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Hi! I'm almost 3 weeks post op and feel so much better than I did the first week or week and a half. I had buyer's remorse several times and I had panic moments. I had depression and the feeling that I would never feel better again but as of today....hummmm, let's see, I am 19 days post op....I'm starting to feel more and more like myself again. My belly is still tender and getting my Protein down is still a bit of a challenge but I would definitely do it again. If you had asked me, oh say, a week or so ago....I might have answered that question differently. I have a blog that I use almost strictly for my journey. I wrote about how I felt and what I was going through. I haven't updated in a few days so you don't see all the positive things I'm feeling now but I did have a hard time the last couple of weeks. If you want to read it, it is http://sliceofhealthyplease.blogspot.com/

So happy for you! As far as the restriction, I'll say a couple of things. I'm just a little over 2 weeks post op and while still in the hospital and all drugged up, I managed to drink a cup of broth. I was so not with it and all the meds made me not feel a thing. The nurse came in and liked to have freaked out. He got on to me and told me that was way too much liquid for my new stomach. So I would just sip and do it slowly. Also, with Water and even ice, I do not feel any restriction but I now make sure I take no more in than 4 oz at a time. When eat a pureed bean Soup, I feel some restriction. I was told today at my nutritional class that when I start on the mushy phase, that I will definitely feel more restriction. I think it all just depends on the density of what we're putting in there. I'm sure someone else that has been sleeved longer will be able to elaborate.

Yes, she said she will be off it in about 3 weeks. So, if I understood her right, when it's all said and done she will have been on it for around 5 weeks. I can't even imagine.

I was told that I will never again be able to take ibuprofen. And here's an example why: I was just at my 2 week nutritional class today and there was a lady there that had had the bypass years ago. She has taken ibuprofin for the last year or so and it caused an ulcer. She had to have a revision to the sleeve 2 weeks ago because of it. She has been on a feeding tube and still will be for the next 3 weeks. Just something to think about.

Great news! Not about the pain though. So glad she's doing good. Tell her to hang in there. It will get better!

Been praying for you! Can't wait to hear how you are doing.

I'm thinking about and praying for all of you. You will do fine! Keep us posted.

I'm 17 days out and live in Texas so I understand the longing for that good ole sweet tea. At about a week post op, I had it once when we were out. We stopped by Chicken Express...there sweet tea is the best...of course, there was nothing I could have except liquid. So I chose sweet tea. I didn't feel guilty because I was barely getting 400-500 calories a day. Also, I couldn't drink but maybe 5-8 oz. and that took me half a day. One more thing, my taste buds have changed and it just didn't taste as awesome as it use to. It was okay but water would have been fine. Who knows, maybe when you try it, your taste buds will be turned off too.

When did you start taking pills again?

Hi Patty! I'm only a little over 2 weeks out so I'm not sure that I'm qualified to comment but I thought I might make a few eating suggestions since I will be in the soft food phase in less than a week. I was told that I can have packaged/canned tuna as long as it is tender and can be mashed down a bit. Also, shaved lunch meats, crock pot chicken, cottage cheese, yogurt, mashed sweet potatoes... there's are probably other things too. I'm sure that your stomach just isn't used to anything but liquids...I bet it will get easier over time. You're in my thoughts.

Wow! This is crazy! I thought it was just me too. I had surgery on June 23 and since then have been dealing with what I think is a yeast infection. I've tried Monistat which didn't help much. I now have an appointment with my gyn on Monday. They were going to call a prescription in but I can't take pills yet. So I have to go in. Hopefully, they will give a me a shot instead of liquid.

I'm in the puree phase of it right now. From what I was told, if I were to have a can of bean and bacon Soup, I am to add Water to thin it out and then puree it until it is complete liquid. It has to run through a regular straw freely. I was also told to stay away from chunky meats even after they are pureed. The meats, even after pureed, are hard for the stomach to digest. I was told no cheese until week 3. I have no idea why. As far as what I've pureed, well, most kinds of soup, refried Beans, potatoe soup, french onion soup, lots of beans...lots of soups! I've pureed black beans, chicken broth, a little salsa, and sour cream....oh and my husband through a raw egg in for the Protein...I couldn't even tell it was there. I'm sooooooooo sick of anything that is liquid...I'm starting to gag it down ... whatever it is. I can't wait to get something solid in my mouth.....I'm counting down to this coming Thursday. Tonight, there was not one thing I could think of that sounded good and I was almost in tears. So my husband put together a tortilla soup....yes, with tortilla chips...and pureed it. Even though it was liquid, it was still very thick. I could only eat like 2 oz. It was really good. My husband made a homemade broccoli and cheese last night...and yes, I know, I wasn't supposed to have the cheese but I needed something different....he pureed it to complete liquid and it went down fine. It does feel good to get more than Clear Liquids but after a while it just becomes gruelsome to keep up with liquid and nothing but liquid......I will continue on and I really hope you enjoy this phase. I would love to hear others' ideas on recipes.

I'll just throw my 2 cents in, when I was in the hospital I was so well drugged up most of the time that I didn't care what I had on. I wore my hospital gown and there were times that I didn't care if all was covered. I wasn't even thinking about it. It freaks me out now to think that I may have flashed someone or a few but unless someone tells me that's what happened, I'm not going to worry about it. I wouldn't spend any extra money on new PJ's. I'd either pick something you already have that is comfortable or just wear the hospital gown.

Congrats to both of you on your upcoming surgeries. Don't feel sad about leaving the old self behind. You're not actually leaving you behind...only the tent! You're taking you with you and you'll be free from all the extra weight so that you can truly enjoy life. I'm 16 days post op and so, my journey has barely begun. I've lost somewhere between 30 and 35 pounds since I started the pre-op diet and I already feel better. I don't feel bad about leaving all that weight behind. It's hard to let go of ALL the food but the really cool thing is that I will once again, one day enjoy real food again but because I can't gorge (no room in there) and because I know that I don't want to eat all the wrong things all the time ... ever again... I am so looking forward to enjoying food in a way that I have never enjoyed it before and guess what...I'll be thin doing it! What an awesome feeling! We deserve to feel like we're a normal size. I felt for years that my weight defined me because of the way others treated me. I felt like I would never be loved and cared about the way that I should be because there were some that couldn't see past my fat. I had given up on weight loss. I was tired of working really hard to lose weight just to turn around and gain it back, plus some. It was awful! I had already told my husband that I wasn't going to try anymore to lose weight. I had given up and that put me in a dark place. Then, him and I started talking about WLS. I never thought it would happen but it did and even though I haven't lost a whole lot, I'm already starting to feel free from this smuthering weight. Be happy about leaving the old body behind...take your personality with you but say goodbye to the rest of you!

Wow! You are a strong woman. You have been through so much. Congrats on your upcoming surgery! And welcome to our forum!

I'm not sure what happen with your choking. I'm glad you are okay. I thought I might throw in my two cents. This may be a reason you had that pain. Only guessing but I thought the information I received from my post op appointment was kind of interesting. The incision where the stomach was pulled out for me is located to the left of my belly button and just above it (when i look straight down).I was told at my first post op appointment that there is actually an internal Incision through a 2 inch strip of muscle. It is inbetween that patricular incision and the one that is about 3 inches above it and about 2 inches over if that makes any sense. Anyways, I was told that the pain will hang around longer and that there are actual stitches inside you that close that muscle. I actually have a dent right above the first incision I spoke about. I was told that once the stitches start to dissolve, the dent will pop back out. I'm 15 days post op and when I move a certain way, that area has a very painful burn. It has actially gotten worse today....not sure why. I know I have been more active and I wonder if I did something to it.

I'm 2 weeks post op and I've only had 2 days so far were I got all my protein in. That was Tuesday and today. It's so hard and I can't image having the pain while swallowing to go with it. Maybe ask about the Nexium granules. Since 2 days after surgery, I've been taking it with grape juice each night and have not had any reflux, heartburn, etc. Hang in there! I think once you are placed on the right medication, things will be so much better for you. Also, I feel like the first 2 weeks are the hardest. Lots of frustration sets in because you sip all day and barely get anything down. I had zero energy and felt as if I'd never feel better. I had some days of major depression because it was so overwhelming. I asked my husband several times if it would ever get better. Even though i had read and read on what to expect, when i was going through it... It was really hard to convince myself that i would ever feel better. Also, my stomach didn't stop swelling until about the 7th or 8th day, if I remembr right. I couldn't even get burps to come up and would nearly throw up trying. Each day has gotten a tad bit better. Today was by far the best. I'm totally off pain and nausea meds. I drove for the first time today. My belly is tender but not with extreme pain. I'm getting so much more liquid and protein down and it didn't seem as hard to do today. I almost feel back to myself again. I know right now is really tough but it will get better. Stay on your doctor until something works. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

I'm 2 weeks post op and I've only had 2 days so far were I got all my protein in. That was Tuesday and today. It's so hard and I can't image having the pain while swallowing to go with it. Maybe ask about the Nexium granules. Since 2 days after surgery, I've been taking it with grape juice each night and have not had any reflux, heartburn, etc. Hang in there! I think once you are placed on the right medication, things will be so much better for you. Also, I feel like the first 2 weeks are the hardest. Lots of frustration sets in because you sip all day and barely get anything down. I had zero energy and felt as if I'd never feel better. I had some days of major depression because it was so overwhelming. I asked my husband several times if it would ever get better. Even though i had read and read on what to expect, when i was going through it... It was really hard to convince myself that i would ever feel better. Also, my stomach didn't stop swelling until about the 7th or 8th day, if I remembr right. I couldn't even get burps to come up and would nearly throw up trying. Each day has gotten a tad bit better. Today was by far the best. I'm totally off pain and nausea meds. I drove for the first time today. My belly is tender but not with extreme pain. I'm getting so much more liquid and protein down and it didn't seem as hard to do today. I almost feel back to myself again. I know right now is really tough but it will get better. Stay on your doctor until something works. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Wow! You look awesome! I love that dress in the last picture. I know you've worked really hard to get to where you're at and you should be proud. You will serve as encouragement to me...I'm 2 weeks post op. It's hard to believe that I may share some of the same victories you're having right now. Good job! No...GREAT job!

Congrats! Each day will get better. I'm 14 days post op and am finally starting to feel somewhat normal. Just keep sipping and walking even when you don't want to. You'll do good.

I am 13 days post op and all I was told was that I had to be free and clear of my nausea med (it would knock me out) and my pain meds. The last time I took either was 2 days ago. I'm ready to drive and I think tomorrow will be my first drive out on my own. I could have driven yesterday but had no desire to.

If you're still having problems, try to gargle warm water and table salt. Then spit it out. Do this several times a day.Good luck!

Oh yes, and I forgot about the runs. The thought of not having what you need or not having a place to take care of business would be enough for me to say no thanks. Lol

I had my surgery 12 days ago and the day before surgery, I was doing the same thing you are now. It's normal to feel that way. What calmed me down a bit was when the anethesiologist (sp?) called to ask questions. I told him how nervous I was and he said that even though this was a major surgery, it was a very easy, noncomplicated surgery. He said that he had been present through lots of the sleeve surgeries and he'd never seen anyone that had problems during surgery. That was a relief...why should I be the first? Ha! Also, after your stomach stops swelling...about a week out....you will slowly but surely be able to take more in. I've had my panic moments after surgery but I'm starting to feel a lot better now. You will be okay and you will be able to eat again....eat normal foods....AND you will lose weight! It's a process and what you're feeling is part of the process. After surgery, you may still have your doubts (as I have....why did I do this to myself? kind of feelings...which now I am happy with my decision) because it is tough but you will get through it! You will be fine! Think about how important this is to you and why you considered having this surgery in the first place. By next summer, we will be thin and enjoying our life!