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blackonynx

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  1. This is exactly why I didn't tell anyone but my husband to daughters about getting the band. I have haters and food police aat work and even some family members. I never want people to watch my every bite and question wheather or not I should be eating something or talking behind my back saying things like "DID YOU SEE WHAT SHE ATE". yes, people can really sabbatoge you.
    1. Hi, Im ebonymc. I read one of your threads and was wondering, were you banded on the 4th? so was I. and i have now lost 18.5 lbs. It also sounds as if we both had the same problem with gas. let me hear from you soon. Thanks, Ebonymc

  2. hey, how is it going? Im doing better and feeling much stronger now days. I have one more week before moving on to mushies. I know, My doc is having his patients do liquids for 4 weeks post. I am soooo ready to eat because I still have no restriction yet. what about you? we will talk later.

  3. blackonynx

    PLEASE let the gas go away

    hey guys, 5 days out of surgery and the gas is unbelievable. im on liquids and haven't had a fill yet, but im experiening some sort of reflux. Anyone know what Im talking about. I heard that walking helps to get rid of it, but it aint working. the gas just wont all come out---HELP!!!!. I've even tried gasx strips.
  4. Hi, thanks for checking on me. Im doing ok. I got a little depressed one day but i kept my spirits up and havent looked back on that day. Staying positive. How about you? How are you doing? Im still on liquids hopefuly for only 2 more days untill my doc appt.

  5. thanks for your comment on "the haters" You are right, it is about me and trying to get healthy. Im still hoping I made the right choice. Im still on liquids and having a time with being tired,sleepy and low energy. Im only 12 days out and hoping this gets better. If I told my coworker at this point that I had the surgery, she would only make me feel worse by saying negative things. But as I get over this early stage, and I have confidence in my choice, I will tell her and flaunt it down the hall. THANKS!!

  6. blackonynx

    No Energy

    hi donna, I dont have the answer to that question but I would also like to know what to do. I have been having the same problem so far. I was banded on the 4th and Im still tired,sleepy and feel of no energy. im not on vitamins yet and I keep telling myself that once on vitamins and at least eating some soft foods, that I will feel a lot better. good luck to us both!
  7. blackonynx

    Anyone Dealing with haters?

    How do I deal with the haters? I havent told anyone except spouse and children that I was getting banded. there is one person at work that knows because we were both doing this on a buddy system, except she had GBP surgery. she is doing well and have lost 75 lbs and the haters are really giving her hell. What do I do? go ahead and tell them or continue to lie about it. Im 12 days out of surgery right now, but they will soon start to see my weight loss as well.:thumbup:
  8. blackonynx

    Anyone Dealing with haters?

    How do I deal with the haters? I havent told anyone except spouse and children that I was getting banded. there is one person at work that knows because we were both doing this on a buddy system, except she had GBP surgery. she is doing well and have lost 75 lbs and the haters are really giving her hell. What do I do? go ahead and tell them or continue to lie about it. Im 12 days out of surgery right now, but they will soon start to see my weight loss as well.:sad:
  9. blackonynx

    Finally..Im scared.

    you're right, I have thought about the start and the end weight. I didnt give much thought to what I may have to go through to get to that end weight. and what about my co-worker? I have one thats kinda close to me but I know how negative she feels about any weight loss surgery, so I dare not tell her. One other co-worker had the GBP and the first coworker is really hating on her and we know thats its only due to her losing some weight. therefore I must lie to her in order to have peace with her on the job. What do I do? she will soon start to see my weight loss too.
  10. Hi, thanks for the invite. I visited your site and it is nice. I tried to send a response but I clicked the wrong thing and it wouldn't submit. Ill post again later. what I basically said was "YES, I am feeling better. most of the gas is going away and thanks to gasx, v8, and very warm water. today was my 1st day back to work. it was very laid back so I was fine. I hope you continue to do well with your journey. You are motivating me to hurry up and get over these early days of hell...LOL... I am still a little sore too, and still getting bloated after eating (or should I say drinking). But it's getting better everyday. Im just afraid that Im not getting the proper nutrition. keep me posted on what your eating, we're in the same stage.

  11. thanks, I am doing more waqlking now and my gas pains today has been very mild. I think mybe my system is catching up. I havent started to walk in the A.M. I should have been doing that earlier. Thanks!

  12. blackonynx

    4 days post op!

    Im 5 days post and and NO, it havent been a barrel of laughs. not to complain though. I too am on liquids, ice pops, and jello, and sugar free everything liquid LOL. It did feel good to be home in my own bed
  13. blackonynx

    3 days post-op

    I didnt have much pain at all after ssurgery, but after going home the gas pains started. Like you, I was also nervous all the way leading up to my surgery. six days post op and everytime I think the gas is gone, it shows back up meaner than before.
  14. hey, Im doing good. this gas is just hanging on long than I thought or hoped. how did you get rid of yours? anyway, you seem to be moving faster than I am because I wont get a fill untill after the first week in September. so far not getting hungery and Im slowly regaining my strength. I hope it all comes back soon beacause Im ready to get back my usual activities LOL.

  15. blackonynx

    PLEASE let the gas go away

    hey guys, 5 days out of surgery and the gas is unbelievable. im on liquids and haven't had a fill yet, but im experiening some sort of reflux. Anyone know what Im talking about. I heard that walking helps to get rid of it, but it aint working. the gas just wont all come out---HELP!!!!. I've even tried gasx strips.:thumbup:
  16. Hi, I read your comment to bikecicny and I'm like you. Im still a little tired and low energy. I did manage to do laundry this morning, and I made myself stay out of the bed today. the gas is kicking my a--. really getting worse instead of better, and I still look pregnant. Hopefuly these will be the things we will remember when we talk about our starting journey. banded on 8-4 also. lets keep in touch!

  17. blackonynx

    On My Way! Just Starting Out

    Hi, yep also banded on 8-4. No puree foods yet for me, all liquid with the exception of thinned grits or cream of wheat. it seems that we are about the in start weight and now weight. I think you're ahead one week before me on the fill date. i've walked some every day but not far. I still get tired out but trying to regain where I was before surgery.keep in touch!!
  18. I know what you mean about the gas. I am still miserable and also bored. the gas pain in my BACK, LEFT SIDE, and the occassional rising in my throat is unreal. I keep telling myself that mybe it'll get better tomorrow. going shopping for a new shirt sounds good. I'll ask my hubby to take me. I am still getting tired out easily, but I must remember, It haven't been a week yet. I meant to tell you about that pic I thought I was sendind, but forgot to add it as an attachment. Ill try again later.

  19. Heng in my girlfriend, We did it! I had no problems and it does seem to get a little better each passing day. but the gas pain and reflux feeling in my throat is causing some discomfort. But not to complain, it will get better with time. How are you? Let me hear from you. my hubby,children and grand children are a big help and Im getting spoiled.

  20. blackonynx

    Surgery tomorrow and nerves are kicking in

    Hi, was I ever nervous. I had already backed out of this surgery at least 3 times. I was so afraid to do it. but even more afraid not to do it. It was health reasons for me. I had no complications in the hospital and was feeling really good. now the gas is taking over and im also sore on the left side. hopefully,this will all pass too. good luck to us!!!
  21. how are you doing? I have been a little sleepy the last couple of days but also up walking around and trying to deal with the liquids. Today I have been up more but im having a pain on my upper left side. I hope it's just gas that will soon move. Let me hear from you!!

  22. I was bandeed on the 4th. and I have been trying to get in my water too. I am not hungery at all, and its hard to get in the liquids. Im sleeping on both sides as of last night. I haven't been quite as tired and sleepy today as the past couple of days. my Doc said that He didnt see a hernia but I am now experiencing a since of welding up pain that comes and goes in my throat. just started to take prevacid and I sure hope it starts to work soon...LOL. all other pain is about gone!
  23. Hello, I was banded on 8-4-09. I had very little pain after surgery, but I now have this welding since of reflux or something in my throat. any of you having that prob? everything else is doing well.
  24. Hi Tawanda, I hope to be where you are soon. Im getting banded in a couple of days, August 4th is my banding date. Am I nervous? Shaking in my boots. But I keep reminding myself of the main reason that Im doing this. and that is to better my health. I have type 2 diabetes and high B/P. for at least 12 years I've been on these meds and I feel the need to take control and try to get off of them. But if I start looking good along the way, then it's all good and I wont complain....LOL. I hope you read this message before my date and send me some tips and positive feedback. Thanks, and keep up the hard work.

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