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How can you be 100% pro life but then say it's okay to kill (in your words) a baby if it was conceived after a rape or incest...? Why is that okay with you?

Yeah but it's not the illegal under all that was highest....it was the legal under certain. The legal under any was still higher than the illegal under all....so if you think about it the vote that raised it was the pro lifes that are partly pro choice if you give them the right circumstance...so if you add up all the legal legal legal ones they far out do the illegal ones....just an observation

Thank you. The doctor's told me that everything look okay and that they want me to wait to try again until July or August...Good point with the IVF...

I will thank you so much All of you

Thank you Gadget. I spoke with a Grieve counselor at the hospital today...she gave me her number if I need to talk again...also I have my mom and hubby to talk to.

We may not all control what happens to us, but we can control how we react to what happens...I have my moments, but I am trying to keep it together

Sometimes it helps to have something put bluntly instead of dressing up the elephant in the room and covering it with a sheet...sometimes we all need that little push of reality that keeps us grounded and concentrated on what we have...not what we lost.

Well put...it still sucks though

Don't be sorry...today I was at the OB/GYN to have an ultrasound...and a lady looked at me and asked me how far along I was...I told her I would have been 5 weeks and she saw my son and said aww look he knows that there's another little one on the way...I just smiled and walked away...I could have went off on her, but would good would that have done...don't be sorry for being who you are

The miscarraige that I had was because the egg or sperm had defects...so my baby was naturally "aborted"...I was just saying that how is it different...just because it's natural makes it ok?

If death is the doorway to "God" then he shouldn't care what brings us to his doorway, but rather what keeps us from it. "A mother is God in the eyes of a child"...I think I have the right to decide what happens to my fetus just like "God' has the right to decide what happens to his children...?

Both of the things I asked about were an abortion...if you would have asked why is it not okay for a man to shoot his neighbor but ok for God to shoot him....

Thank you, Patty. I really apreciate it. So just curious (to anyone, not just Patty)...why is itn't it okay for a woman to abort a baby that has physical problems, but it's okay for "God" to do it?

I'm feelin...okay I guess. I went in today and they said the miscarraige was a complete one so they don't need to do a D and C...which is good I guess...Emotionally I am still aching.

You're almost there!!! lol

You cannot judge Jamie by the actions of her sister. Jamie was on Nick for kids! She didn't dress or act like her sister...

Honestly have I ever seemed uncomfortable about something lol I, my dear, am up for any challenge lol

I live in Tacoma (University Place) and I see crap like that everytime I drive by the Planned Parenthood. It's out of hand. I told my husband I want to go to thier church and picket about how they treat these men and women (Mostly women)...It's disgusting!!!

Wow we are close...lol I never noticed!

Yeah, but then you miss out on all the fun...if I ever need to I just use the ignore button in my brain lol... and thank you

:crying: Thank you. I know by the time I told my mom she was already trying to find a flight. She hates being so far away. We have always been such a close family. I am confident that we will have another baby...even if we adopt We always wanted a big loving family :w00t:

...life does go on...

Thank you...It felt like I was being kicked when I was already down for the count. We're going to visit my family for memorial day weekend...it's when we were going to tell them we were pregnant...my mom is taking this almost as hard as I am

Thank you. I am trying to rest as much as possible with my son :crying:

Thank you so much. I really do appreciate it. I go to see the OB on Friday and will be able to discuss how long we need to wait and what we can do...I feel at fault even though I know I haven't done anything wrong...I guess it's just wanting to blame someone...something. It's hard to be so far away from my friends and family...My mom wanted to fly up here, but I told her know...I think it will be best if My husband and I deal with this together...to give us time to mourn just the two of us...and our son :crying: