mnn2501

Yes!, thats why DW and I got banded within 2 weeks of each other, so we'd both be in the same boat. Have a talk with him and let him know this is just a tool and you need some help on this. Perhaps he could have his big meal of the day when he is at work and something smaller when he is home. Keep in mind, you shouldn't deprive him either - but for this to work you will need some consideration on his part too.

I got 3.5 cc's my first fill, but then both my doc and myself were very pleased with my weight loss so far (almost 40 pounds). He told me if I stop losing at least 5 pounds a month - then its time for another fill.

I think the bowling would do more harm than the drink myself.

Before surgery, this idea of a liquid diet is to shrink your liver so that the surgeon can see and work with your stomach - this is very important. After surgery, the liquid diet is for healing, your stomach has to churn basically to digest food, liquifying your food decreases this chruning and thus promotes healing - yes its hard but don't push it too far

Its on your upper stomach, not your esophagus, not sure why someone would post that unless they are very confused. I had my first fill yesterday and even though my port had flipped and they had to flip it back, there was very little pain. They numbed it first and the worst part was the numbing 'shot' after that it was a bit uncomfortable when they were flipping the port back (scale of 1 - 10 it was about a 2) the actual fill I didn't really even feel. Was a bit tender the rest of the night but I think that was the port issue rather than the fill.

My wife had a similar experience and asked the doctor, he said there would be pain and you could not eat if it slipped - so it sounds like you're ok. By all means tell your doctor next time you see him/her, but unless you are having problems, I don't think you need to worry.

I had them -- supposed to be for 10 days, was so black and blue and sore I gave up after 5 days. I still am black and blue (well actuall purple now) from the shots after a month. I think my body reacts poorly to it.

I try not to, but I just have to have small sips (very small) no problems with it yet. I used to down a 16 oz glass of milk or 20+ oz of soda with each meal, so my 2 or 3 very small sips of water is a big improvment and has caused no problems yet.

5 eggs!!! I am a month out and only eat 1 scrambled egg at a time -- I'm suprised you didn't loose it all. I am eating anything I want(chicken, steak, bread, pasta), just much much much smaller portions and chew, chew, chew! I was told my pouch (portion of stomach above the band)was about the size of an egg - so thats about how much I try to eat at a time.

After 1 week out (and going agaist doctors orders) I started adding scrambled eggs with cheese and sauted sausage, mashed potatoes with gravy and very small roast beef chunks, unblended soups I started eating raisen bran for breakfast about 2 weeks ago. I am now 32 days after banding, just got my first fill this afternoon, have lost 36 lbs and the doctor says I'm doing super. I've been doing real food (steak, corn, hamburger), etc for about a week, much smaller portions, chewed very well and eaten slowly and even had a chicken soft taco for lunch today . Perhaps I didn't follow instructions, but I am losing weight and doing great and don't feel deprived at all. I feel full and satisfied with about 1/4 of the calories I ate pre-banding. I am not telling you to cheat, just telling you what I did.

How about meat? Steak, chicken, etc :sneaky: cheese and eggs? I couldn't get my 60-70 grams of Protein till I got off the liquids (like you I have not found a Protein Drink I like or that didn't affect me negativly), now on 'real' foods I'm right on target

I had to take a multiple choice questionare -- took about an hour - then the 'shrink' read through it while I was in the waiting room (about 15-20 minutes, then we talked for about 45 minutes - so roughly 2 hours. And no puzzels.

Staples? never heard of anyone getting staples. Did you have a lap band or a gastric bypass? As far as when -- whenever it doesn't hurt when you try. I didn't even think about sex for 2 weeks myself - but then I had a lot of port pain.

COmpare this amount to what you would have eaten in the past -- now do you really feel that guilty?

Nope, no hernia for me.

Don't see how eating certain things on certain days can possibly tell you anything about how well your band is working.

Ok I am almost 3 weeks post op, I had the normal shoulder pain due to the gas the first couple days, then it went away and did not have any more issues with it. I am slowly adding some real food back in along with my mushies. I walk daily and am back at work (a desk job). Yesterday out of nowhere after lunch (mashed potatoes, gravy and small pieces of beef - chewed very well - about 4 oz total) I got the most severe pain in my left shoulder (scale of 1 to 10 it was an 8) that I had to leave work. I took pain medication at home and put a heating pad on it and stayed in my recliner and after a couple hours it died down to about a 2 on a 1 - 10 scale and finally went away last night. Anyone else have this issue? any ideas what caused it? :thumbup:

These doctors are all over the board on what they want us to consume. I was on clear liquids for 3 days, then mushies for 5 weeks -- and yes I cheat on the mushies -- just had an orange and boy was it good!

Some doctors may turn you down but others would take you, being self pay you don't have to worry about insurance turning you down - which most probably would at first. No co-morbidities - thats great, I wish I was at that point (perhaps I will be when I loose weight - only on my 3rd week with the band)

Its true, not sure why except to help you breath - they are manipulating your insides fairly close to your lungs so that may be why. They do it after your out and pull it before you wake so other than a slight sore throat you never know about it.

Suzle. For me Lapband or Gastric sleeve were my only 2 choices. I have seen a couple friends have nutrition problems with the 2 types of bypass operations (vitamin deficenies and hair falling out due to lack of protein). With the lap band you entire stomach is still there and getting all the food you eat passed through it, so everything is still doing its job and breaking down your food into what your body can use -- but thats just me (your mileage may vary). It is true that more people lose more with RNY but look at grace's results - shes below her goal with lapband. Remember this is just a tool, you still need to work at it, just not as hard as dieting and much easier to stick with. One very nice aspect of the lap band to me is that if for some reason you need extra nutrition (pregnancy, chemotherapy, etc) the band can be loosened so you can eat more - theres a history of cancer in my family so I am kind of thinking ahead. This matters to some people (like me) but not to others.

Trust me you need General Anaesthia -- have you had problems with it in the past? if so let your doctor know. I had not had G.A. since I had my tonsils out at age 4 and didn't know if I would have any problems with it -- I didn't have any issues, but there is no way this can be done without it. The Anaesthiologist will keep constant watch on you and be able to head off any issues that come up, but if you've had issues in the past let them know.

It could be that your lower part of your stomach is empty and the gastric juices are built up - I would try some antacid myself and see if that helps.

Do you really want to be addicted to something that makes you want to die if you can't get it? :smile2:

You could try getting more sleep -- not trying to be smart here. I gave up caffeine about 5 years ago on doctors orders, it took about 3 months before my body adjusted, now I am actually much better physically and more alert than I ever was on caffeine, but it takes time