MyNeWLiFein2013

Hi I am on the same path for health and fertility sake. 2.5 years for #1 and 3 years of trying for #2 I have one fallopian tube fibrocystic breasts and ovaries. Pre cervical cancer a breast cancer scare and still wanting babies. Fat is not where its at when it comes to fertility! I just want to be healthy for crying out loud I'm only 28! I know I deserve a better path than this. Oh yeah I have had that same comment " you have such a pretty face if only" please if only I could share what its like to walk a mile in these fat shoes!

United Healthcare Choice Plus 80/20 in network. However its through an employer and each company writes their own policies.

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I have my surgery Dec.19th and my approval from insurance took 8 days but they said legally they 15 calendar days to give notice I have United Health Care! So excited sleeve buddies!

I have my surgery Dec.19th and my approval from insurance took 8 days but they said legally they 15 calendar days to give notice I have United Health Care! So excited sleeve buddies!

Happy for you to have surgery soon! How excited are you what steps are you taking have you taken to prepare? Glad to see our days our so close together. I will try and give you a heads up okay! Lol! This is only the beginning for us girls I feel like a whole new me is bursting out! Weeeeeeeee!

So my surgery was approved yesterday and I'm scheduled Dec.19th! I truly cannot believe this is happening! My OOP Max is more now considering my ins. Company and the hospital stopped negotiating a contract but I'm still gonna make it happen! I am so excited yet nervous ! I need new sleever advice for before and afters? What would you have done differently and suggestions for staying strong! Please feel free I open this thread for all who are in prep mode!

I was approved today for the surgery of a lifetime. My excitement suddenly turned to slight this Maine when I was told that my hospital that I have to have the surgery and is no longer in network and they have ceased to work on agreements as of 2 days prior to my surgery the hospital will be come out of network. So obviously that puts a slight damper on my excitement being that means more money out of my pocket I am upset but at the same time I am so elated that I have this opportunity to get the surgery no amount of money is going to stop me from getting the surgery. Thank you all for listening to my rants and raves at times and I wish the same approval for all that are requesting this from their insurance

Just too short months ago I begin this journey to have paperwork submitted to insurance and now the time is come it has been submitted it is pending approval and I wait praying to God that he will grant this for my life. I'm so excited to think that it's even a possibility the only way I can make it through this. Is to just ask God for help. I know that there are others at the beginning of the journey and some just waiting for their surgery God bless us all!

Another inspiration I pray my surgery goes just as smooth and that I advance with swiftly! Congrats on the new you!

It is amazing how many times I have contacted United Healthcare just to find out exactly what I need to submit for a pre certification. I mean I have contacted them at least 10 * and finally today I got the answers I needed it's like heaven gates open for me. Thankfully all that is needed is a high BMI I have wonderful health insurance. Why in the H E double hockey sticks did it take so long for them to tell me that 1 simple sentence. I wasn't asking for them to perform the surgery I was asking a simple question and even then it took an hour and 5 different people before I finally got the answers that I was looking for. Thank God all that I have left to do is visit the nutritionist and they will submit. Please pray that the approval arrive promptly and I can get my surgery scheduled

The support that I am receiving here is more than I could hope 4. I do love my husband with all my heart and I would do anything for him it's going to be a day by day process for me to work on this even moment by moment sometimes. Depression has always been a problem since I was a child but I have love this man since I was 7 years old he has loved me just as long I know that we are meant to be together it is just another stepping stone to get to that point where we need to be we both know how to fight we're both very stubborn and bull headed at times and not to mention we have created a child that is just like us we have these moments of pure bliss as a family so I know the feeling is still there. I do see a psychologist on a regular basis but I have struggled with the depression medication that they give they do nothing for me and yes I have taken them for 60 days at a time and still nothing. I have read up on it that in order for the medications to work you must have a chemical imbalance very different types of depression know and I do believe mine stems from my obesity. The surgery is definitely going to help me come out of the coma that I have merely existing with. I do not plan on being unhappy I plan on being happy with my husband and with my daughter. Thank you so much for your support!

Thank you both for your wonderful responses. I know this cannot happen overnight it just seems so dreadful right now I go through bouts of depression I always come out on top but I have yet to figure out the way that I need to act towards my husband it seems to be the 1 great area that both of us struggle with he doesn't know how to communicate and tell me when I'm being rude and I don't know how to stop it I'm working on it it will b day by day and I will not let my marriage go I love him so much I've known him since I was 7 years old. This is just another road block we will be that old great couple together walking hand in hand my determination will not fail me.