littlerlou

First and foremost..CONGRATS!!! What a lot of people dont understand is that most of us who have come to the decision for LB, have come to it becuase of "getting off our asses and trying EVERYTHING". Losing weight becomes a job and an obsession in and of itself and its hard work that never ends. Too many people look at WLS as the easy way out. Its actually the hardest road to take and they dont understand that. I would make sure I posted something along those lines. Too many people see weight loss updates after surgery and the image they have is that your sitting there on your duff eating what you want and losing weight. No one has any idea the work that goes into it. That is why I have opted to not tell my family at all. My husband knows, but other than that..no one will know because I dont want to deal with their negativity or little snide comments. I come from a family of large people and dont want to head down that road. Ive seen and done every diet possible..Food is considered love and affection in my family and when another member got WLS you would have thought she slapped each and every family member in the face. It was horrible and she no longer talks to any of them. So Im keeping it to myself.

Thank You for the encouragement. Im looking forward to hearing your exeperience in a couple of days!!

Thank You. I will make sure I ask that. I was on Adipex for a year. Hopefully the insurance will give me some credit towards that.

Im definately going to keep on keeping on. I have my appt with my doctor on Thursday, Ill be changing insurance during the open enrollment anyway because the insurance I have is a nightmare. So, that wont take effect until Jan 1st..which is about 1/2 way anyway right??? So more likely than not, Im going to go see my doc on Thursday..start Weight Watchers..or something of the like immediately...change insurances during open enrollment, (both the insurance Im with now and the one I plan on changing to cover WW). So figure that is at least a step or two in the right direction.

So true!

You dont sound like a downer at all! In fact, I LOVE when people are straight forward. I hate the run around...I just wish this would have been told to me a year ago when my doctor suggested it...and instead of trying the Adipex I would have done something "insurance approved". 6 months doesnt seem like a long time in the grand scheme of things. Not at all. I got a Dr. appt for this Thursday and am going to go step by step. Crossing my T's and dotting my I's.

Im so glad I found this forum. Ive come across it a few times when I typed a general question into the Google search..but today, I decided to join because Ive been trying to get help and answers and no one seems to have them..so I figured I would go to the people who know the most about it!! My doctor recommended lap band surgery about a year ago. It wasnt a written referal. She knows what hell I have gone through to try to lose weight. I never went to a support group or doctor regulated diet program. Quite frankly, we've discussed it many times and she said the failure rate is pretty high and that just from what Ive done on my own she doesnt expect me to get any better results through the ones through the doctors office. She even put me on Adipex for a year with no results. So she said Lap Band would be an awesome choice for me. Now, the problem Im running into is that the insurances I have checked into say that I have to be on a doctor monitored weight loss program for 6 months to 1 year before they will cover it. BUT...what it seems like is that they dont consider the Adipex at all. Like that doesnt count. And my doctor says that going through the support group and all that would be a waste of time and money because she knows what I have done on my own for years and their programs are no different. I guess my question is..has anyone found a way around this with their insurance? Its not like I woke up one day and said "Hey, I want surgery and Im not gonna try anything else". Ive tried EVERYTHING!! Any advice anyone has would be greatly appreciated.