Bos123

Ill let you know how it goes! I'm off to dr ortiz dec 3:)

I followed both of you, hope that's ok:)

Give yourself time:) "normal" is a learned behavior I think. My normal for last 10 years is wearing stretch pants and hoodies, avoiding bathing suit and pictures, and having a evening snack in front of the tv after the kids go to bed. Is that normal, or my normal? My date is dec 3 and I often worry about what life will be like after... What will my normal be? Will I mourn the loss if my Old normal? I think I am sick of my normal. It won't be easy but I can't wait for my new normal to be my normal lol. Good luck, we all need it:)

I agree. My mom and husband know. If you tell someone they have pretty hair or skin should they feel obligated to tell one what product they use or how they do it? No. It's not lying, it's just nobody's business I think. Avoids all the jealousy, judgment and negative attitudes.

I am! Ill get there the 2nd and leaving the fifth:) are you going with anyone? When are you going to be there?

Mine does that too. I shut my phone off and on again and that usually works

I am with dr Ariel Ortiz in TJ at the OCC. are you at that hospital too?

Same here! Off to Mexico dec 3! I was nervous at first but after all my research I feel Confident, and my dr supports me here too. Got all my blood wok done today!

I'm dec 3 too!!

Non scale victory

Mine too! Excited But nervous lol!

Lace my date is coming up too and I get these thoughts often as the time Gets closer. I have three little girls and the negative thoughts come and the feelings of guilt and "what ifs" come. Then ill look at someone's success story and I start to think what if... It does work and my kids get twice the mom at half the size. Can you imagine how this will affect their life in a positive way? Teach them healthy eating, have some self esteem, be more Active with them, go swimming more cause I won't be so ashamed of bing in a swimsuit! This is how I try to deal anyway. Feel free to msg me if you want as we have similar fears! We can do this!

Thank you cheznoel! And for the record I did venture back Into the sleeve forum too for recipe ideas and it was good lol just gotta watch what I'm asking about. I suppose being Passionate about what you have is not a bad things as long as its not dumping On what someone else has:) thank you all for your support:)

It's like crack to a grease monkey lol... Soo good but soo bad for you;)