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- GLP-1 medication Zepbound, Wegovy, access, side effects, progress, and support.
- Before surgery Compare procedures, plan ahead, and get honest pre-op answers.
- Post-op Recovery, food stages, symptoms, and support.
- Long-term Regain, labs, habits, and life after the honeymoon.
- Revision Explore revision options, complications, and next steps.
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Travel Afterward
The pillow is a very good suggestion. In my experience there would have been no way for me to travel the first week after surgery. Definatly play it by ear.
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Tighter In he morning
I have had this issue from day one after surgery a year ago. At first it was because I drank too much coffee or water after my morning workout. Now that I am at my sweetspot I don't even bother eating breakfast until I have been awake at least an hour. All my other meals are fine...just breakfast sucks. Alot of the time I just drink a Cappachino Slimfast or mix a little protein shake with my morning coffee.
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I showed her!!!
I start a new job on Monday (which I am super excited about, but that is a different story). I had to turn in my name tag and a sheet signed off by a bunch of different departments to HR. They are on the first floor and I was told they could take my nametag. The girl (I say girl because she couldn't have been over 20) looked me up and down and said I needed to take it up to the 4th floor and since I would need the elevator she would escort me with the key. What the heck? I have lost over 80lbs and feel great. 4 flights of stairs doesn't even wind me anymore. I made it up and down without a hair out of place. She looked shocked. What a dork!
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Port Revision
So glad that things worked out! I would have freaked out a little! I felt the same way about my band but hit my sweet spot in April this year. It is really worth it.
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Change in Period/ Menst. cycle
It has been a year since my surgery. Because of my weight loss, even with and IUD I get my period on the same day. Watch out ladies....my doctor told me your fertility goes up with weight loss too!
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I feel like a failure! Almost a year banded and very little progress
Can your doctor do your fills over time, like 1-2cc at a time instead of just going straight to 5? Like a few others have said 50lbs is not a little progress.... that is HUGE! You should be proud of yourself. BTW our surgery dates are only 4 days apart!
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Banded 7/28 and ready for it to be removed
I didn't have this problem, but I didn't have any saline in my band after surgery. Do you? I would call your surgeons office ASAP.
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What do you wish someone told you ?
Great advice on the recliner! I lived in mine the first week after surgery. The gas wasn't a problem for me at all. I guess what surprised me the most was that I expected my recovery and surgery to be just like when I had my galbladder out. After that surgery I was taking care of my 4 month old son on my own. After my lapband I wasn't able to do much for about 2 weeks. I should have had my husband arranged more time off to stay and take care of both of us. I had to call my neighbors and ask them to take my son (17 months old by that time) into and out of his crib. I had to teach him to climb onto his changing table! :thumbdown: So to get to my point.....take it easy for the first few weeks, pamper and take care of yourself.
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Help! Hair is falling out.
I had the same problem about the same time out from surgery as you. My suggestion may sound a little weird but don't wash your hair as much. Try to go at least three days or longer without shampooing. My beautician gave me that suggestion. She said (and I actually saw Dr. Oz on Oprah say the exact same thing) that we wash our hair way too much and are stripping away the oils our hair needs to be healthy. Sometimes when I have used hairspray or something I will only use conditioner. If you think your hair looks bad use scarves, hats and ponytails. Hope you don't think I am crazy but it really has helped me with my weight loss- hair loss!
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Bandsters in/near Kaiserslautern Germany
Hello! So glad to see you all on here! We moved to Germany in December. It took forever to get a referal to get my band adjusted here. My doc in the states was VERY conservative about my fills. I was only at 4ccs and no restriction at all when I left (had surgery Aug 08 in Arkansas). I had a really good experience with Prof Weiner. There were some major differences in a German hospital than I am used to. I have a second appointment with him in a few weeks. In April his assistant added 4 ccs and boy had the weight fallen off since then! Anyone want to get together sometime? We live a ways out from base (close to Waldfishbach) but Hubby is stationed at Ramstein and I am getting ready to start a new job at LRMC.
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How did you know you hit your sweet spot?
I knew I hit mine when the scale dropped about 2-3 pounds a week and a meal took 30 minutes to an hour to eat. I had my last adjustment in the end of April and they added 4 ccs to bring me up to 8 cc! Since then I have gone from 255lbs to 214.
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What are your favorite mushies
My favorite after surgery was mashed potatos! I used roasted garlic chicken broth, a little nonfat milk and potato flakes. Super yummy! With the roasted garlic chicken broth you don't even notice that there is no butter!
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miserable help
I know this sounds really simple and probably stupid but it was the only thing that helped me. I spent the first week after surgery in my recliner, half reclined with a small pillow held to my stomach. For some reason that halfway recline was very comfortable. I guess because I wasn't stretched out like lying down and not cruched up during sitting. I also held the pillow to my belly because it made me feel secure, kind of like I wasn't falling out. Call your doctor if the pain meds aren't working. Maybe you just need something else. I took meds for three weeks after surgery and did have to change them because my body got used to them. I am coming up on my one year anniversary in a couple of weeks and I have to agree with the previous posters. In a few months you will be thinking 'I was worried about that? The pain was that bad?'.
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probably been asked a million times.........
Even at my last fill up to 8 cc I couldn't tell any difference with the water at the doctor's office. I sipped it really slow. I could never tell until it was time to eat. I think that is so wonderful about our bands is that they are adjustable and we can make them work for us as things change.
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Greetings from a Military Wife a year after surgery!
No, Tricare didn't require it. Are you and/or your husband civilian? Is that why you are with Atena? It ended up being super easy with Tricare. The only snag I had was with my PCM but my husband and I were able to talk him into the referal request. Where do you work on Landstuhl?