Here's the answer to the easy way out comment that stops them cold in their tracks:
1) I've had to go on a restrictive, liquids-only pre-op diet for 2 weeks.
2) I've had to re-lean how to eat again beginning with clear liquids, moving on to pureed, then soft foods, and finally regular food.
3) I can no longer use food to drown out anxiety, emotional pain, etc. I have to deal with it face to face so I have good days and bad days.
4) My stomach has good days and bad days and I don't always no which one it will be. Then I have to carefully eat so as not to overeat and become sick. Food must be carefully and mindfully chewed.
5) I have to work out 3-4x per week
6) I need regular vitamins for the rest of my life.
* So tell me again, honey, how I took the easy way out.