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Learning to appreciate who I am in my "Own Skin" !

By shonette

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This morning I was getting dress for work, and I looked at myself in the mirror! For the first time in years I was somewhat pleasantly surprised at the person I saw! This person has a nice glow about herself than ever before.(me) I have spent some much of my life doing everything for everyone else, and I never took time out to do anything for myself. I am normally racing around my house cleaning up after everyone, cooking, washing, assisting with homework, and being "Grammie"! Yes, I am a grandmother to a one month old little boy! He was born 3 days after my surgery! Therefore, I had very little to no healing time after my surgery. He is soooooo wonderful and I love him to no end!

However; being there for my daughter and her baby is a lot to juggle. I also have my finally appointment with my casework today to complete the process to becoming a foster parent. I sometimes feel like I am going to lose my sense of being. I do know God isn't going to place any more on me than I can handle. My plate is very full at times, but it was the way I've always defined who I was in this world. I now know I can take care of myself in the process. I now know I am so much more than that person who provides and takes care of everyone else's needs. I am learning to take some time out of my day to take care of myself. I work out at the YMCA at least 3-4 a week for at least 1 1/2 at night. This gives me the time I need to relax and reflect on myself. Being me isn’t so bad after all!:wub:

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    Bariatric Evangelist

    sandradee0124

    LAP-BAND Patients

    Good for you! You are doing so much! And congratulations on the new grandbaby! Your reflections are inspiring and yes, your plate looks full, but you are very happy being who you are and you seem very comfortable in your own skin. Take care and best wishes on your journey(s)!

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    • Bariatric Master

    LoseIt!

    LAP-BAND Patients

    What a great story, Grammie! Enjoy the heck out of your baby grandson. :)

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    • Bariatric Guru

    Bklynike

    LAP-BAND Patients

    You got it going on. Congrats on the grandbaby and for learning to what you need to do for yourself. The lap-band is a great start. Keep on the road to a healthier you.

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    marw

    LAP-BAND Patients

    It sounds like you are thinking things through and doing very well - good for you! Keep up the good work. God bless you in your efforts toward foster parenting - you are needed.

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    shonette

    LAP-BAND Patients

    I really appreciate all the nice and encouraging words from everyone. It means so much to be able to express my feelings and hardships to others who can relate in some way or the other. Again, I really appreciate the love and support I always feel from this site.

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