SuzanneG

My doc prescribed 3 Protein shakes a day and any other calorie free liquid in between. However, in the early stages, they said whatever you can get down in 30 minutes is all you get, after that, put it away until the next meal. Sounds like you are not getting enough protien with your current setup. You need protien to heal.

I am 5'4 1/2" and I weighed 225 going into my pre-op diet. Right now I'm at 155 and I'm in a size 10. I've lost 70.5 pounds. I want to lose 20 more pounds to get into my healthy BMI range, so that puts me at 90 pounds if I reach goal. The surgery is actually safer for those with less than 100 pounds to lose. It was the single greatest thing I've ever done for myself. I too had a terrible time losing, made my doc check my thyroid I don't know how many times, and tried every excuse in the book, including that I had 2 c-sections and a hysterectomy, family history, etc. The bottom line is calories in vs. calories out. I had to change that to lose weight. There are so many health benefits to losing weight. Go for it! You won't regret it.

I have federal BC/BS Basic. I was turned down based on my BMI (35.1) the first pass through, but appealed and was approved. I paid $100 co-pay for my surgery and that's it. For fills, if I have them done under fluro I pay $100 co-pay (considered surgery if a foriegn object enters your body) and $40 for the x-ray. Good luck to you.

Any time you are under general anesthesia, you are catheterized. I would think that could certainly cause an infection.

I hear you about the drive to Richmond. I work on DC, so I was doubly worried about being so far away. However, MWH wasn't doing bariatric surgery when I had mine. They just brought in a new team this year. They had been doing them in the past and got into trouble because there were so many problems. This new team is supposed to be good. I just love Dr. Brengman though. I think the real problem is that there are so many people clamoring for this surgery that not only are they overwhelmed, but I think the idea of customer service is a non-issue since they have more business than they can shake a stick at. Stay after them. You know what they say, the squeaky wheel gets the oil.

So sorry to hear that you are struggling. A few tips you may try are: 1. Measure your food. My doc says 1/2 cup B,L,D and one 100 cal snack. 2. Use a salad plate instead of a larger one 3. Focus on protien first, veggies second and carbs only if you have room. 4. Use a salad or baby fork 5. Cut your food up in small bites (One person said their doc told them that your bites should be the size of your pinky fingernail) 6. You know this one, chew chew chew. Try to chew each bite 30 times. 7. Avoid slider foods (foods that are soft and go down too easily) Hope this helps!

Hey! I see you are from King George, I live in Spotsy. Who's your doctor? I used Richmond Surgical and I have to admit, although I LOVE Dr. Brengman, it was a nightmare getting scheduled. Once I got my surgery date it was smooth sailing, but until then, I worried them to death. LOL

Welcome Nicole! I think it's amazing that even after 3 years, you can get a fill and pick right back up where you left off. Good for you for coming back for a fill and letting the band work for you!

Acutally, I've lost the least. You have me beat by 3 pounds. I'm with you though, it doesn't matter to me as long as I'm losing.

jmonash, sounds like you need a fill my friend. Call your doctor.

Hey Guys! I'm doing great. My weight loss slowed drastically lately too and my doc said if I'm hungry between meals, then I need a fill. He bumped me up another .6 and has done the trick! Now if I can just behave, maybe I can get these last 20 pounds off. I know I'm going to have to work for the last 20, the first 70 came off with little to no effort from me, so I can't complain really.

How exciting. Congratulations! You deserve it! Now go out there and represent for the rest of us!

I have been at the same weight for 6 weeks. My last fill was July and I have one scheduled for this Friday. For me, I think that will be the fix. I waited too long between fills. I think I had it in my mind that once I reached my sweet spot, which I feel like I was there at one point, I thought that would be it, but it's always changing and I realized I need another fill. I can eat about 2 cups of food right now and I'm supposed to be eating 1/2 cup. Could you be needing a fill as well? I also agree about mixing up your eating and exercise. I am trying to do that very thing also. Don't give up!

Way to go on moving the pizza's. OMG, pizza was my very best friend before surgery. I even debated with my doctor trying to find a way to make pizza OK to eat post band. He kept telling me I wouldn't want it, I didn't believe him. Well, I've had pizza a total of 2 times since my surgery in Jan. I rarely think about it anymore. Very pleasant surprise. Best of luck to you.

My doctor's office is an hour drive (south) from my house and I work 2 hours north from my house, so going down there on a weeknight is not going to happen. For me, this is my support group. I get so much out of coming here and reading threads. It has been a huge help. I can Celebrate, complain, ask for help, all from my LBT friends. Who could ask for more?

Based on what you are saying here, I think I would wait until June when you can have your family there. If you are already planning a trip there, it makes perfect sense to do it then. Why can't you have it done closer to home? Isn't there a doctor/hospital near you that takes medicare?

I'm thinking about getting a tattoo and plan to go on a cruise which I would never do because of my weight.

I have read where others hiccup when they reach that point. I'm with Stephanie, I sure wish I had one.

Thanks Heather. I've been stalled for about a month myself and I need to make some changes. I tried exercising more and it hasn't helped me. I'm going to try making the low carb changes like you did and see if I can get things moving again. I'm also scheduled for another fill on Oct. 10th.

BBK - I can't imagine having to go through that, but you are a pro, you can handle it! That does suck though. I think the pre-op diet idea sounds like a good one. I have stalled for the first time and haven't lost in a month. I don't even know what to blame, but I'm getting a fill on the 10th and I'm hoping that will put me back on track. Hang in there! We all look up to you!

Hollie, Congratulations! You're amazing!

Don't let them discourage you. I had the same experience, only my sister was my biggest problem. She normally was always in my corner but she was dead set against me getting the band. I didn't offer up much in my defense other than what you already said, I did my research and I felt like it was the answer for me. Statistics show that 95% of all diets fail. Sure, any of them work short term. I liken it to holding your arms straight up. It's easy at first, then they start to feel heavy, and finally you just can't hold them up any longer. That's what dieting was like for me. The band liberated me from that. Take heart, now that I've lost almost 70 pounds, my sister has become a fan. She even recommends it to poeple who complain about their weight to her and tells them to call me if they have questions. Hopefully your friend will come around. You'll be surprised at the reactions you get as you loose too. Sometimes it makes people uncomfortable, some jealous, others tell you that you are getting too thin and try to talk you into not losing to your goal. What's wrong with people? Why can't they just want what's best for us? Good luck. I know you'll do great!

Some people it just takes them a while before they feel restriction. I have a friend who didn't feel it until she reached 8.5 or 9cc. Just keep your doctor posted and stay after them to give you a fill if you are eating too much or getting hungry between meals. Hang in there, you'll get it!

My DH is like an alarm clock. I can ask for 2 minutes or 2 hours and he can deliver. He's 38 and in pretty good shape. I'm 43, so I've been kind of hoping he'd slow down a little. tee hee I also couldn't get there with penetration until I was in my late 20's. I was dating a guy who said he'd teach me. I never thought it possible. It's still not easy for me, but I can do it often enough to make DH feel like a stud. LOL

Lots of people go through this. I don't think you've hurt your band, but I do think you are ready for another fill. My doc told me to come straight back as soon as I felt hungry too soon again and he'd give me another fill. It can be frustrating while getting your fills, but you'll get there!