Kelliebelly

Hi At this stage I have not had any problems at all. I have been comfortable at this fill level for yrs and its been pretty smooth sailing (touch wood again). I have been on nexium since my first fill for reflux and continue to take that daily.

Thank you so much. Can you tell I really want to win lol

Hi Everyone, I havent been around for a bit, so I thought I would pop in. I have just had my 7 yr anniversary and I am still going strong (touch wood). I have been sitting at give or take 10 kgs for about 4 yrs now. It took me quite a while to lose the weight originally and I still have my struggle days (hence the 10kgs up and down). I havent had a fill in about 5 yrs and am sitting at about 10.1 in a 10ml band. Life has never been better for me since getting the band. I was always depressed and shy. About 2 yrs after getting my band I got my first proper job. I had always been a stay at home mum with casual jobs. I worked my way up and my confidence grew. Last yr I got a big promotion and I am now a Manager. This is something I never ever would have considered let alone dream of getting. I am still waiting for my head to catch up and I dont know if it ever will. I look in the mirror and I still see fat, but not as much as I used to. I need to get into the mind frame of maintaining and not "need to lose weight". Anyway hope to see you around. Any questions, please feel free to ask. If you think Kiera and I look a like, Please click the link and hit like on our pic Its a Mother/Daughter look a like comp!! http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10150798982442903&set=o.232023536820269&type=1&theater

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Hi Guys I just had my lapband 7yr anniversary and I have lost 65 kgs. I have entered a comp through work(something I would never have done before) for a Mother/Daughter look a like comp. Can anyone with facebook please click on the link and like the pic. I am coming 6th at this stage but would love 1st prize ...a digital camera!!! Thanks everyone Kel If you think Kiera and I look a like, Please click the link and hit like on our pic Its a Mother/Daughter look a like comp!! http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10150798982442903&set=o.232023536820269&type=1&theater

Thanks everyone!!! I have been here myself so many times wanting to give up. I have had so many plateaus, one lasting 12 mths. I remember in the beginning with no restriction and the fills trying to get it. It took 10 fills for me to reach it and I havent had a fill since, that was about 3 yrs ago. Its not all easy and at times it can be really hard and you just want to give up.....but dont!!!! The band will work if you work with it, if you fall off the wagon, get back up brush yourself off and get back on. xxx

Yayyyyyy!!!! As you can see from my title nearly 4 yrs it has taken me but I have finally hit goal. I have lost exactly half of my original weight. The band is the best thing I have ever done for myself, I wouldnt trade it for the world :tt1:

Ok mate - good luck...the situation is a little diff, my DH was a good Dad when he was around....most of the time a good hubby too... Hugs

Hey BBK... I am going to just type here, and it may not make sense but I hope you get the drift. I had up until 9 mths ago been with my DH for 9 yrs. I was banded nearly 4 yrs ago. We had our ups and downs but most of the time it was great, I worshipped the ground he walked on most of the time...as I lost weight, I cant really explain it but I changed. I wanted excitement and well...more. I cant explain it but we started going through issues. He had trust issues as I lost weight, I never did anything to make him have them. Anyway fast foward to March this yr and he was away for work (again)...he was always away for a week or so at a time. I work too so we werent seeing each other. He came home from his trip and I sat out in the car port and told him it was over. It had been building up and I had done alot of thinking while he was away. I thought the grass was greener, I thought everything was going to be perfect when I lost my weight, when in actual fact its well worse in some ways. There is issues and situtations that come up now that never would have when I was big and one thing I realise is that I really have no experience in how to deal with them. I feel like I am going insane. I keep making mistakes, mistakes that I shouldnt make. I am so impulsive, I dont think things through properly, I just do it!!! To say the last 9 months have been the worst in my life is an understatement. I realise I made a mistake, but its too late. He wont give it another chance. I moved out with the kids and it has been very bitter on and off between us. I cant move on, I keep thinking about the life I had and why did I throw it away. I dont want anyone else...I want my hubby. I really cant eat, sleep or think without him in my thoughts. Basically I just want you to really think about it, because 9 mths ago I was feeling and saying exactly the same as u and boy do I regret it, I regret it all. Although I dont know if I would have the regrets if I hadnt experienced life without him for the last 9 mths but I cant turn back time and I cant take it back. Life after WLS and massive weight loss for me has been well....so hard and nothing like I expected. I wish u luck in whatever decision u make, but pls really think about why u r doing it and if there is a grain at all of doubt dont jump into anything...maybe a trial seperation to start with? Hugs xx

Thanks for the advice and do agree I should get some counselling. I love the idea of finding a job that would stimulate me more...I loved the job I had but it wasnt very stimulating.

As some of you know my marriage broke up about 7 months ago and I have been seeing someone for a few months now. I am am having some major issues going on in my life right now, things I never dealt with when I was big. Why was everything acceptable, why was everything ok... I was happy with my life except that I was fat. Now its like nothing is okay, things have to be perfect, I cant be happy with the things that used to make me happy. I dont feel I can discuss any of this with anyone because well I am kind of humiliated at the accusation that both my husband and new partner have made. They have both used pretty much the same words that I love drama, when things are going smoothly I need to create drama to feel stimulated or alive. Now I have thought about this over the last week or 2 trying to work it out. I think I do...I dont know why! It is turning my life upside down - I need excitement and am destroying all my relationships to get it. Can anyone relate to this at all? Any words of advice?

Haha yes I know what u mean - havent tried it myself. I am on Nexium for mine but just the thought of drinking it turns me off. I have real issues drinking anything unpleasant - medicines, barium etc - I always end up bringing it back up TMI i know.

Do a search on google for apple cider vinegar and acid reflux - there seems to be lots of evidence it works - <CENTER>Vinegar and Acid Reflux - The Natural Home Treatment </CENTER> A third approach (a popular natural home remedy) to help reduce or eliminate acid reflux is to take the following apple cider vinegar tonic: <CENTER><TABLE borderColor=black cellSpacing=0 cellPadding=5 width="90%" bgColor=#ffffff border=1><TBODY><TR><TD><CENTER>Natural ACV Tonic</CENTER> <CENTER>2 or 3 teaspoons (10-15 ml) in an 8 ounce glass of Water, before meals or whenever heartburn is experienced.</CENTER> </TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE></CENTER> One underlying theory here is that the acetic acid in vinegar lowers stomach acidity (increases its pH) since acetic acid is a weaker acid than hydrochloric acid. It is also believed that vinegar (acetic acid along with its acetate salt) may help buffer and maintain stomach acid at a pH level of about 3.0. In this milder acidic environment, the stomach can still efficiently digest food but it causes less problems with the esophagus and thus less heartburn. Improved digestion and mineral absorption from regular intake of the apple cider vinegar tonic may also play a role in reducing acid reflux.

This is only what I have heard and I am not sure whether it works but liquids and apple cider vinegar for a couple of days then onto mushies. Hope u r feeling better.