Sweet as peaches

Let them hate because you are bringing sexy back. Your dreads and raising your family all on your own is enough to make people hate. But I am proud as a woman to see a brother doing the damn thing right. You keep on jamming.

Let them hate because you are bringing sexy back. Your dreads and raising your family all on your own is enough to make people hate. But I am proud as a woman to see a brother doing the damn thing right. You keep on jamming.

Well, I'm pretty smooth and charming so I want someone that is like me. I dress to impress and I want someone that matches and is comfortable with my lifestyle.
I don't think it is worth getting dressed, doing my hair and makeup for a coffee date. I know a lot of people don't share this perspective which is exactly why I adopted it. It weeds out a lot of men that are a waste of my time.
I used to do coffee dates like 2 years ago. I found that the kind of men that asked me out for coffee were not the kind of man that interested me, so I stopped doing it.
Guys that are introverts are going to ask you to coffee, they want to avoid crowded situations. These are exactly the men I want to avoid like the plague. I have negative interest in dating an introvert, being friends with one, or just associating with them in general. I am an extrovert and I like to be surrounded by other extroverts. I find introverts to just be energy vampires.
The coffee date guys are also just mass dating. They are doing coffee dates because it is a cheap way to check someone out without much time or money investment. Those guys are the real players. They ask you to coffee so they can verify how pretty you are or not, and then they ask you out on a real date if you pass the coffee date test. They ask you to coffee, then try to push it into dinner and invite you back to their place. Rolling 3 dates into one night with the goal of taking you to pound town.
A busy professional male with a worthwhile career doesn't have time for coffee dates if he is really looking for something real. Guys that are players are trying to date the most amount of women for the least cost and time investment. They are not buying concert tickets or taking you to MLB games.
I used to be a hiring manager in IT. I can gauge if I am going to click with someone in a few text messages. I am a good judge of character for the most part. After that I want to see how you act in public and what your mannerisms are like in a few situations. I like being out and about and doing lots of activity and things, always have. I want to avoid homebodies and the quiet evenings at home guys like the plague.
Since I refined my dating requirements, I am going on higher quality dates with higher quality men. Basically getting exactly what I want from dating.

I know how that goes. People can really get under your skin. I was getting pissed for you too when I read the comments.

I know how that goes. People can really get under your skin. I was getting pissed for you too when I read the comments.

The way I was dropping sizes I would have needed that 45 a month for clothes.
BP was my accountability and support that first year. I did the challenges and stuff like that. Posting daily kept me on track. Reading what people did wrong and how they were not losing reminded me what not to do, daily.
Also I would feel really uncomfortable at WW with people that haven't had surgery when my WLS is on easy mode and they are trying to lose weight with a normal stomach and hunger. I would feel like my success would be making someone else feel worse.

Someone call the fire department. Cause you are smoking hot. Congratulation.

Hi @Litecaramel I know you are besides yourself with emotions but from one very private person to another don't let anyone play tricks with your mind subconsciously or the opposite of subconsciously. You are getting the surgery for the right reasons people stories are their stories. Complications happen but go in there positive and pray and you will be fine. Take the surgery by the hand and come out swinging a home run. I'm glad to know you are doing it.

Yes, i guess it would be. I am waiting to finish next month bill then i can afford it.

I tried to get rid of Verizon television because it was killing my pockets but I have 11 months left on the contract so instead of paying the early term fee I opted to stay. I only need internet cause we don't watch tv. Here to cutting cost of unnecessary uses in our life. I love football but I haven't been watching last season. It's coming up in a couple months so maybe I will watch it while I have my tv.

Wow!!!! Impressive keep up the great work.

I tried to get rid of Verizon television because it was killing my pockets but I have 11 months left on the contract so instead of paying the early term fee I opted to stay. I only need internet cause we don't watch tv. Here to cutting cost of unnecessary uses in our life. I love football but I haven't been watching last season. It's coming up in a couple months so maybe I will watch it while I have my tv.

I love hearing about saving money and my bbf I am so proud of you focusing on the future and being the great role model for your children continued success.

I tried to get rid of Verizon television because it was killing my pockets but I have 11 months left on the contract so instead of paying the early term fee I opted to stay. I only need internet cause we don't watch tv. Here to cutting cost of unnecessary uses in our life. I love football but I haven't been watching last season. It's coming up in a couple months so maybe I will watch it while I have my tv.

Wow!!!! Impressive keep up the great work.

I went to the gym today! So proud of myself! First visit in over 2 years but I took it easy. Feels good to be more active!

I didn't make anything for dinner but popped a Nourish bowl in the microwave. I added some ramen to it for my husband, for extra filling. He'll probably eat leftovers tomorrow.
I had every opportunity to work out today after work but I decided that I just wanted to rest. So I did. 3 hours of it. Lol.
We're selling our 2015 Silverado Crew Cab for a used 2013 Dodge Journey. Why? $200 less a month and shaves off $15,000 of debt. my husband is selling his 2016 Indian scout sixty motorcycle too, another $10 grand. We're keeping my Avalon though....since it'll take God's miraculous hand to get us out of the loan..we shall see. Why are we doing all of this? To be debt free of course, to not be slaves financially anymore. Totally off wls topic, but it's another area of a health in my life. Financial health that needs a good exercise and diet too. 😊
I'm excited. I get a total body makeover and a total money makeover!!! 🤗😀🤣😁😊

The more you lose the less fat is in the skin and it gets easier.

Hello family, i am feeling so happy with my body that I am walking pass mirrors to if. I noticed any changes cause to many people are asking bout my weight loss.

Hello family, i am feeling so happy with my body that I am walking pass mirrors to if. I noticed any changes cause to many people are asking bout my weight loss.

Hello family, i am feeling so happy with my body that I am walking pass mirrors to if. I noticed any changes cause to many people are asking bout my weight loss.

Brava!!!!! I am so glad you're done it is a true blessing after all that work you put in. Sometimes being your own advocate works miracles. May you heal properly.

Thumbs up to a job well done.continued success.

I say to this topic and people who ask dumb question. Saying negative comments or questions makes me itch especially when people know if they were given the chance to have the surgery they would too. Nobody wants to live this way and people can make you want to get violent with stupid questions. All of us who are struggling or had the surgery be strong, hold on and ignore idiots.

Nothing like a full hug to get you happy and dry. I'm so happy for you.