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I feel like he remembered it but maybe not. My bf has said quite a few mean things to me awake. The next time he does something like that I'm scheduling a couple session with my therapist..mine has actually gone to two but for me not for something he did so I know he's willing to try and I'm willing to be patient cause before we met he never even been on a date so he has no foundation of a relationship. I'm sorry things aren't smooth with your husband. I really think if he isn't willing to work on the relationship together or put some effort into it it's time to move on. It won't get better if he isn't willing to try. It sucks cause you guys are high school sweet hearts but marriage is supposed to be enjoyable. Sure there are bumps but both partners have to work through it.

Yeah once my bf threatendto punch me in his sleep when I tried waking him up when was exhausted lol I know he never would but it still hurt my feelings and he felt horrible when I told him after he woke up..definitely give him some space

Is he irritated that you are getting the surgery? When I am doing something my bf disagrees with he a complete asshat the rest of the day till he decides to talk about it..but no I don't think you are over reacting. Might be best to just give him some space to cool off or gather his thoughts..sounds like he is irritated

im not a emotional eater I just eat because it taste so good and ill try to eat everything on my plate. Since my stomach is so big if I portion it out ill graze vs if I eat a big meal ill be good for 5+ hours

Don't feel bad. A lot of us have to do 6 months

Might be because I'm on my ipad lol

your link doesn't work I figured it out though lol thanks

Lmao yes I meant 262. I still can't believe my BMI is that high..it's crazy..but I am pretty short so I understand. Thanks

I'm 5'2" 262 pounds and one site says its a BMI of 47 ...I just find it hard to believe my BMI is that high...when I look in the mirror I don't see myself that huge.

Yep! I'm sick of being a slave to food! And huffing and puffing after walking up the stairs in my apartment...if I didn't need help I wouldn't have been fat for all these years. Happy Easter!

Glad it's not a leak! Hopefully it's nothing serious..keep us posted

Yeah my aunt thinks I don't need it. It's frustrating because her opinion means a lot to me. I'm still going to go for it though

A lot of people are still nauseated after they get home oh yes. I had a deviated septum that was worked on it was only a hour stay and for the next 4 days I was bleh the day I got home after a hour car ride I threw up and almost lost my nose stents ..since it was my first surgery I didn't know I got nauseous.

i know exactly how you feel. Unfortunately I have to go through my doctor first. She has to be the one to refer me..I made an ad on Craigslist seeing if anyone had my insurance and had the sleeve. A lady replied and even went to the same clinic, she told me her doctor referred her first visit so is switched to her doctor since I was looking into different clinics even but before I tried a new clinic I thought I'd give this doctor a shot..if not there is another person I met on here who told me their clinic and doctor who I will switch to if she won't do what I ask. I am positive I want this and I absolutely qualify. So so nervous to ask her

Great news! Even though my bf and I have been together for 2 years it took him a bit of talking to be ok with the whole thing...I still think he doesn't understand how big of a change it will be..he doesn't care that he's fat so I'm hoping he will still help and respect my life style change

Because you had it done so fast. I assumed you did cause most insurances will not cover unless you're 18+

Off topic question did you self pay?

I'm hoping things go well. My BMI is 47 and I have high blood pressure..not sure if I have diabetes but I take metformin which means I either have pre or I have it. One doctor told me one thing and another the other lol. I just got a new doctor though so hopefully she can clear things up

Get in my belly!!!!

I haven't even talked to my doctor yet I'm hoping for a positive outcome on the 11th. Welcome and good luck!

If I had a pig it would become bacon no matter how cute

if I did you shouldn't be offended lol when descented they are cute and fluffy lol

If you like him it's best to be honest and tell him before hand. If he doesn't support you then he isn't right for you.

Since its legal here I want a pet skunk lol

I love all things fluffy