biglady904

This has nothing to do with surgery but I have no friends and the people on here have been very nice to me
So, my boyfriend he's 35 he works and is in school but he never has time for me I haven't seen him in a month! Whenever I mention seeing each other and bring up how we never talk he says I'm selfish and need to be patient but it's days where he doesn't even text he never calls I really like him but I feel so alone in this as painful as it is should I just end it ? Because if someone really liked you wouldn't they make an effort to see you ? Or at least hold a conversation?
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Wednesday will be here before I know it and I'm getting cold feet and just want to back out of it. I'm literally terrified in this very moment
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I will keep you in mine and please message me when your out of surgery
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Hey I'm new to this site, and I'm also having mines on Wednesday. I'm a bit nervous too but I have faith in God that he will bring me through it. So with that said i will keep you in my prayers. We got this!???? Sent from my Nexus 6 using the BariatricPal App

I'm right there with you. I'm just a message away if you need to talk, and will definitely hold you in my prayers and thoughts. It's normal to be anxious and second guess your choice. I'm doing it right now, but as everyone (who has had bariatric surgery) told me, "You'll be so glad you did it when you're done recovering." Sent from my SM-N910P using the BariatricPal App
I was going to say the same thing! (If you're not anxious, then I'd be a little concerned.) COMPLETELY NORMAL! Sent from my SM-N910P using the BariatricPal App

Try to focus more on the long term future rather than the surgery itself......I agree with @@OKCPirate it is very normal to be nervous....it would be weird if you weren't...
But just keep reminding yourself why you're doing it. My surgery was almost 8 weeks ago and I can tell you for me, it's the best thing I've ever done!!! I have not regretted it for one second!!!
Good luck to you!

To tell you the truth, you should be. It's a big change. I worry about people who are not nervous. You got this, and if you need to remember why you are doing this, read:
http://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/195065-you-know-you-lost-weight-when/

I just had mine on Tuesday and felt the same way but it's already been worth it
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Wednesday will be here before I know it and I'm getting cold feet and just want to back out of it. I'm literally terrified in this very moment
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Next Wednesday 10am !! I'm so scared and excited
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Good luck!
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Definitely be excited - you'll be doing something really positive for yourself.

Omg I'm sick of waiting but I can't even sleep on my side without pain let alone be on all 4's lmao

So excited for you. That's my date as well.
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I'm approved
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I will pray for you and I love you stay strong
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@@biglady904 - you have a great surgeon and team. I have nothing but positive reminders of my surgery - especially the -107 pounds.
text me if you need to talk,
jane

I'm finally approved to have VSG surgery how exciting!! *dances*
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A big congrats to everyone who got their approval! For those of us still waiting, stay strong. We'll get through this together.

I just got the call !!! I was approved !!!!!
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Thank you! Approved today.
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I just got the call !!! I was approved !!!!!
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I just got the call !!! I was approved !!!!!
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I just got the call !!! I was approved !!!!!
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