Krussell19

Well as an update I decided to let my husband try it and OMG!!!!! it did take me a moment to stop thinkin about my fat but once I decided to shut off my brain it was all good!! Never in my life had an orgasm like that and my husband was quite satisfied with himself lol

We have a great sex life. Honestly we usually have sex everyday. He just feels like it would be a lot funner if he could return the favor in the oral department.
I do believe I may try and relax and let it go for one day. He will be extremely thrilled at the opportunity and I can see if its something I actually like.
We've been together for almost 3 years now and at that point I was much larger and with having such an active sex life I do believe if there was something he didnt like about my body he would have already found it and left!

Shockingly we went down to 3.09 last night!! I so filled up lol

Well as an update I decided to let my husband try it and OMG!!!!! it did take me a moment to stop thinkin about my fat but once I decided to shut off my brain it was all good!! Never in my life had an orgasm like that and my husband was quite satisfied with himself lol

Well as an update I decided to let my husband try it and OMG!!!!! it did take me a moment to stop thinkin about my fat but once I decided to shut off my brain it was all good!! Never in my life had an orgasm like that and my husband was quite satisfied with himself lol

Well as an update I decided to let my husband try it and OMG!!!!! it did take me a moment to stop thinkin about my fat but once I decided to shut off my brain it was all good!! Never in my life had an orgasm like that and my husband was quite satisfied with himself lol

Well as an update I decided to let my husband try it and OMG!!!!! it did take me a moment to stop thinkin about my fat but once I decided to shut off my brain it was all good!! Never in my life had an orgasm like that and my husband was quite satisfied with himself lol

Hahaha that's great ... I've lost 130 lbs and my booty is still the same size it was:S

Damn men with their sexy bodies!!

My hubby is a pretty good guy.. he helps clean the house even folds the laundry (which I do not do), works two jobs and never has a complaint!
BUT (ofcourse I have a complaint lol) he leaves his dirty clothes were ever he took them off bathroom floor, next to the bed, livingroom. We have to hampers!! I absolutley hate dirty socks so I want to beat him. He leaves his pop cans all over his night stand for weeks unless I pick them up then he gets annoyed and says I would have got those
. WHEN???!! AFTER THE ENTIRE ROOM IS FULL OF THEM?... and he shaves his head and face over the bathroom sink and leaves it there.!!
Oh but I love him and all that he does day in and day out..I always say noone is perfect you just gotta decide who's annoying habits you can deal with!

I dated a guy who was totally weirded out by it. Needless to say I moved on lol... I'm now married to a man who loves my curves and believe me I got Curves!! I got more booty then most people would know what to do with lol

My husband gets irritated when i wont let him do certain things. Yes we are over weight and yes they may have to work a little harder or ask for assitance to keep parts "up" lol but they really dont mind. Not the ones closest to you anyway..:-) if he says it doesnt bother him, put your fav music on, grab some wine, a fluffy pillow lean back and let the great times roll!
Speakinh from experience, ive learned not to deprive my mate due to my insecurities. I hate legs stomach backside all, but birthday suit or professional suit, he loves it all and I really couldnt ask for more:-)
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I have this question because I know many of you are probably like me and self concious of your body.
Do you allow your husband or significant other to " go down" on you?
I'm not hideous I believe I am an attractive women. I have a large chest and plenty of booty that my hubby really enjoys but I carry all my weight in my stomach and thighs so I'm highly uncomfortable with the thought of his head being there.
It really upsets him one because he feels its not fair for me to please him and him not to please me and two because he feels like I'm not comfortable with him because he loves me and finds me sexual attractive no matter my size.
Its not that I'm not comfortable with him he is the first person to ever make me feel good about myself and feel attractive. I just personally feel discusted with the thought of him having to do that since all my fat is there!!

Understandable but there has to be girls out side of them that could feel those needs.
Honestly i dont even talk to guys who where rude when i was fat. Not worth my time. Yes i look diffrent but im the same girl n woulda been the same badass gf then. But no people are shallow so i to have set my standards above dirtbag.

Ok i know this is a guy thread but just a personal thought..
Why would you want to go for them? You werent good enough for them when you were bigger so why should they get to get with you just cause your smaller? Your still the same person just a smaller version. No offense but sounds like a bunch of shallow bi#c#es!

So true!!!!!! People forget this isn't just about what the scale says. Its about how your feeling, how your clothes are fitting! You can lose inches without losing a single pound. I didn't even buy a scale the first two years I was banded because I knew id become addicted to it!

I've been to three diffrent places for fills. All that offered free fills to self pay bansters (which I am not) my surgeon charged 250 a fill plus 35 for the xray room and he will not do it without an xray.
When I moved to kc I started going to a place that charges 150.
And in an emergency situation away from home I paid 475 for one.
Really just depends on the place you go!!

Understandable but there has to be girls out side of them that could feel those needs.
Honestly i dont even talk to guys who where rude when i was fat. Not worth my time. Yes i look diffrent but im the same girl n woulda been the same badass gf then. But no people are shallow so i to have set my standards above dirtbag.

I am much larger then I wanted to be when I got pregnant. Sitting at 305 right now and I'm just about 15 weeks along everything is going great. No port pain and I've only gained 3 pounds so far.
Getting pregnant was a huge surprise we Were not trying just happened due to one slip up. So it was very easy to get pregnant.
Doc has mentioned that a c section may be likley but I don't see why. There is really nothing about my band that effects pushing for a vaginal delivery.

I have a 10 cc band and I've had alot of issues with it. My surgeon was awful.
Yes you are much tighter then someone like me who has a big band. But honestly the only diffrence really is a. 5cc in you is like 2.5 ccs for me. Follow your meal plan laid out by your doc for liquids and then mushies and so on and all should be well.

By14 it was my resposibility every day to make dinner for our family of 7 and clean the kitchen.
Tell them this is a rough time for you. They can either step up and fend for themselves or starve!! Believe me they will not choose to starve.
During my liquid phase I went for a walk while everyone else cooked and ate it was easier for me to deal with.

My dad and step mom have had a 4 cc band for the past 6 years. Great success no complications at all!
Dads down 200 pounds and my step mom is down 120 both have hit their goal .