katie09/21/2016

You should have told them "Sex Change"! I bet they wouldn't bother you again! ????????

I don't know , I'm very open so I just let all the cats out of the bag lol. I like being me and not hiding. On the other hand I've met the judgemental and that bites bit most ppl are showing lots of love

Thanks for the discussion! I was planning to be open and had already told some people about my plan, but maybe I need to rethink.
I do public speaking and talk about a rare syndrome I suffer from to educate people, mostly medical professionals, but also patients. So a lot of people will see me shrink...
This will be an important step in my life to a healthier me and I need to do it. I just don't feel like keeping score of my white lies. I know I would mess up at some point ????
Good luck to you all!
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I only needed to tell a few people I was having surgery besides my immediate family who knew the truth. I did have a hiatal hernia repair in conjunction with WLS so that is what I told my son's teacher (in case homework was not done properly because my husband was taking over lol).
Turns out I really should give my husband lots of credit because our son didn't skip a beat).
WLS is nothing to be ashamed of but it's also no one else's business but my own.

I feel weird in this situation....I'm not broadcasting to the world that I'm having weightloss surgery but if soneone ask I tell them....hell I'm fat, it not that much of a surprise that I need it and it pretty common nowadays....I haven't met anyone that I told who doesn't know someone who has already done it or who are also going through the process.
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I've kept my experience private- family and ONE other person I know. Funny enough, out in public- at a restaurant with a waiter, shopping for clothes where a room assistant is needed, I'm very open about it.
The medications I was on for years caused ulcers- this is true. I simply exaggerated the extent of them and said I had surgery to repair my stomach. Kinda skirting the issue- and said that the "diet" I was on was to be kind to my stomach post op and then as I saw weight loss, I just kept going with it.
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Hope all goes well!

It's my turn for the gastric sleeve tomorrow morning (8am). I feel nervous and weird...
I started at my surgeons weightloss center on Jan 29th 2017. I am 5'9 and I weighed in at 271 pounds. This morning I weighed myself at 216 pounds, so I'm heading into surgery somewhat lighter than I expected. I am thankful for the program I've been through and the time I've had to adjust things in my life in preparation for this.....(although who knows how I will feel this time tomorrow!)
Having said that, in still terrified but excited to get through this next part. I haven't been on the forums long but I am so grateful for having access to something like this - shared experience. I've learnt a lot & really love having the support of others who get it.
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I am currently exactly the same weight as you!! going into my surgery on Wednesday
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Hi Everyone!! I am new to this site but not to the Sleeve surgery community. I had my surgery in November of 2015. When I started the journey I weight in at 320 lbs. Since that time I am down to 165 lbs and feel so great. I want to pay it forward and have even created a blog: throwingscales.net as a place to connect with others. Would love to chat and get to know people!! My before and after photos are below.  
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The scene you have just described is exactly what is happening in my house right now haha! The brain fog is very thick!! I'm struggling with figuring out all our bills...or I start a conversation and end up trailing off with a thousand mile stare at the wall lol
My husband is supportive but giving me lots of "what the F is going on with you" comments!!
Thankyou for taking the time to share this with me. I love hearing how all these "abnormal" freaky things are actually normal
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2 more sleeps until surgery for me!! To be honest, the liquid diet is not even bothering me at this point...
I'm too busy having a pre-surgery freak out!!
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I love reading this thread! So happy for all of you who are on the other side of surgery 9/21 here, hope to get to know a few more people better on the forums. I'm really nervous at this point!
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Sat here all gowned, stockinged and pre-opped....see you on the other side

My doctor told me that I don't have to justify this surgery to anyone. That it is not a weakness..he said if anyone tells me I took the easy way out, I should tell them "yes I did." He said if someone breaks their arm and they put a cast on, would you say they took the easy way out? Yes, because there was a solution to the problem and you took it.
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My husband was not on board with my surgery either. He didn't think I needed it. He thought my decision to have it was coming from a place of weakness. And he initially lost some respect for me because of it. Now I am 19 months post-op and he sees how much our lives have improved. He has a more objective perspective on the whole thing. And he has FINALLY come around. I just made a post about it a week or two ago here:
http://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/362447-my-husband-finally-gets-it/
You have to make this decision for yourself. No one can know the realities of your daily struggles and what is in your mind and heart besides you. Your wife is likely operating from a position of fear or lack of understanding. While it would be lovely to have her support, you shouldn't sacrifice you health and future happiness just to alleviate her short-term fears.

Yeah.....
She feels I am not heavy enough to resort to this...
She is worried about our relationship, since most of our interaction is related to eating out...
I feel I am heavy enough for this..... plus being Type II Diabetic and sleep Apnea, make this essential ....
As far as our relationship, I think we will be fine. We can still go out to dinner, but instead of having 3 courses and still being hungry.... I look forward to ordering just a simple Protein appitizer and being satisfied, and if I am not hungry.... I will have no issues just enjoying good conversation while she finishes her meal....

My pureed food stage started yesterday, vsg was on 9/1/16. Today I gathered up some of my kitchen tools I had previously, and some I purchased pre surgery. Having small containers that are pre-marked with portioning for measured amounts I can have now, and in the future takes the guess work out of it! The digital scale was purchased from Avon, as were the colored square portion containers. The small food processor was about $10. and I don't have to drag out my big one! Same thing with the mini blender also inexpensive. My NUT gave me the portion plate and had the mini diet scale. The Perfect Portion cups were from Marshalls @ 6.99. All are microwave and freezer safe.
Now just looking for some good recipes and meal plans to stay on track!!  

You should be in and out of the hospital quickly. I was sleeved at 67, drove to the store 2 days later, and walked a lot at 4 days later. I was not debilitated in any way other than to rest a little. I had no pain and I had my sleeve outpatient with8 hours in the hospital. My husband was also sleeved, and we kept it to ourselves. I sure would not worry your Mother with this, but your decision of course!

Hello Everyone!
I figured it was time to join a forum because I'm sure I'm driving my friends crazy with all the VSG talk! Anywho, my name is Erin and I am 32. After many years of struggling with my weight decided to look into the VSG on July 28th. On that day I quit smoking (cold turkey), quit drinking alcohol, and coffee! I attended my first seminar on Aug 8th and it made me feel like this is definitely the right decision for me. Thankfully my family and friends are all very supportive so it helps. I have my first appointment with my surgeon on August 26 to go over the insurance and surgery requirements. I don't think I have any cormobidies but my BMI is 45.
Today I went to get a check up with my PCP and am scheduled for an ultrasound due to some stomach pain I have been having. He is worried it may be my spleen. I'm hoping it is nothing that will hinder me getting my surgery. I asked my PCP how he felt about wls and he is absolutely against it. He said he would rather me try medication to curb my appitite, because in his experience wls patients gain the weight back. I think I need a new PCP. Luckily my surgery program said they will write the letter of medical necessity for the insurance approval if I am a good candidate.
I am very excited to meet with the surgeon and finally get the ball rolling. My plan is to get that checklist completed ASAP so I can be one step closer to a healthier version of myself!
Thanks for reading my story!

Hi. So I've finally decided to do the sleeve. One month in to my 6months needed by my insurance company (BC/BS). I'm 30, 5'10 and weigh 275.5. I'm very nervous. Any tips will be much helpful. Looking for a buddy who will also have surgery in 5 or 6 months
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2 more sleeps until surgery for me!! To be honest, the liquid diet is not even bothering me at this point...
I'm too busy having a pre-surgery freak out!!
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Hi everyone! Haven't had time to read all the posts but prayers for everyone! Please pray for me too. My surgery is tomorrow, 7:30AM!
Thanks!

So ingot chopped on the 14th. I've been averaging 85oz of liquids and 75g of Protein via shakes. I've also been walking in chunks around the neighborhood and find myself racking up about 2 miles a day.
That being said, I was in a lot of abdominal discomfort. I thought it was the CO2 they pumped me full of, but I hadn't had a "movement" since the night before surgery.
5 days.
I hit up Amazon Prime Now for some broths and some Miralax. One dose, 4 hours, and I was a new man. I feel fantastic...
And every morning I see a lower number in the scale. Every morning.
40 years of being obese and I can't wait to see where I am in 6 months, 12 months, etc. I can actually see a future where I'm not handicapped by my weight. It's... Man... Yeah it's dusty in here.
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. Omg your fridge is awesome so organized!!!
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