Deakay

I finally made a profile on Plenty of Fish and met a keeper But I have also learned a few things along the way.....and here is a list:
you have to have a full body shot, most men are very visual and if they aren't attracted to you they won't put the effort into getting to know you.
you cannot "talk yourself into" a guy....you are either attracted to him or you aren't.
and a huge reminder to all the women, don't get so wrapped up in trying to do all the right things so he will call again....a man that is truly into you will pretty much snap to attention whenever you walk into the room. I never in a million years I would find that and yet he still does it.....look for that! we all deserve it.
I am still almost 40lbs overweight, my boobs have gone away but my butt is going to hang on until the end of time.....and he doesn't see any of it. To him I am beautiful, and for me after almost 3 months I'm actually starting to believe it.
Keep looking, but look for what YOU want, not what you can be for someone else.

I have an ass and a man that loves it I am still losing slowly but surely. He tells me to do whatever makes me happy and that I can't hide my beauty......and it is true. Over 90lbs gone and my shape is the same....I am a PAWG with juicy thighs and I let him worship at my alter. LOL

Men are visual creatures.......at least mine is. He loves to look at me It makes me feel extremely confident and that in turn makes me more attractive.
What I find interesting is when I was over-weight, I felt invisable and assumed that I was. Now that I am not obese, I don't know if more men notice me or if it is just because my man points it out to me when another guy is checking me out....lol because I still don't notice it very often. Maybe I'm obtuse............

I have an ass and a man that loves it I am still losing slowly but surely. He tells me to do whatever makes me happy and that I can't hide my beauty......and it is true. Over 90lbs gone and my shape is the same....I am a PAWG with juicy thighs and I let him worship at my alter. LOL

I have an ass and a man that loves it I am still losing slowly but surely. He tells me to do whatever makes me happy and that I can't hide my beauty......and it is true. Over 90lbs gone and my shape is the same....I am a PAWG with juicy thighs and I let him worship at my alter. LOL

I love my pear shape..........my waist is 14" smaller than my butt. My boobs are almost gone and I can't decide if I should buy myself some new and improved ones once I have been at goal for a year or not. The boyfriend is saying "don't ruin it" and has no interest in breasts....he is an ass man and I will always have that.

I finally made a profile on Plenty of Fish and met a keeper But I have also learned a few things along the way.....and here is a list:
you have to have a full body shot, most men are very visual and if they aren't attracted to you they won't put the effort into getting to know you.
you cannot "talk yourself into" a guy....you are either attracted to him or you aren't.
and a huge reminder to all the women, don't get so wrapped up in trying to do all the right things so he will call again....a man that is truly into you will pretty much snap to attention whenever you walk into the room. I never in a million years I would find that and yet he still does it.....look for that! we all deserve it.
I am still almost 40lbs overweight, my boobs have gone away but my butt is going to hang on until the end of time.....and he doesn't see any of it. To him I am beautiful, and for me after almost 3 months I'm actually starting to believe it.
Keep looking, but look for what YOU want, not what you can be for someone else.

I finally made a profile on Plenty of Fish and met a keeper But I have also learned a few things along the way.....and here is a list:
you have to have a full body shot, most men are very visual and if they aren't attracted to you they won't put the effort into getting to know you.
you cannot "talk yourself into" a guy....you are either attracted to him or you aren't.
and a huge reminder to all the women, don't get so wrapped up in trying to do all the right things so he will call again....a man that is truly into you will pretty much snap to attention whenever you walk into the room. I never in a million years I would find that and yet he still does it.....look for that! we all deserve it.
I am still almost 40lbs overweight, my boobs have gone away but my butt is going to hang on until the end of time.....and he doesn't see any of it. To him I am beautiful, and for me after almost 3 months I'm actually starting to believe it.
Keep looking, but look for what YOU want, not what you can be for someone else.

I finally made a profile on Plenty of Fish and met a keeper But I have also learned a few things along the way.....and here is a list:
you have to have a full body shot, most men are very visual and if they aren't attracted to you they won't put the effort into getting to know you.
you cannot "talk yourself into" a guy....you are either attracted to him or you aren't.
and a huge reminder to all the women, don't get so wrapped up in trying to do all the right things so he will call again....a man that is truly into you will pretty much snap to attention whenever you walk into the room. I never in a million years I would find that and yet he still does it.....look for that! we all deserve it.
I am still almost 40lbs overweight, my boobs have gone away but my butt is going to hang on until the end of time.....and he doesn't see any of it. To him I am beautiful, and for me after almost 3 months I'm actually starting to believe it.
Keep looking, but look for what YOU want, not what you can be for someone else.

I finally made a profile on Plenty of Fish and met a keeper But I have also learned a few things along the way.....and here is a list:
you have to have a full body shot, most men are very visual and if they aren't attracted to you they won't put the effort into getting to know you.
you cannot "talk yourself into" a guy....you are either attracted to him or you aren't.
and a huge reminder to all the women, don't get so wrapped up in trying to do all the right things so he will call again....a man that is truly into you will pretty much snap to attention whenever you walk into the room. I never in a million years I would find that and yet he still does it.....look for that! we all deserve it.
I am still almost 40lbs overweight, my boobs have gone away but my butt is going to hang on until the end of time.....and he doesn't see any of it. To him I am beautiful, and for me after almost 3 months I'm actually starting to believe it.
Keep looking, but look for what YOU want, not what you can be for someone else.

I finally made a profile on Plenty of Fish and met a keeper But I have also learned a few things along the way.....and here is a list:
you have to have a full body shot, most men are very visual and if they aren't attracted to you they won't put the effort into getting to know you.
you cannot "talk yourself into" a guy....you are either attracted to him or you aren't.
and a huge reminder to all the women, don't get so wrapped up in trying to do all the right things so he will call again....a man that is truly into you will pretty much snap to attention whenever you walk into the room. I never in a million years I would find that and yet he still does it.....look for that! we all deserve it.
I am still almost 40lbs overweight, my boobs have gone away but my butt is going to hang on until the end of time.....and he doesn't see any of it. To him I am beautiful, and for me after almost 3 months I'm actually starting to believe it.
Keep looking, but look for what YOU want, not what you can be for someone else.

I finally made a profile on Plenty of Fish and met a keeper But I have also learned a few things along the way.....and here is a list:
you have to have a full body shot, most men are very visual and if they aren't attracted to you they won't put the effort into getting to know you.
you cannot "talk yourself into" a guy....you are either attracted to him or you aren't.
and a huge reminder to all the women, don't get so wrapped up in trying to do all the right things so he will call again....a man that is truly into you will pretty much snap to attention whenever you walk into the room. I never in a million years I would find that and yet he still does it.....look for that! we all deserve it.
I am still almost 40lbs overweight, my boobs have gone away but my butt is going to hang on until the end of time.....and he doesn't see any of it. To him I am beautiful, and for me after almost 3 months I'm actually starting to believe it.
Keep looking, but look for what YOU want, not what you can be for someone else.

I finally made a profile on Plenty of Fish and met a keeper But I have also learned a few things along the way.....and here is a list:
you have to have a full body shot, most men are very visual and if they aren't attracted to you they won't put the effort into getting to know you.
you cannot "talk yourself into" a guy....you are either attracted to him or you aren't.
and a huge reminder to all the women, don't get so wrapped up in trying to do all the right things so he will call again....a man that is truly into you will pretty much snap to attention whenever you walk into the room. I never in a million years I would find that and yet he still does it.....look for that! we all deserve it.
I am still almost 40lbs overweight, my boobs have gone away but my butt is going to hang on until the end of time.....and he doesn't see any of it. To him I am beautiful, and for me after almost 3 months I'm actually starting to believe it.
Keep looking, but look for what YOU want, not what you can be for someone else.

we all have doubts......I still think I am losing slowly, but I am convinced at least what I have lost is really and truly gone forever. And here is a really big secret.......I would lose more if I made more of an effort and actually got off my ass and exercised like I did before my surgery, but I'm NOT mentioning that to my surgeon. lol He is happy with my loss the way its going

My family surprised me when I told them.....I was hesitant to at first, but there really isn't any way around it. If you spend any amount of time with them, they are going to have to know, so why not give them the opportunity to support you? As I said, I was surprised by the response. My mom asked what I needed, my brother and 1 sister replied that it wouldn't be their first choice but I should do whatever I have to do, and my other sister (the only one that has also struggled with weight) I think has more curiosity than anything. She was able to lose her excess weight with extreme, dr. assisted dieting (i.e. making your own ketchup and other things) while getting Vitamin shots and starting over on the exercise thing. And good for her......she maintained it for almost a year before re-gaining 20lbs, but I could be happy if I was able to live with 20 extra lbs.
Anyway, if your family is anything like mine, you won't be able to attend any type of family function that doesn't include food......and how will you explain the weight-loss? I know my family would have decided I was ill and dragged me kicking and screaming to whatever dr. they decided could treat me....lol
This is going to be great, however it works out. Everything happens for a reason, we just don't always see what it is right away.