Well I was approved and should be getting my date soon but I'm so scared I'm 27 and I've never had surgery don't get me wrong I'm very excited but at the same time I'm scared that I won't wake up and I'm scared of blood clots I asked my surgeon about it and all he said was that it's rare anyways is being this scared normal ?

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It really is normal, and understandable. But the truth is, you are reducing your risk of death significantly -- by 90% -- by choosing to have bariatric surgery. Surgery does pose risks, but they pale in comparison to the risk of death from being morbidly obese. The surgery risk is just grabbing your attention right now because it is looming so close. But you are giving yourself the absolute best chance of life by choosing it, as scary as it seems. So, try to focus less on the risks of surgery and more on what your life can be like afterwards.

I agree 100%.

It was my first surgery, too but after going through it and seeing my results so far, I'd do it again in a heartbeat.

The biggest risks of surgery according to my surgeon are pneumonia and blood clots. Your surgeon is well aware of those risks and will do everything he can to minimize them. Your job is to do everything you are asked to do and follow his instructions to the letter --- even if you don't think you can do it or think it is silly. For instance, they will have you up and walking very soon after surgery. You may not think you can do it but you can, and it will really help you feel better and avoid blood clots.

You can do it!

@@biglady904 - you have a great surgeon and team. I have nothing but positive reminders of my surgery - especially the -107 pounds.

text me if you need to talk,

jane

@@biglady904 - you have a great surgeon and team. I have nothing but positive reminders of my surgery - especially the -107 pounds.

text me if you need to talk,

jane

Inbox me your number I lost it

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It's normal. It would be weird if you weren't a bit nervous.

At 34, it was my first surgery too so it's a of fear of the unknown. You have your age on your side (which typically means a quicker recovery) and remind yourself that you're giving your future-self a wonderful gift. You're on your way to being happier, healthier and look the way you've wanted to.