Help!! I'm being compaired to neighbor down street.

Hello, everyone I haven't posted much but read eveyday, I have a situation developing, my neighbor down street had lap band in April 08, he has lost 85lbs, my mother in law keeps telling me eveytime I see her how much he has lost and wants to know how much I have lost, my surgery wasn't until July 08, I have lost 30lbs, she keeps insinuating that I must be doing something wrong, because my weight isn't just falling off like crazy, I haven't even had a fill, as long as I am losing Dr. said he didn't think I needed one. I get so frustrated with her, she is a very nice person, but doesn't think before she speaks or how it might affect the person talking to. Sorry so long just had to vent, thanks for listening.

Debe

Tell her that everyone loses at different rates...and for some reason men seem to lose faster than women do anyway. I know they mean well but...