SweetTee

We were all made aware of the risks associated with having wls, but kind of take them with a grain of salt. However, it is so very sad to hear that one of our vst family members succumbed to the risk. I say family because that is what we are. Although most of us have never met, this forum has in some cases been more supportive than some friends and family members. He like us all was looking forward to his new future with his new body. I don't know what to say, other than this is so tragic.

Another joyous occasion ladies!!
This A.M. I weigh 234.6lbs.
This is a VERY big deal for me. I have now hit my lowest adult weight.
Since getting my esophageal spasm under control, I can eat and my stall is over!!! Yay!!
234 is also the lowest weight I achieved dieting by myself.
What a great number to have reached!
HAPPY TIMES!!!
If this continue to go this good hopefully this strong since of regret will fade!!
Thanks for enduring these struggles with me and embracing the celebrations!!!

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Sannah,
I haven't been on in a minute so I wanted to take the time to drop in and send well wishes and good cheer your way.
I'm so relieved to hear that you're feeling and doing better! Hooray for you. I hope that the issues with the kidney stones are worked out ASAP.
Just being able to eat and feel normal is such a wonderful accomplishment.
So glad to hear that the little one and the DH are doing good as well.
Hooray for small victories!
Tasha

I noticed this too. Good to know that this too shall pass. I'm so ready to feel normal again!

All great advice. He promises he won't do anything until we are in a better situation. I do believe him. He says he is fully aware of his past behavior and won't do anything to screw things up. Thank u everyone for your advice. I am going to stick this out a little longer. I've never prayed but maybe now is a good time to start. I just want peace in my life Thank u everyone again. It feels great have this group xoxo

I think Deborah's partner is same-sex, BUT, the point is well made. Doesn't have to be a man-woman relationship for there to be jealousy and insecurity. That kind of thing comes in all shapes, sizes, and genders! LOL
-Kendra

Men just get insecure, Mine husband always gets nervous when I up his life insurance policy....

Okay, so you know when you know something isn't right in your relationship but you can't quite figure out what it is?
Well, I finally heard this today, "I can't help but wondering if you are going to Mexico so you can lose a bunch of weight because you want to go find someone else." And there have been a few moments of, "yeah, are you sure you're going to Mexico for surgery?" Like I'm going to put little scratches and steristrips on my belly to cover up for my going off to Mexico to have some secret tryst. Sigh.
We talk all the time about unsupportive partners and why that is, but am I alone here?

You look great! Glory to God!

Got on the scale this morning and 20lbs down from surgery! Exactly 2 weeks from the day of my surgery, that makes 32lbs all together!! I'm so excited.

I'm 11 days post op and noticing a difference already!

Seeing some results. 2wk post op

Seeing some results. 2wk post op

Seeing some results. 2wk post op

I pre-warned my boyfriend, sister and mother. lol I was like "Beware of my mood after surgery... i will either be bitchy or crying all the time.. please just go with the flow." I told my bf i will repay him with amazing sex lol, i promised my sister that i wont wear her clothes once i reach her size and when i start shopping she can have some freebies and mom gets a free vacation lol. We have to remember that our main supporters are going through this as well. We can not be selfish.
Getting sleeved in 9 days!!!! YA!!!!!!!!

Thanks you guys, and PDX Man you are right. He says he was upset that I was in the store complaining over the price of chewable vitamins, lol. It took me forever to pick one. He also said he was glad that I am putting me first and I would not have been complaining if it were something I was buying for the kids. He also apologized and said that I was extremely moody yesterday. I know that I was but I figured they should cut me some slack and understand. I was so frustrated cause I couldn't eat anything!!! He kissed my sweet face and told me he loves me and he's my a&$ho$&. . So today I made him his favorite meatloaf, potatoes, and corn. I also baked him his favorite sweet potato pie. If I felt up to it I would give him dessert twice,(wink). Maybe next time.

I'm 11 days post op and noticing a difference already!

I'm 11 days post op and noticing a difference already!

I'm back at the hotel now. Had some great broth that I could only eat 3/4 of. Had a Popsicle that I couldn't finish either. The drain tube coming out didn't hurt. When she went to pull it out I freaked out for a second and started hollowing STOP STOP STOP and then my friends busted out laughing and told me it was done already. So it really doesn't hurt. The staples will come out tomorrow so I will let u know how that goes. I know now why fellow sleevers don't post so much after surgery. Sorry I have not been posting to much but 1st day was bad and 2nd day was better but not great and the 3rd day WOW I FEEL GREAT. Not hungry but I am thirsty. I got to meet SChavez b4 surgery. I also talked to Jay1234 he is here at the hotel. Well fixing to go get some more chicken or beef broth.

No hunger here either. I'm about 10 days post op and even the head hunger has disappeared. food no longer controls me.

I'm 11 days post op and noticing a difference already!

Thanks you guys, and PDX Man you are right. He says he was upset that I was in the store complaining over the price of chewable vitamins, lol. It took me forever to pick one. He also said he was glad that I am putting me first and I would not have been complaining if it were something I was buying for the kids. He also apologized and said that I was extremely moody yesterday. I know that I was but I figured they should cut me some slack and understand. I was so frustrated cause I couldn't eat anything!!! He kissed my sweet face and told me he loves me and he's my a&$ho$&. . So today I made him his favorite meatloaf, potatoes, and corn. I also baked him his favorite sweet potato pie. If I felt up to it I would give him dessert twice,(wink). Maybe next time.

Hubby is acting great these days. I think it has more to do with me "taking care of him" than my cooking, LOL!