This year is a year of change for me. I got sleeved in February and lost over 100lbs so far. I am feeling better and can do things I couldn't do for years. With that said, sadly I am feeling very lonely still. My birthday is coming up next month and I will be 39 and alone. Another year that way and it sucks. Hopefully as I keep losing and things get better, my situation will change. It would just be nice to find someone to share this life with.

@@Niki15 Sadly not seeing any ladies in Nevada area on here. Guess I'll have to broaden my search to other states. lol

good luck sweetie

Story of my life...best I can tell the most compatible guys live at least 200 miles away...ha!

@@Daveo your mate will arrive. I cannot emphasis enough building the life you want to live will attract the woman you want to live with.

Mates don't solve a effing thing and yet a wonderful mate is a gift from God. I think once we find contentment people will be knocking down doors to share it. So find contentment and.Miss Wonderful will show up!

I get alot of attention from the opposite gender but I continue to mature emotionally so my views are evolving. I have been in the.ballpark of goal since feb 2013 and still "feel" the emotional etc work I need to attend to. I really recognize how important being true to thine self is key.

I have much more brewing on this topic... more to follow.

@@Niki15 Sadly not seeing any ladies in Nevada area on here. Guess I'll have to broaden my search to other states. lol

haha yeah I am finding out all the single women seem to be in other states! I picked the wrong state to live in. lol

yeah I'm gonna work on myself and the life I want. Having new friends to talk to from here does help with the loneliness though which is great.