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brneyedgirl42

Gastric Sleeve Patients
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    brneyedgirl42 got a reaction from logicwand in Home from the Hospital - Tips for You!   
    Thanks for your tips and guidance. So much I’m nervous about and your post really helped!



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    brneyedgirl42 got a reaction from Rosie15 in Any February Sleevers?   
    I’m 2/16! Looking for buddies too.


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    brneyedgirl42 reacted to Lauren1234 in Anyone that started around 300 want to share your stats?   
    I’m a 37 year old female. My highest weight was 350, then I got down to 303 on my own before the 10 day pre op diet. I lost 16 pounds on the 10 day diet, so I was 287 on the day of my surgery. Now I’m seven months out from surgery and weigh 172, so I’m actually a few pounds below my goal weight of 175, and I’m now slowly starting to ease into a maintenance phase.



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    brneyedgirl42 got a reaction from Elizabeth 06388 in Intro time: who's new to the group, who's pre-op, & who just recently made it to the loser's bench?   
    Hi there, I’m new here... in NJ. Surgery date is 2/16. Just had my pre-op appointment with my surgeon this morning. Ready to go! Super anxious and nervous.



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    brneyedgirl42 reacted to Bmwboy in Any February Sleevers?   
    Hey everyone today is Feb 1st an i have officially been sleeved. Everything went well but my stomach feels very sored. Good luck to you all.
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    brneyedgirl42 reacted to JCKlgl123 in Always tired   
    I'm so sorry to hear that. Can you make an emergency appointment with your surgeon or nutritionist? Personally, I've experienced a boost in energy post-op. Perhaps your fatigue is caused by not consuming enough calories. Also, I find that taking Vitamins before bed eliminates that crappy feeling. Feel better soon!

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    brneyedgirl42 reacted to kathyjo5 in Intro time: who's new to the group, who's pre-op, & who just recently made it to the loser's bench?   
    Just had my surgery on the 29 came home next day I'm sore and thirsty.but over all moving around pretty good

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    brneyedgirl42 reacted to wendybird in Home from the Hospital - Tips for You!   
    Hi Meg - on Day 1 yes it was clear water for me. Other programs are probably different, but mine is Clear Liquids the first two days and then clear liquids plus two Protein Shakes for a few days, then all liquids, etc etc.

    What made it hard to drink fast was that you could really feel each sip going down to your stomach, and too big of a sip or too much too fast would cause me chest pains.

    Cut to a day or so later and you can take sips closer together. It’s all part of the new normal!


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    brneyedgirl42 reacted to wendybird in Home from the Hospital - Tips for You!   
    Hi Everyone! I know I came to these forums to help prepare me for the surgery, so this post is about helping you be as prepared as possible and know the nitty gritty.
    I was sleeved Wednesday 1/24 in Chicago. Your mileage may vary.
    The night before, I was NPO after 9PM and was the first surgery of the day, so I had to be at the hospital at 5:15 am. Have a backup ride ready because you might not know this until the day before, and my husband had to stay home with our kids. Pro Tip: You can reserve a cab or Lyft ride in advance, so I had a lyft scheduled at 4:30 AM.
    They do weigh you at the hospital when you arrive. Pre-Op was a breeze. I have a high BMI so I had a shot of a drug to prevent blood clots, if you don't like shots, ask for it in the thigh. I had mine in my right shoulder both days and it was fine, nothing more than a flu shot feeling.
    Post op your mouth will be DRY. DRY DRY DRY DRY DRY. Bring lip balm to keep your lips moist and you will, will, WILL get through it. If it's really bad, make sure you are not getting dehydrated. Late on the night of my surgery, my heart rate and blood pressure went way up, so they gave me a "BOLUS" for dehydration, which is a lot of IV fluids really fast, it did the trick and by morning I was fine.
    WALK! Get up as soon as you feel able to. I walked and walked, and peed and peed. They will measure your urine so don't flush it, there will be a measuring thing in the toilet, don't put paper in it because you want credit for every ML of urine you produce! And did I mention walk? It's so easy. I was shocked that I was the only person walking around the floor. It really helps with that gas pain.
    The morning after surgery I did a "water trial" where a member of the doc's team brought in two thimbles of Water. I had two hours to finish them and it took really about an hour. Go slowly. After that, I was not brought a tray of anything, just a FULL styrofoam cup of probably 20 oz of water and was told "this is what is between here and home." It took me about 3 hours to drink it, and then I was finally discharged around 3PM. Walking around in CVS on the way home is when the farting began. It hasn't stopped but I'll tell you I have zero gas pains!
    Get the liquid Tylenol. You will want it when you are home, even if just one incision hurts (I have five "stab wounds" and only one is really bothersome at all - and the liquid tylenol is enough.) Now I am home and am slowly sipping Premier Protien Clear (yum) and water (yum) all day. TIP: Don't buy the orange Protein water sold at Target, order the Premier Protein clear online. They are vastly different.
    TL:DR? You will fart a lot. That's good. You will burp a lot. That's fine. WALK A LOT. Stand up a lot. You'll do great.
    Ask me anything!

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    brneyedgirl42 reacted to BlueGirl1920 in Day two postop   
    I am doing much better today. My pain is mostly from the gas. I have been able to keep all of my liquids down and have had very little nausea. I haven't felt hungry. When I started to get a little hunger pain I sipped broth or Jello. Things seem good so far.
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    brneyedgirl42 reacted to kakatlady612 in Four hours postop   
    You know@brown- eyed girl I am not that worried about post surgery pain, i already have a fair amount dragging around this tired old body, that pain will be for a reason and it won't last forever. And I'll be so much healthier and thinner afterwards. I get excited and hardly can wait for you it to happen.

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    brneyedgirl42 got a reaction from BlueGirl1920 in The night before gastric bypass surgery.   
    You go girl!! Best of luck today!



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    brneyedgirl42 reacted to waffles in Any February Sleevers?   
    If anyone is interested, there's a new Closed Facebook group for Feb 2018 Sleevers! Just search "Feb 2018 Gastric Sleeve" and you'll find it.
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    brneyedgirl42 got a reaction from CarolaS in January/February 2018 Sleevers   
    I actually love the song! I didn’t know he was from Ireland


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    brneyedgirl42 reacted to HamZam in January/February 2018 Sleevers   
    I too am worried about the post-op pain but know it will be short lived. If anything I am more concerned about knowing how to live right afterward. I am excited thinking about being skinny, looking in my closest of black clothes and actually find something I WANT to wear and can fit into that has color and style. Don't worry too much on the little things and think about all the good things that will come with having the surgery. I am pretty sure that will get you excited :-)
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    brneyedgirl42 reacted to MsTipps in so nervous- please help ease my nerves!   
    Nerves are completely normal! I made a will as I was convinced something would go wrong. I had never had a general anaesthetic or anything before. In reality, the op was absolutely fine and I was up walking soon after. Been home since the second day and keeping my Water and Protein down fine. There is nothing you can't handle - I promise. X
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    brneyedgirl42 reacted to orionburn in so nervous- please help ease my nerves!   
    Most of us had nerves that were shot leading up to surgery. You're far from alone. I've had surgery before so going under didn't really phase me or concern me, but not knowing what to expect waking up was the scary part. The morning of surgery I was nervous, but at the same time ready to be done with it. After doing a 6 month program (and other delays) and then the last 2 weeks with the pre-op diet I was wanting it to be finished.

    Everyone has a different story to tell. For some it's a walk in the park. For others it was a tough few weeks. Comes down to hope for the best, prepare for the worst. You'll find very few people that truly regret their surgery. It does happen, and my heart goes out to those folks, but luckily for most it's a relatively short period of discomfort for a long road of feeling better. That gave me peace of mind that so many in this community were thankful to have gone through it. Even some of those that did have some complications yet had no regrets (myself included).
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    brneyedgirl42 got a reaction from CarolaS in If you are scared, maybe my story can help.   
    That is amazing!!! Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so nervous about the surgery, staying in the hospital and post-op. Glad to know it’s worth it!!


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    brneyedgirl42 reacted to sstacie707 in January/February 2018 Sleevers   
    You are not alone. I’m not excited yet either lol. I’m not worried about the post op pain. I’m worried about the pre op diet and being able to conquer that and then about not eating for a long time after that. If I didn’t have to cook for my family I probably think it would be easier. When are you having your surgery?


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    brneyedgirl42 reacted to HDScarlett in What do you drink on a post op night out?   
    Im a vodka girl, and have found that I can only tolerate one or two post surgery. I gave up diet coke which was hard enough ( Im surprised that I have only craved it once in 5 months - did NOT give in). So, I order a single shot of vodka in a tall glass with Water, ice and lime. Then I add Chrystal Light or another sugar free powdered drink mix to it (lemonade, cranberry, or margarita (get on Amazon) . Nobody has ever commented or forbid me to mix my own at a bar or restaurant cuz I am paying for the vodka.
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    brneyedgirl42 reacted to JupiterinVirgo in If you are scared, maybe my story can help.   
    When I was preparing to have my sleeve surgery, I spent a lot of time on this forum. I found most of the people here to be very helpful. Even though there's every kind of personality here, we all have one thing in common: we wanted to lose weight and be healthier.
    Approaching any surgery is scary. There are real risks, and real rewards when all goes well.
    I have struggled with weight my whole life. Total sugar junkie. Used food to replace every unmet need I had, to repress every emotion for which I was unprepared to deal.
    I gained and lost hundreds of pounds over the course of my life. Hundreds.
    When my husband died eight years ago it broke me. I shattered, and it took me almost a decade to put myself back together. During that time, I lost everything: my beloved, my home, my income, even my sense of self. And I spent the next eight years eating to fill this giant empty void inside my being where someone who I thought of as the love of my life used to be.
    I ballooned up bigger than I had ever been, surpassing my previous high weight and moving into the 320s.
    I avoided social situations, and only left the house when necessary. I was afraid I would have to ask for a stronger chair when invited to sit down for dinner at somebody's home. I was afraid that I would need to sit down every 20 or 30 steps during a leisurely stroll through the mall with a friend. My body ached; sometimes the pain was so bad that I could scarcely move-even sitting still was painful.
    Life had become extremely small.
    Deciding to get the surgery was surprisingly easy, but getting through the approval process and going through with the surgery summoned up terror in me that had been there since my first surgery when I was three years old.
    I thought it would be a miracle if I were able to get the surgery, simply because my trauma was so severe for so many years that it seemed like an impossible feat to put myself in the hands of medical professionals, who I have never trusted all my life.
    With lots of support from my mother, my sister who had already had the surgery, and my therapist, I was able to get the sleeve.
    And it changed my life!
    I also decided that I was going to make up for lost time now that I was going to be able to physically get around again. I sold all my stuff, ditched my apartment, bought an RV and moved in! And it's wonderful! I could not have fit in here, nor could I do the things necessary when living in an RV, at my previous weight.
    This surgery has allowed me an opportunity for a whole new lease on life. I am officially one year postop, and I am down about 130 pounds, with another 30 to go. It's amazing the difference a single year can make!
    If you know that this is right for you, and the only thing giving you pause is fear that is not coming from your true intuition: there are many people on these forums who feel that this surgery has saved our lives.
    I am one of those people. Here is a before and present a photo of me, in a year, this could be you!
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    brneyedgirl42 reacted to survive.sleeve.slay in January/February 2018 Sleevers   
    I know. Just breathe. They do give you something to calm you before surgery usually so one minute you're freaking out then you're like.....okay.....yes....I can do this.....lol.

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    brneyedgirl42 reacted to Sunn in January/February 2018 Sleevers   
    Mine is Feb 6th. I am nervous as well. I am trying to read as many forums as I can to learn from others experience. Seems to me most people are happy with their end results ! Keeps me going!!

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