Okay, so you know when you know something isn't right in your relationship but you can't quite figure out what it is?

Well, I finally heard this today, "I can't help but wondering if you are going to Mexico so you can lose a bunch of weight because you want to go find someone else." And there have been a few moments of, "yeah, are you sure you're going to Mexico for surgery?" Like I'm going to put little scratches and steristrips on my belly to cover up for my going off to Mexico to have some secret tryst. Sigh.

We talk all the time about unsupportive partners and why that is, but am I alone here?

Men just get insecure, Mine husband always gets nervous when I up his life insurance policy....

I think Deborah's partner is same-sex, BUT, the point is well made. Doesn't have to be a man-woman relationship for there to be jealousy and insecurity. That kind of thing comes in all shapes, sizes, and genders! LOL

-Kendra

Okay' date=' so you know when you know something isn't right in your relationship but you can't quite figure out what it is?

Well, I finally heard this today, "I can't help but wondering if you are going to Mexico so you can lose a bunch of weight because you want to go find someone else." And there have been a few moments of, "yeah, are you sure you're going to Mexico for surgery?" Like I'm going to put little scratches and steristrips on my belly to cover up for my going off to Mexico to have some secret tryst. Sigh.

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Sorry u had to deal with that. I think it's impossible for partners to not have. But of jealousy or what if moments-- my wife(same sex) is completely there and supportive-- but she did have a moment of... When u lose weight nothing will change right...

I think it's natural but it is imperative to know the diff is natural I care jealousy and unhealthy -- if u all separate a d together would be willing to go to counseling it could benefit the relationship...

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