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first time im regretted having surgery

I'm tired of feeling sick not being able to eat then when I do it make me feel sick not being able ti move around like I use to I feel old I guess I'm having a bad day Sorry!!!!!!

Mz Shay

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I'm tired of feeling sick not being able to eat then when I do it make me feel sick not being able ti move around like I use to I feel old I guess I'm having a bad day Sorry!!!!!! Mz Shay

Nope you are normal and right on schedule!! I remember the day I regretted my surgery. My poor husband did the only thing he could think and that was to go buy me some Soup. I sat in my bedroom and cried and cried. Thinking to myself - what the hell did I do to my body. I just want a slice of pizza!!! Oh how I hated to hear - don't worry it gets better and easier - but everyone was right! It has gotten better and easier.

I talked to my doctor and got meds to help with the nausea, and throwing up. It worked wonders.

I know you are in touch with your doctor, and please continue to do that. I waited thinking this was part of the process - feeling sick and miserable!

Hang in there - it gets better ;-)

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Nope you are normal and right on schedule!! I remember the day I regretted my surgery. My poor husband did the only thing he could think and that was to go buy me some soup. I sat in my bedroom and cried and cried. Thinking to myself - what the hell did I do to my body. I just want a slice of pizza!!! Oh how I hated to hear - don't worry it gets better and easier - but everyone was right! It has gotten better and easier.

I talked to my doctor and got meds to help with the nausea' date=' and throwing up. It worked wonders.

I know you are in touch with your doctor, and please continue to do that. I waited thinking this was part of the process - feeling sick and miserable!

Hang in there - it gets better ;-)[/quote']

Yea I know some days I would kill to neymy old self know my left side hurting just depressing somedays I hope I get better real soon thanks

Mz Shay

Are you getting help for your depression? Have you discussed your eating problems with your surgeon and NUT? These are the things that will help your weight loss and lift up your spirits.

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Are you getting help for your depression? Have you discussed your eating problems with your surgeon and NUT? These are the things that will help your weight loss and lift up your spirits.

Yea they know I'm not eating good just felt blue today I'm not usually depresses but waking up sick something I'm not use to just gonna take some time I'm on ulcer meds. They are helping but just hard somedays

Mz Shay

I had daily regrets at first. Still cry when something I've eaten won't stay down. I'm 9 weeks post op and see no end in sight. I'm with you girl.

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I had daily regrets at first. Still cry when something I've eaten won't stay down. I'm 9 weeks post op and see no end in sight. I'm with you girl.

Oh wow 9weeks I'm 6weeks I'm not motivated well I hope we see some relief soon

Mz Shay

I'm not going to tell you "it gets better". No, not yet.

It's gets shittier before it gets better. Ride with it and follow the plan you were given.

Good luck! :)

I will reply... You have your inside rearrange from eating 2 slice of pizza to not eating pizza for months. Everything gets you sick. Your body starts melting away. You see the weight melting but you feel & look sick. The pants are falling off but yet your boobs are disappearing.your butt is getting smaller. Your tummy gets smaller but it's hanging & saggy.

It gets worst horrible you feel like a complete mess but you don't ever feel better until after 12 months post up.

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I will reply... You have your inside rearrange from eating 2 slice of pizza to not eating pizza for months. Everything gets you sick. Your body starts melting away. You see the weight melting but you feel & look sick. The pants are falling off but yet your boobs are disappearing.your butt is getting smaller. Your tummy gets smaller but it's hanging & saggy.

It gets worst horrible you feel like a complete mess but you don't ever feel better until after 12 months post up.

Ready for the breast to go but not the butt stomach already saggy just I'm get in a gym this week get out this house maybe I'll feel better

Mz Shay

I guess I shouldn't have read this post, I am scheduled for surgery next week, Oct 23, it sounds pretty bad, hope I didn't make the wrong decision in having this surgery.

Hope you start feeling better soon.

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I guess I shouldn't have read this post' date=' I am scheduled for surgery next week, Oct 23, it sounds pretty bad, hope I didn't make the wrong decision in having this surgery.

Hope you start feeling better soon.[/quote']

No its was just a bad day for me im happy I really healed quick no problems with pain just getting use to eating different that's all my emotions all over the place but its gonna br worth sorry pay me no mind I'm really a happy person gd luck

Mz Shay

Oh wow 9weeks I'm 6weeks I'm not motivated well I hope we see some relief soon

Mz Shay

Oh wow 9weeks I'm 6weeks I'm not motivated well I hope we see some relief soon, just hang in there.... :wub:

Mz Shay

Im 10 weeks and the last couple weeks have made a huge difference...HUGE!!...i can eat anything and drink normal, sometimes it scares me that I can eat so well...you will feel better soon
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Im 10 weeks and the last couple weeks have made a huge difference...HUGE!!...i can eat anything and drink normal' date=' sometimes it scares me that I can eat so well...you will feel better soon[/quote']

Ok I'm counting the days lol

Mz Shay

Mz shay...we all go through a period of mourning food and feeling down some days. I know you've had a tough time, and I'm so sorry to hear it. Have you been evaluated for depression by a qualified professional? Depression can worsen or appear after gastric bypass. I think ongoing therapy could really help. Ask for a referral from your primary or surgeon...you seem really down....I worry for you, hon.

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