I really never got the negative feedback, it was more that people were surprised that I qualified for the surgery. I don't know if it is because they are all so used to seeing me this size? But I was told at my surgeons office that I am a "light weight" patient. I look at it as I have been overweight all my life, I am morbidly obese, I am pre diabetic, I have a history of heart disease in my immediate family, and I have other weight related health problems. I am doing something about this before it gets worse. But the most important thing is that it is a personal decision and you can only do this for yourself. You are the one going through it and facing all the challenges. I am only 4 days out and this is really hard & it sucks but in the long run it is going to be awesome & I will be so much healthier!