MizzKirz

No I definitely would want to see the face.... Plus, if I was a little unsure about the process, and I went to YouTube to learn more from actual patient stories but they blurred out their face....it kind of maybe implies that there is something to be ashamed of? I hate to use that word, but it would send me the silent message that this is something I shouldn't feel proud of doing.
If we were talking hip surgery, or even a heart surgery, would you hide your face?
Showing your face makes me feel more connected to you, and really connecting with you and your message helps me relate it to my situation.
Show your beautiful face.....you're doing a wonderful, brave thing.
:-)
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I've had a few doozies in my life where medical personnel are concerned. I would have told her how rude and uncompassionate her behavior was, and how hurtful and non-encouraging it was too. This person takes being coldhearted to a new level. What a B**tch, with a Capital B!
You are doing great. Don't let anyone take your sparkle from you!

Just hit up Walmart. The cost of shipping even free stuff is more than just buying something at Walmart.
I would get sundresses though instead of pants, you can get more wear out of a dress post op than pants. A loose dress can be fixed with a belt. Pants are going to sag in the butt.

Have you tried Walmart? They usually have good options that won't break the bank. probably cost less than someone shipping stuff to you. Just a thought.

I really wish i was wrong, really really wish I was...

I'd look into self pay in Mexico at this point. Would be frustrating to wait on insurance and who knows if their guidelines will change again. Glad he has your support

Are you sure the plan doesn't say 6 months weight management in the past two years? There's lots of stories on here but this is the first I'm hearing of having a 2 year medically supervised diet, 24 months of visiting the doctor seems extreme.
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them"
Einstein

While you are working this out, you can incorporate some concepts that most of our pre-op plans require anyway:
1. Eat lean Protein first and plenty of it.
2. Do not eat anything made in a factory
3. Drink Water until your eyebrows float.
4. Do not become part of the sofa.

Thanks everyone! This site has been awesome for me.
My husband is now supporting me. I say now, because he didn't start until a couple months ago because he saw that I was serious about it and that I had already made up my mind. I really appreciate his support. Plus he is on Atkins so we will be rooting for each other.
I guess it makes it hard that my mom and sisters are 7 hours from me and my father is...on the other side of the US! My husband made me feel the need to tell them because of that "What if something happens to me?" Otherwise I didn't want to tell any of my family. I just wanted to surprise them after success.
BTW- After getting my moms reaction, I am considering to not tell anyone else.

The days i tried brown rice... Never.again.

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I never knew what Constipation was until my second bm. I was on the toilet for 40 mins knowing it was gonna be a doozy. And boy was it. I have ptsd just thinking about it
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Simply put-I would rely on yourself. You need to always have meals, Snacks, etc. Leaving it up to anyone else takes your control away.
I had a wedding about 6 weeks after my surgery. I spoke to the couple and they allowed me to order a special meal, even though it was catered with a set menu. I think letting people know what YOU need is crucial.
I think you have to be selfish, put yourself first. If something is too much, too tempting or overwhelming, you should trust that. Walk away, take a break-whatever you need.
Family gatherings are typically built around the meal and I found I actually got far more out of them because I ate what I needed-early, felt full and then really listened, talked and experienced friends and family on such a deeper level.
Not sure what your experience will be but I found that seeing others eat what I used to eat just didn't/doesn't tempt me. I know what those foods taste like and nothing is more important to me than giving myself nutritionally what I need.
I know the first meals with everyone are tricky. You just have to set the tone. I had people afraid to eat in front of me, or thought I wouldn't eat...I just explained I know what I need, and "you do you" and we'll both be fine.
Best of luck to you,
Daniel
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I missed the popcorn? I hope it was low carb and buttery.
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And once again, I've missed drama!!!
Someone is supposed to call me!!!!

I am rescheduled for July 18. I could have had an earlier date, but my daughter is having her wisdom teeth out the next day and my husband wasn't sure if he could be in 2 places at once, much less worrying about her and me simultaneously! It also would have compromised being able to go to the family reunion over 4th of July. There has been a ton of serious illness in my husband's family this year and it's important to him that we all go and touch base, visit together, mourn those we lost, etc. I realized that, while it's frustrating to wait, waiting will also give me the best chance of being successful when this finally happens. I will start full liquids on July 4th, which is the day before we come home from the reunion but will be OK. It's Independence Day- kind of fitting, in a way, that I start liquids then... the start of my independence from a life of unhealthy eating habits!

That is frustrating , I know it seems like every since I got my surgery date I am walking on egg shells trying to make sure don't do or contract anything that will push me back. But you know murphy's law, so far I've been burned on my chest and face (small area) by hot grease, been bitten my a spider , and got a strange rash.....and still have to make it to June 1st in one piece. Does anyone have a bubble?

That sucks but I always like to think there's a reason behind these types of things happening. I would highly recommend that you take Airborne and Vitamin C. If you are flying before your surgery - you want to build up your immune system so you don't get sick again on a germ filled airplane.

coming down with a cold. - anesthesia- no surgery- SO disappointing.
@@leebick
what a bummer!!
kind of like being all dressed up, nowhere to go!!
glad you realize surgery needs to come to a halt for now
(you are definitely a smart cookie!!)
rescheduling surgery for end of July sounds good
you won't have to "suffer" watching others eat , or cancel airline tickets
BUT - you must realize that PO (for the rest of your life) you will be around other yummies
and you MUST deal with it (i'm sure you know this)
have fun at your reunion!!! don't overeat
if you do gain weight, all the more you have to lose!!
final last "wise words"??? from proudgrammy
take your medicine
get a warm blanket and pillow
lay down/rest/sleep on the couch
plenty of fluids
hot Soup
sweet dreams
feel better
kathy

I had surgery 6 months ago, and the first 3 months were a little difficult for me. I was nauseous, I couldn't keep food down, it was basically trial and error and to be honest very frustrating.
I am still coping from time to time, rarely but it does happen. Sometimes I try new things, I like to play it safe, but little by little I've been trying new things or eating things I was used to.
Overall I am very happy. I have lost a significant amount of weight, it's coming a long and I couldn't be happier. I have been a big person my whole life, I never knew what it was to be thin, I know that at 202 lb I am not thin, but do I feel beautiful.
This Mother's Day I wore a dress, and I felt like a new person. I have been feeling great. I have energy to clean my home, walk, I rode a bike after about 10 years. I am incredibly happy.

I turn 30 in 8 days, and I am just so excited. I feel like a breathe, I can go out and do things, I want to go out and do things. I, Victoria bought myself a black dress to wear for my 30th. I feel like a different person. I am truly happy, when I first had the surgery I was sad because I would always feel sick, I would question why I did this to myself. I also had to deal with the fact that when I was upset I was able to eat my feelings away.
Today I deal with my emotions, and eating is one of the last things on my mind. I'm so happy!!
We made a huge decision having this surgery, and I hope we all get to where we want to be!!!
Before and After Pic

Congratulations.

Wow, congrats!
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You've inspired me! I don't have a surgery date yet, but it's nice to read success stories and also to be reminded that it might not be nice at first and I might even feel regret. But after reading your story, I feel like it will be worth it! Thanks for sharing

I'm happy I was able to help!! When I was sad about the surgery I joined here and read other people sometimes going thru the same thing. I am happy I was able to help!! If you ever have any questions, please ask!! Good luck to you!!

I'm still upset but determined! I have set up all my appointments and should be able to see my surgeon 2nd week of July to get the final decision about my surgery and possibly surgery date. I'm hoping and praying