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My 600 lb life is a great motivator and reminder why I got sleeved, even though I was not even close to being that size. Sometimes I want to throat punch the whiney patients though LOL
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@@sarahb309 And yet another OLD person....Me...... What do you like doing in your free time? I like shooting guns... so i joined an all female gun group. I would tell you to find something you enjoy doing or something you have always had an interest in and seek out some gatherings.....
One thing i always do..... I never pass anyone with out saying hello or Hi.... I have met some great people like that. coffee shops are a great place to sit and strike up a conversation with others. You have something in common.... you both like coffee... Take a chance... just speak to someone... walk up and say hello I'm Sarah, i love your... and pick something they are wearing and complaint it. Are say something like.... Im new here and was wondering if you know of any good hang outs....
Places like Buffalo wild wing Hooters... etc has trivia night.... Go, let your hair down and remember these words..... I am beautiful, I am smart, I am a great person...

Hey all, I am so grateful for your help and wanted to keep ya updated! I actually just reconnected with two people I used to be best friends with in high school! I figure that's a good place to start since I won't be going back to college for another few weeks!
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@@sarahb309, I may be old enough to be mom of @@The New Kel -- but you may not call me by that other name.
Kel is so right. Instead of thinking in terms of people, pursue your interests and there you'll find kindred spirits. The interests and activities are the starting point, you and others will find wider common ground. Conversation will be easier and provide opportunities to suggest a coffee after the meeting or whatever the event.
As to your saying "I don't want to be friends with people who only like me b/c I lost weight," that's reasonable. It's sad that there are those who might start coming around because of it. There are plenty of others, though. Always remember that choosing friends and associates is a two-way street. You don't have to settle.
"I'm just nervous of being rejected! I am making the resolution of putting myself out there!" Nervous is normal. Lots of people of all weights feel it. It's part of being human. I have no way of knowing if you ever were "rejected" because of your weight. Something I do know is that, when a person is extremely self-conscious about any aspect, her own discomfort level can make others uncomfortable. Sure, your body is part of the package, but there's so much more -- your mind, personality, humor, curiosity and all the rest.
Have faith in yourself. You have cause to have faith.

Some people make friends so easily, right? I wish I was like that too!!
But.. you would be amazed at how many people you are surrounded by every day that feel the same way as you or are lonely. Everyone is just really good at covering up their feelings. Even people who seem to be surrounded by a crowd may not feel a connection with anyone or that their relationships are superficial or just based on partying.
Go ahead and put yourself out there. Can you join a club or get a job on campus to help you meet people?

Some people make friends so easily, right? I wish I was like that too!!
But.. you would be amazed at how many people you are surrounded by every day that feel the same way as you or are lonely. Everyone is just really good at covering up their feelings. Even people who seem to be surrounded by a crowd may not feel a connection with anyone or that their relationships are superficial or just based on partying.
Go ahead and put yourself out there. Can you join a club or get a job on campus to help you meet people?

Go for it. You'll run into all kinds of people in your life and some will be jerks but most will be nice. Don't let the jerks keep you away.
Keep us posted!!

Go for it. You'll run into all kinds of people in your life and some will be jerks but most will be nice. Don't let the jerks keep you away.
Keep us posted!!

Some people make friends so easily, right? I wish I was like that too!!
But.. you would be amazed at how many people you are surrounded by every day that feel the same way as you or are lonely. Everyone is just really good at covering up their feelings. Even people who seem to be surrounded by a crowd may not feel a connection with anyone or that their relationships are superficial or just based on partying.
Go ahead and put yourself out there. Can you join a club or get a job on campus to help you meet people?

Some people make friends so easily, right? I wish I was like that too!!
But.. you would be amazed at how many people you are surrounded by every day that feel the same way as you or are lonely. Everyone is just really good at covering up their feelings. Even people who seem to be surrounded by a crowd may not feel a connection with anyone or that their relationships are superficial or just based on partying.
Go ahead and put yourself out there. Can you join a club or get a job on campus to help you meet people?

What's the go with catheter do you have one or not?
I did not, or if I had one, it was gone by the time I woke up.

What was your hospital stay?
Went in Wednesday morning and was discharged by Thursday afternoon (dependent on passing leak test and then being able to keep some food down)

What was your operation time ?
Under an hour
Is there much scaring involved ?
I have 5 incisions: the main one is about an inch, the others are about a half inch. They are still a little red at 12 weeks.
Good luck!

Thanks for the reply! It's a team, Drake Bulldogs. I love the pups too tho!
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The past in in the past, and there is no amount of dwelling on it which will change it. Look forward to what the future brings, and resolve to be victorious one day at a time. You only have to do this for today, not tomorrow or the next. When tomorrow arrives, it is today, and you only have to do it for today. But if you dwell on the past, and contemplate the entirety of the future, it will crush you.

Best advice anyone can give you is to stay off the scale for now. Follow your plan and the weight will come off. If you are having trouble with Constipation, call your doctor for advice.
Our weight fluctuates hour by hour, day by day and the scale can make you nuts. You may have a day where you gain and then a day or two later you might drop between 2 and 5lbs.
Your body will give up its fight as long as you stay the course. Dont let it get to you.
Best of luck and congratulations on your surgery!

When you buy a medicine case for your pills/vitamins and the little lids won't close now because your Vitamins are bigger then all the pills you used to take
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When the wind catches your flabby skin and you hope you don't take off like a flying squirrel.
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Hi Hayley,
Good timing! @@BettyG just posted a great article a few days ago. She explains the hows and whys and what to expect. the good news is that if it happens, it is just temporary.
Here is the link: http://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/384412-post-surgery-hair-loss-explained/
Good luck with your surgery.

I have only told 4 immediate family members. It is not because I am embarrassed. It is because I don't want to hear unsolicited advice or intrusive questions.
are you allowed to eat that?
how much have you lost so far?
I knew someone who had surgery and got sick.
I knew someone who had surgery and gained it back.
You can lose it on your own.

I have only told 4 immediate family members. It is not because I am embarrassed. It is because I don't want to hear unsolicited advice or intrusive questions.
are you allowed to eat that?
how much have you lost so far?
I knew someone who had surgery and got sick.
I knew someone who had surgery and gained it back.
You can lose it on your own.

I have only told 4 immediate family members. It is not because I am embarrassed. It is because I don't want to hear unsolicited advice or intrusive questions.
are you allowed to eat that?
how much have you lost so far?
I knew someone who had surgery and got sick.
I knew someone who had surgery and gained it back.
You can lose it on your own.

I have only told 4 immediate family members. It is not because I am embarrassed. It is because I don't want to hear unsolicited advice or intrusive questions.
are you allowed to eat that?
how much have you lost so far?
I knew someone who had surgery and got sick.
I knew someone who had surgery and gained it back.
You can lose it on your own.

Well, as with reviews, the happiest people usually forget to post because they're are busy having fun. The dissatisfied customers on the other hand, fell the strong urge to voice their greviances when presented with platforms to do so.
Gastric sleeve is a major surgery. A few people go in with the mindset that it is a tonsillectomy.
Your body and mind will need time to adjust to the massive changes. By the time you realise it was worth it, you may also be too busy having fun.. ☺
All the best with your surgery
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@deeveg. That's exactly it. No one understands and they aren't educated in this enough to provide advice/feedback. But yet they do say those comments. It's frustrating. I have nurse friends who say it's so bad. I don't get it.
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YUKKY I tried PEA PROTEIN!!! YUKKY

Sometime before surgery I made two lists on my phone. List 1 was all the reasons I was having the surgery. List 2 is a list of all the things i'm looking forward to being able to do as I get healthier. In the tough times/weak moments (even still) I pull out those lists and remind myself why I'm doing this. Helps get my head back in the right place.
At parties and so forth - since you're on liquids make sure you always have a Protein shake or Water in your hand and whenever you feel tempted to snack, drink. Also focus on being the social butterfly in the room and talking to people, mill about so you aren't standing next to the same cookie tray/yummy appetizer tray etc letting it tempt you for any extended period of time.
And to encourage quality time with family rather than being a hermit, suggest going out and doing an activity - even just taking a walk through the neighborhood, going to see christmas lights etc - anything that isn't focused on food.