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Hi Tina, Yes, for the majority of people the band does work once you've achieved proper restriction. I love my band. The first 50 pounds came off almost effortlessly, but I am what is known as a rabbit. There are many slow losers on this board, so please don't be disappointed if it comes off slowly. It can take time to obtain a good restriction level, and you're starting off at a lower weight than most bandsters. That said, if you eat by the bandster rules (hard Protein, no drinking with meals, etc) and exercise, you'll do great!

This is a great thread too - it's for larger bandsters. Congratulations on your remission!! http://www.lapbandtalk.com/showthread.php?t=16168

If I'm reading his concern correctly, he has a valid point. I mean, 8 hours a day reading message boards is 8 hours that our butts are in a chair, lol. Just like we need to keep our kids off of too much video gaming, tv, etc, we need to moderate ourselves. But he seems to be writing off the benefits of the support from this board, and we all need support just as much as we need exercise.

I'm usually the exact same way. If I eat a hershey's kiss, the day is shot and it's a free for all until the next morning. Exercise is 6 times a week or not at all. My most successful dieting attempt (pre-band) was when I was strict during the day and then gave myself permission to eat 2 Cookies with tea at night. It was very liberating to feel like I had a treat waiting every day if I felt like it. I felt like my head was in the right place, because I wasn't so obsessive about it. Good luck with Nutrisystem - I really feel like it's one of the best programs out there. And congrats on the 6 lb loss!!

Oh Trish, ((((((HUGS!!))))))). What an ordeal - I hope you feel better soon!

Just popping in to say hello. I've been in band denial lately, so I'm avoiding the other threads. Since my band slipped I count 4 people on this board who have also had a slip and every one of them has lost their band. I'm the only lucky one of the bunch who was able to be rebanded. So, because I was raised Catholic and have a strong sense of guilt, I sometimes feel horrible for how badly I've been eating. On the other hand, I've reeeeally enjoyed having a break from restriction. I've been paying the price on the scale, but I'm okay with that. I'm going to get my fill soon and get back on track. Then I'll be cursing myself for the extra weight I'll need to lose again, but right now it's all good. Phew! That felt good to admit... I wouldn't say that at any other place on this board. Thanks in advance for a place to feel safe from judgement girlies. :kiss2: :kiss2: Feels like a cool Spring rain is moving in. What do y'all have planned for this weekend? My mom is going to watch DD tomorrow while DH and I take DS to see Ice Age 2. Other than that, it will be yardwork if it's not raining. Time to put the kiddies to bed.

Mary Ann, I'm so sorry that you're going through this. It's great news that you can opt to get a new band in 6 months if you decide you want another. Take care, and heal up quickly!

Dana, I gained 11lbs of water weight from surgery. It came right off over the first few weeks. Hang in there - I know we're not allowed to want weight loss right away (lol) but it's hard to wrap the head around that and not be disappointed.

Penni, there was a period of about 36 hours while I was being tested in the hospital for a slipped band where I had to comtemplate my path... I didn't know if they would be able to place a new band, so I had to make a choice: 1. tell them to go ahead and give me a bypass 2. tell them to take out the band and leave me flying solo (I was REALLY tempted to just say screw it) 3. tell them to put in a new band if possible I thought really hard about my options and knew that I wanted another band. I know you lost your band due to erosion, which is (imo) much scarier than slippage. But, if the doctor is fully supportive of rebanding you, my honest opinion is to go for it. In the meantime, if you're a bad grazer, I think your only option is to de-crapify your kitchen. If your only snacking options are fruits and vegetables, you're not going to gain. And (brace yourself - this is some really creative advice!) start exercising. It will help the depression. We are all pulling for you! You're going to do this with or without a band. (((HUGS)))

This important undergarment question may deserve a new thread, but it seems related... Does everyone here wear pantyhose with skirts/dresses? I was out buying a skirt for the first time in years and my sister started making fun of me when I went to pick out pantyhose. She says nobody wears them anymore... I'm only 32 - am I already hopelessly behind the times?!

:biggrin1: WOO HOO!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!! :biggrin1:

Welcome to LBT Free-to-be. Good luck with your insurance approval! UHC seems to be one of the carriers with more approvals, so you have that going in your favor. Lurk away - the more info you have the better you will feel about your decision.

I'm wearing a pair of Lane Bryant lilac seamless briefs that I bought a month ago. They shrink up so tiny in the wash that I'm sure they won't fit on, but they stretch out a bunch. The bra I'm wearing right now is old with no support, but comfy. I usually wear the Lane Bryant padded Cacique bra with the chicken cutlet inserts that Wheetsin was talking about (too funny btw!), but it cuts into my sides. DH calls it the "intimidator" bra.

I'm not sure of the circumference of mine, but it's the kind that holds 4cc's total... does that help?

And a rare one of the 4 of us...

Here's a pic of the kids in their Easter finery...

Good morning everyone! Kellygirl, are you still here? I just read a thread that said you've deleted all of your threads. I hope everything is okay and you'll still participate in our chat! ((HUGS)) Patty, you have to get a TIVO! They're awesome. You can save yourself so much time by flipping past the commercials. And if you watch American Idol you can watch the whole results show in 2 minutes once you zip past the filler. :biggrin1: Pat, I giggle every time I picture that witch opening a letter telling her she has to have a psych exam. She's going to have a hissy fit! The egg hunt was a huge success! I enjoyed the chance to get to know my neighbors better and they're all really nice people. We had perfect weather. I was going to post some pictures but with all of the chaos I didn't have much time. I have some, but they're all scattered group shots of kids picking up eggs. I will post some Easter pics though... Betty, Beanie, and Cindy - have you recovered from the heat wave? Yikes - 101 degrees?! I'd melt. I'll post more personals later - Hugs everyone!!

Diane, you look amazing and your family is just beautiful! I love your outfit. 3loves, your boys are adorable. Hopefully next year you'll come out from behind them so we can see you too. :confused: Cute suits!

I agree with everyone else on bottom 3 (Kellie, Ace, Elliott). Kellie deserves to go, but I think it will be Elliott. I was disappointed that Rod Stewart was going to be the guest, but it turned out well. I enjoyed hearing the old standards... at least they didn't make anyone sing "If You Think I'm Sexy", lol. Katharine and Paris were my favorites for the night.

Hi everyone! I'm sorry I haven't been around lately, but I'll try to catch up tomorrow. Just wanted you all to know I'm thinking of you! :confused: Anne

Oh Sherry, it sounds like you've been through so much! (((((HUGS!))))) You are a strong, caring person and you don't need that kind of toxicity in your life. Vent anytime - that's what we're here for!

Hi everyone! No time for personals right now - I shouldn't be on here at all but I couldn't resist catching up with everyone. It's going to be 78 here today! That's pretty amazing for Michigan in April. Does everybody have their taxes done? Oh boy, my 2 year old is eating leftover spaghetti. What a mess! She's picking up each noodle individually and slurping it in... ah, to be a kid again. I bought the kids the cutest gardening stuff at Target for Easter... kiddie size wheelbarrows, shovels, gloves, etc. They're going to be helping me this Spring, they just don't know it yet. Okay, time to bake! Enjoy your day. :uwelcome:

I just read an article about the families on yahoo.com, but I can't find it anymore... Apparently some of them are really struggling and relying on friends and families for donations. The show doesn't even pay for them to stay out in CA unless they're the guardian of one of the minors. With all of the money they're raking in from that show you'd think they could pony up so that it's not a hardship to the family.

Hi Josie, Keep me posted on your tests next week. Hopefully the unfill will resolve your issues and give your tummy a break. I'm sending positive vibes your way. :uwelcome: (((HUGS)))

Hi everyone! I spent the day at the park with the kids and running errands for the egg hunt. I'm pooped. Tomorrow I'll be baking all day, but I'm looking forward to that. I found some really good coffee cake recipes at allrecipes.com. If you've never checked out that site, I highly recommend it. All of the recipes have been reviewed, and there are thousands and thousands of recipes. The coffee cakes are going to be low fat of course... yeah right! :heh: Eilene, I almost did a spit take when I saw that picture. Where do you find these things? If the waiter was even half that cute, I want in. LOL! Who do you have coming for Easter dinner this year? Kelly, I think the closest Cheesecake Factory to us would be in either Chicago or Cleveland. I've been to the one in Chicago, and it's soooooo good. Time for a road trip! Patty, I don't think I could stand up again if I sat on the ground for 6 hours. That sure does sound like fun though! Pat, don't underestimate the value of a good lawyer. If he can help your son he'll be worth the money. My BIL was brought up on some very serious criminal charges over 10 years ago. My MIL spent every dime she had on a hick town lawyer (hundreds of thousands of dollars) and even though there was ample evidence to prove his innocence he sits in jail to this day. After several appeals my BIL has been granted a new trial by the state, which almost never happens (so you know his lawyer screwed up BIG time). Wow! Sorry - don't know where that rant came from. I guess my point is, a good lawyer is hard to find, so if this guy comes highly recommended it will be worth the dough. Irene, enjoy your extra time off and have a safe flight home! What are your Easter plans? Is DH making something yummy? Randy, how long did he say to monitor your sugar intake? I hope you feel better soon! I've had dizzy spells before and they're quite frightening. Nothing since being banded though... Mary, congrats on the raise! What do you do for a living? How do you like the new haircut? I'm going to have a few inches taken off of mine for the Summer, but it's pretty long right now. Sherry, Darcy, Cindy and Betty - HUGS. What are your Easter plans? Time to go have coffee with DH. Hope everyone is enjoying their evening. :uwelcome: