Congratulations on your weight loss. I'm sorry you had to experience the ordeal with the coworker. I work in an office with about 40 women. Most of them know about my procedure. I didn't just volunteer the info to all of them, but when I had to do the 2 week liquid diet prior to the surgery, that's when the questions started because that was when we were having potlucks, celebrations, etc and Ididn't participate.
I am a part of a research program sponsored by my insurance company. My carrier does NOT cover any type of weight loss surgery. But as part of this program, the surgery and follow up for the next five years are at no expense to me. I took this opportunity to share the info with other coworkers that could benefit from it too. Yes, there were some haters, because some people are just going to be negative regardless. I am the type of person that's going to do what I'm going to do. I didn't seek anyone's advice. I researched it, informed myself of the pros and cons, prayed about it and I went for it!
Being that I was a person that loved to eat, initially I think they were under the impression that I wouldn't stick it out. I lost 11 lbs pre-op and I have lost 19lbs post-op. They see that I am serious. But their opinion never mattered. I did this for me. I have so much more energy. I do more activities with my children. I'm also doing this for the other people that that this study will have an impact on. My results along with the others that are participating will affect whether our carrier will come on board and start covering it.
I have a tremendous support system! My mom, my sisters, my children, their dad, my friends, coworkers and the new friends I have made on this site. We may have our starts and stops with this journey, but we will be successful!