The Opportunity of Being Delayed, Determined?but not Disappointed

For a variety of work related issues my banding has been moved out about 30 days from May 6th to June 8th. First, I would like to thank folks who have expressed their support. Second, I am somewhat relieved, odd as that might sound. I have been making good progress on losing weight with the pre-op liquids and kind of want to keep it going. I have been able to hit the gym almost every day and figure the better my physical condition before the surgery, the more likely it will be successful and the easier recovery will be. Third, my delay was related to some one time external events that can’t really be controlled. Given some of the horror stories I heard about insurance hassles and lack of family support I have read about, this is a minor compared to other trials.

I don’t mean to get all “Tony Robbins” on people, but, determination is at the core of the LB lifestyle change. You have to be determined to make the changes, eat appropriately and exercise…especially exercise. Despite the delay, I look at this as a way to test my determination and resolve before is shelling out $16K. If I can’t handle a 30 day delay, how will I handle a full life time of change? This is a great opportunity prove to myself and those I love, that this is a real change, not a transient trend that goes away at the first obstacle. I am not disappointed, I am actually grateful for the opportunity to keep demonstrating that I can exhibit the properly modified mindset for LapBand success (Yes, I am ignoring the possibility of failure. As they said in Apollo 13…”failure is not an option…”).

Great attitude! It really is all up to us, isn't it?! Sorry about the delay, but you're sure making the best of it...and things happen for a reason. -BG

Sorry I wont see you but you are right on about the whole thing! Iam excited but its not to 'get it started' as people have said, its really just to keep going. I have done great on my diet and I feel like in a way it doesnt matter when the date is. The band isnt going to make me lose weight. I know I can do that on my own but hopefully it will help me keep from gaining it back (and more!) so exactly when its placed isnt that big of a deal. Keep bloggig, I can tell there are a lot of others like me who really get some 'aha' moments from your words!!! Maybe I'll se you at a support group meeting sometime.

PS I was thining of getting some of your words from the food divorce blog put on a sofa pillow for inspiration...now maybe i'll use 'failure is not an option!'

You rock, keep being you!!! Diane