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So, I went out with some co-workers last night to a bar for a drink or two then to a haunted house. AND...and random strange man bought me a drink at the bar AND I got invited out to club afterwards...(didn't go, but hey, it's the hitting on me that counts!).

I feel like such a GIRL!!!! I'm 37 and it's the first time a guy has tried to pick me up. Woohoo!

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Congrats! I'll bet it feels great! You deserve to feel good about your success. Keep it up!

Dave

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That's exciting.

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I like that NVS! You are looking great! Congrats! Karen(kll724)

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:wink2: Awesome.

I'm happy for you. It must be liberating.

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:wink2: you go girl!!!

How fun! I haven't been hit on in ages! Could be that I am ususally with my hubby. Oh well!

Very happy for you!

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Excellent. Waiting for that to happen to me. Been years since someone took a second look. (Unless you count the toothless homeless man who asked me to marry him.) LOL

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Excellent. Waiting for that to happen to me. Been years since someone took a second look. (Unless you count the toothless homeless man who asked me to marry him.) LOL

LOL, that made me crack up.

I have gotten a smile from a random man at the grocery store and that in and of itself felt great. It had been a very long time since someone other than my husband noticed me and that simple smile made me feel better about my appearance to others.

I dont count on those things to make me feel good about myself but it certainly helps boost the way am I already starting to feel. GO US!

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That is such a awesome feeling. I know I'm married, but it's something about a guy taking a notice in you to make you feel good. It's weird but since I have been loosing weight my husband has been more attentive??

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That's great!

I had a double-take last weekend in the grocery store from a guy. First time that's happened in a long time :wink2:

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The cutie I see in the deli most mornings winked at me a while back and now he always says, "Hi". He even tooted at me from his truck last week.

I found out his name is Rich. Not from him, but one of the other guys he works with said his name the other day. He is pretty young though. He is my pretend BF, since my real BF would not like it. LOL

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That is awesome! Even though I am married (not happily), I am looking forward to being noticed and hey, if I am out and someone wants to buy me a drink and chat me up, why not?

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I hadn't really thought about it until it happened but it was NICE to have someone be interested...not that he's someone I would have been interested in but HEY it was still nice! Almost makes me want to start hitting the bars and I have NEVER been a bar girl.

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