain at all, no nausea thus far and I'm having no problem keeping down broths and water. Thank you for your well wishes. I cant wait to keep up this journey and have a chance at better health and simply better quality of life. I know there will be bumps in the road ahead, and everything won't be peaches and cream, but at least I have a great start so far. 😍

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×