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confusedturtle3

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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from GreenTealael in ❤ MAY 2019 CHALLENGE❤   
    I would like to join. I'm roughly 18 months PO and was down 86 lbs before a 15 lb regain, these last 2 semesters of school have been rough. My goals for May are to lose 8 lbs of my regain (2 lbs per week), get active again and comfortably fit into a smaller size of scrubs (currently in a large and putting on mediums feels like Im going to be trapped forever lol!). That last one might be stretch but we'll see what happens 😉
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from GreenTealael in ❤ MAY 2019 CHALLENGE❤   
    I would like to join. I'm roughly 18 months PO and was down 86 lbs before a 15 lb regain, these last 2 semesters of school have been rough. My goals for May are to lose 8 lbs of my regain (2 lbs per week), get active again and comfortably fit into a smaller size of scrubs (currently in a large and putting on mediums feels like Im going to be trapped forever lol!). That last one might be stretch but we'll see what happens 😉
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from GreenTealael in ❤ MAY 2019 CHALLENGE❤   
    I would like to join. I'm roughly 18 months PO and was down 86 lbs before a 15 lb regain, these last 2 semesters of school have been rough. My goals for May are to lose 8 lbs of my regain (2 lbs per week), get active again and comfortably fit into a smaller size of scrubs (currently in a large and putting on mediums feels like Im going to be trapped forever lol!). That last one might be stretch but we'll see what happens 😉
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from kitty1392 in How soon should you put on a Girdle?   
    I wear an ab binder to help with pain. It holds my stomach tight so that when I sneeze, cough or laugh in public it doesn’t hurt as much. It allows me to sleep on my side and reduces my pain when getting up, sitting down or going for a walk. I love mine, I don’t have any expectations that it will help with sagging skin or anything though. I have no idea about shape wear, wish I could help more.


    Have a great day!
    Amanda
    HW 248 CW 230 SW 231 ASW 239
    Surgery Date: 11/21/2017.
    Goal weight 150’ish 🤞🏼
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from HamZam in What is a non-food activity your REALLY looking forward to?   
    I want to do kick boxing and cross fit. I don't have the energy to do it now but I would love to get to that fitness level someday. I have a goal dress, it's been waiting 8 years for me to wear it, that's when and why I bought it. I plan to wear it in 2018 [emoji6]



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    confusedturtle3 reacted to SassyScienceNerd in Cat out of the bag   
    I am a secret sleever, I only told a few friends and my doctors (one of whom is a very good friend of mine). I won't get into all my reasons why, but I just decided to keep it to myself.
    I always knew that when I started dating, I would have to decide when I was serious enough about someone to tell them. It's been 9 months and a lot of bad dates, but I met someone in October and he is incredible. I knew right away he was a keeper, and I pretty much dreaded the "so I've got this thing to tell you" conversation. I don't know if I just thought he would be scared off by the idea of meals always revolving around my restrictions, or that he would think I was a lazy failed dieter who took the easy way out, or if he'd see me as someone who was sick or something. But I finally told him the reason I only have a side of veggies or a cup of Soup or a few bites of my dinner when we go out is that I had most of my stomach removed. And of course, he was relieved. He said he noticed me eating like a bird and worried I might have an eating disorder, because he knew I used to be much heavier a year ago and now I'm not. I explained everything to him and that I really don't have much in the way of things I can't eat except bread and drinking milk which both give me tummy issues, so I avoid bread and I've switched to almond milk in my coffee. But other than that, nothing really is different except the amount of food I can eat. He was very accepting. When we eat out together, he confers with me on his order so we can just split his meal. He gets the veggies instead of fries on the side. He's just been lovely. And the first time I stayed over at his house, I tip-toed downstairs in the morning to find that he had bought some almond milk for me to have in my coffee.
    I'm so glad I told him and I feel so silly for worrying over what he would think. This was a big step and the first "new" person I've told besides my initial support group of close friends. It was a big deal and I'm very glad it's behind me!
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    confusedturtle3 reacted to bogglesauce in November sleevers here   
    Good morning, all!
    Saw the scale budge downward this morning finally. Maybe my stall is over - but I'm not counting my chickens just yet! Some changes I've recently made that have helped are:
    using a timer to make sure I am eating no sooner than 15 minutes after my last sip of any drink and drinking no sooner than 30 minutes after my last bite of food
    using 1 oz cups to measure my food and liquid, making sure I consume no more than 4 of those little cups in one sitting
    finding more lean Protein sources like beef Jerky, P3 protein packs, pork and smoked wild nova salmon from Trader Joe's.
    eating Wild Friends Protein+ Peanut Butter. Kind of a weird texture but it's tasty!
    no longer eating any dessert with sugar. I've switched to Voortman's sugar-free Cookies, Russell Stover sugar-free candy
    drinking Crystal Light Peach Iced Tea and Wyler's light lemonade I can't stand Protein Shakes, Protein Bars or any sweet sources of protein with the exception of peanut butter, so I've struggled a bit getting enough protein. However, I'm hitting about 70 grams a day now (finally) and that is helping a lot! Before, I was only hitting about 50 grams.
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from Nessam23 in Day of Surgery   
    You are going to do awesome! I am praying for a successful surgery and a fast and easy recovery for you and everyone going in this week.


    Have a great day!
    Amanda
    HW 248 CW 241 Surgery Date: pending 11/21/2017. Goal weight 150’ish
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from SouthernGirl80 in How many ounces of cream soup are OK for stage 2?   
    I think it depends on the size of your new stomach. My doctor said mine is about 4 oz so all I eat is 4 oz.


    Have a great day!
    Amanda [emoji16]
    HW 248 CW 230 SW 231 ASW 239
    Surgery Date: 11/21/2017.
    Goal weight 150’ish 🤞🏼
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from ProudGrammy in Anyone get busted lying about their surgery?   
    The closer I get to having my surgery (the 21st) the more I want to tell people. I am proud that I am finally taking control of my health and getting my weight under control. We are going to visit family for a week around Christmas and trying to hide it when visiting 2 different families everyday just seems exhausting. I don’t want one of my kids or one of the few people I’ve told to slip so I think I will just let people know after I have it done. One of the people I told is already telling everyone at church and one person has been very disrespectful in addressing me about it.


    Have a great day!
    Amanda [emoji16]
    HW 248 CW 241 SW ?
    Surgery Date: 11/21/2017.
    Goal weight 150’ish 🤞🏼
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from MsShortyDee in My sleeve hates me   
    Thank you, my sleeve (Audrey) and I are getting along great now lol. I named her Audrey after the plant from Little Shop of Horrors because she doesn’t gently grumble when she wants something, she punches my in the chest and demands it.


    Have a great day!
    Amanda
    HW 248 CW 230 SW 231 ASW 239
    Surgery Date: 11/21/2017.
    Goal weight 150’ish 🤞🏼
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from SeaSounders♥ in November sleevers   
    I don’t know if that is normal but so far I have not had a BM since the day of my surgery. Now that I am steadily taking in Protein again I am going to start adding Fiber and try to get things moving. If that doesn’t work I plan to try a laxative.


    Have a great day!
    Amanda
    HW 248 CW 230 SW 231 ASW 239
    Surgery Date: 11/21/2017.
    Goal weight 150’ish 🤞🏼
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from Nessam23 in Waiting Game! Nervous   
    I have been teetering at 40.1 for the last 2.5 months I was told any gain would disqualify me and falling below 40 would disqualify me. Can you call them and ask if you still fall under the insurance acceptance rules for surgery? Mine was strait forward with me, they had a few people disqualify because of slight gains and falling below the minimum BMI.
    Have a great day!
    Amanda
    HW 248 CW 241 Surgery Date: pending 11/21/2017. Goal weight 150’ish
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from MsShortyDee in My sleeve hates me   
    Thank you, my sleeve (Audrey) and I are getting along great now lol. I named her Audrey after the plant from Little Shop of Horrors because she doesn’t gently grumble when she wants something, she punches my in the chest and demands it.


    Have a great day!
    Amanda
    HW 248 CW 230 SW 231 ASW 239
    Surgery Date: 11/21/2017.
    Goal weight 150’ish 🤞🏼
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from MsShortyDee in My sleeve hates me   
    Called my doc and he managed to get me some anti nausea meds. The nausea is still there but I’m not puking every time I drink anything. Still taking tiny sips (5-7 sips per ounce) to make sure my sleeve doesn’t get angry again. Thanks for the advice


    Have a great day!
    Amanda
    HW 248 CW 241 SW ?
    Surgery Date: 11/21/2017.
    Goal weight 150’ish 🤞🏼
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from mamamc32 in Trying to plan ahead (Holiday with in laws)   
    Thank you, that’s what I will do[emoji1360] I will be on solids just before we leave, I don’t think I will have a chance to try those things before going. I really don’t want to have to throw it up, seems easier to just avoid it. Thank you [emoji16]


    Have a great day!
    Amanda [emoji16]
    HW 248 CW 230 SW 231 ASW 239
    Surgery Date: 11/21/2017.
    Goal weight 150’ish 🤞🏼
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from SeaSounders♥ in Trying to plan ahead (Holiday with in laws)   
    We will be visiting family for Christmas this year and I will be at the solid foods stage by then. They are all about the food, their cooking means so much to them if you don’t have something then they will get upset. I’ve looked up most of the nutritional info on the foods and have found some I can eat and others to avoid. The ones I am most unsure of is lumpia (egg rolls) because of the wrapper and pancit because it is noodles. I’m concerned the noodles or wrapper might get hung up or swell up, what do you think? I can bypass them, no problem, but asking just to make sure.
    Please don’t think I am asking because I want to return to the foods that made me fat. I didn’t do all of this just to jump into bad habits. I’m going to be there a week and want to make good decisions while I am there. If I have a plan, I can avoid things that won’t work. I’ve done this same thing with Restaraunt’s and fast food joints incase my family decides to go out. I am not allowed to cook while I am there so it’s their food or Protein Shakes.< /p>
    Have a great day!
    Amanda
    HW 248 CW 230 SW 231 ASW 239
    Surgery Date: 11/21/2017.
    Goal weight 150’ish 🤞🏼
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from mamamc32 in Trying to plan ahead (Holiday with in laws)   
    Thank you, that’s what I will do[emoji1360] I will be on solids just before we leave, I don’t think I will have a chance to try those things before going. I really don’t want to have to throw it up, seems easier to just avoid it. Thank you [emoji16]


    Have a great day!
    Amanda [emoji16]
    HW 248 CW 230 SW 231 ASW 239
    Surgery Date: 11/21/2017.
    Goal weight 150’ish 🤞🏼
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from SeaSounders♥ in November sleevers here   
    My surgery was 11/21 I had nausea for the first 3 days and could only keep things down when on anti nausea meds. Yesterday was the first day I got close to to my 64 oz and was able to drink a whole Protein Drink, today I woke up hungry for the first time. Everyday is getting better. My 7 day clear diet ends on the 29th, I would kill for a tiny bowl of cream Soup


    Have a great day!
    Amanda
    HW 248 CW 230 SW 231 ASW 239
    Surgery Date: 11/21/2017.
    Goal weight 150’ish 🤞🏼
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from SeaSounders♥ in any November 2017 sleevers?   
    Yesterday I had my surgery, the first few hours were rough. Nausea from the anesthesia was rough and the gas pains were no joke. I tried to walk a few minutes every hour from about 5 hours out of surgery on and it helped. My surgeon is against using gas-x so I was not allowed to use mine. I passed the barium swallow and now I need 3 consecutive hours of drinking and keeping down 4 oz of either Water, broth, crystal light or Protein Drink. So far so good


    Have a great day!
    Amanda
    HW 248 CW 241 SW ?
    Surgery Date: 11/21/2017.
    Goal weight 150’ish 🤞🏼
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from SeaSounders♥ in any November 2017 sleevers?   
    Safe travels & safe surgery [emoji177] praying for you [emoji4]


    Have a great day!
    Amanda [emoji16]
    HW 248 CW 241 SW ?
    Surgery Date: 11/21/2017.
    Goal weight 150’ish 🤞🏼
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from SeaSounders♥ in any November 2017 sleevers?   
    Today is my day, waited to get called back now. Surgery @ 7:30 [emoji51]


    Have a great day!
    Amanda [emoji16]
    HW 248 CW 241 SW ?
    Surgery Date: 11/21/2017.
    Goal weight 150’ish 🤞🏼
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from SeaSounders♥ in any November 2017 sleevers?   
    We’re almost there [emoji1373] I am starting to feel nervous though, I got the preop Check in call this morning and it got real, fast. Check in is at 6am and surgery starts at 7:30 tomorrow morning. 🤞🏼 I am going crazy cleaning and purging the house of spring/summer fat clothes. Keeping them feels like I’m betting against myself and I’m determined to never fit into those clothes again [emoji1377]


    Have a great day!
    Amanda [emoji16]
    HW 248 CW 241 SW ?
    Surgery Date: 11/21/2017.
    Goal weight 150’ish 🤞🏼
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from SeaSounders♥ in any November 2017 sleevers?   
    That is wonderful, glad you are doing so well! I’m going to follow your lead and walk walk walk after surgery [emoji177]


    Have a great day!
    Amanda [emoji16]
    HW 248 CW 241 SW ?
    Surgery Date: 11/21/2017.
    Goal weight 150’ish 🤞🏼
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    confusedturtle3 got a reaction from SeaSounders♥ in any November 2017 sleevers?   
    You are going to do great. Sending you (((Hugs))) and prayers for a successful surgery and a fast and easy recovery [emoji177]


    Have a great day!
    Amanda [emoji16]
    HW 248 CW 241 SW ?
    Surgery Date: 11/21/2017.
    Goal weight 150’ish 🤞🏼

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