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Enabling

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Main Entry: en·abler

Pronunciation: \i-ˈnā-blər, -bəl-ər\

Function: noun Date: 1615:

one that enables another to achieve an end ; especially : one who enables another to persist in self-destructive behavior (as substance abuse) by providing excuses or by making it possible to avoid the consequences of such behavior

food ADDICTION

Food addiction manifests itself in the uncontrollable craving for excess food that follows the ingestion of refined carbohydrates, primarily sugar and flour substances that are quickly metabolized and turned into sugar in the bloodstream.

Due to those uncontrollable cravings, a food addict's quality of life deteriorates when he or she eats sugar, flour or wheat. It can deteriorate physically, emotionally, socially and/or spiritually.

If any of the following symptoms are familiar to you, you may be a food addict:

Physical Symptoms of Food Addiction

• Do you think you cannot control your intake of food, especially junk food or high sugar foods?

• Have you tried different diets or weight loss programs, but none has worked permanently?

• Have you found yourself vomiting, using laxatives, diuretics, or exercising a lot to avoid a weight gain after you have eaten a lot?

Many food addicts are obese and have tried numerous methods for weight control (diets, drugs, surgery, etc.) yet nothing has created a permanent solution. Other food addicts have never been obese. Their physical weight has been controlled by extreme measures such as excessive exercise, purging through vomiting or laxatives (bulimia), or the severe and unhealthy limiting of food substances(anorexia). No matter which version of food addiction fits you, all of these symptoms become more severe with time and eventually lead to physical problems that can create an early and sometimes painful death.

Emotional Symptoms of Food Addiction

• Do you find yourself feeling depressed, hopeless, sad or ashamed about your eating or your weight?

• Do you find yourself eating when you are upset or reward yourself with food when you do something good?

• Have you ever noticed after eating sugar, flour, or wheat that you become more irritable?

Food addicts notice that their emotions become more severe, intense, or unreasonable when eating the addictive substances. For many food addicts, emotional life may deteriorate into despair, depression, or thoughts of suicide.

Social Symptoms of Food Addiction

• Do you eat in private so no one will see you?

• Do you avoid social interactions because you feel you do not look good enough or do not have the proper fitting clothes to wear?

• Do you steal other people’s food?

• Are you more interested in what food is served at social gatherings than looking forward to the warmth of being with the people attending?

A food addict’s social life is affected by intense obsessive thinking about food. Making eye contact with people and taking an interest in developing friendships or intimate relationships become secondary to locating and eating addictive foods. Food addicts often hide or steal foods and eat in secret.

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  • Butterthebean
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    What a great thread Laura. Yes, this place is a hot bed of enabling. All the "I ate a snickers bar one week post op and I don't feel bad about it....." Yeah, those people see that as a victory ov

  • AmandaRaeLeo
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    May I be so bold to suggest that those who justify and seek permission/absolution with regards to their drug of choice are the same ones who thought WLS was a cure? That the sleeve would do the fighti

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    You're right. Depending on what support you're looking for this site can be either good or bad for us. For me, I need the slap in the face, tear me apart reality that slipping up is not an option.

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People people.....do you folks not have whatabutger? It will make you burn mcdonalds to the ground.

That's the one my man croons over, too. Oh, and Crystals? (sp/ph). Apparently he can eat 17 of their mini cheese burgers in one sitting?

This is the man that is 6ft 4 and weighs 75kgs. I think I hate him.. (but not, perhaps, his arteries).

Sounds like he hates his arteries enough for both of you! :-)

Frankly, there was a time when I would have bought 4 meals a day from Chick FIL A. But I finally couldn't stand their discriminatory donations anymore. I will not enable those fuckeds.

As for deer in the yard.. I live between a river and golf course off Lake Washington in Seattle.

Frankly, there was a time when I would have bought 4 meals a day from Chick FIL A. But I finally couldn't stand their discriminatory donations anymore. I will not enable those fuckeds.

You mean the food tainted with hate?

Squirrels are rats with fluffy tails. True story.

Tree rats

oh and my old departed dog, Rocky, developed a friendly relationship with the squirrel that ate the birdseed off the ground under the birdfeeder. My Mr. SeaGirl (ha, I kinda like that name for him) used to refer to the squirrel as "Rocky's squirrelfriend". Now is that cute or what?

My dad (whom is a goofball) has a tin of nuts by his back door. He puts a few nuts out every day to amuse the dogs while the squirrels come to eat (okay, truly it's sadistic and drives the dogs ape-shitted but it amuses us). After Doing this for months we looked up one day and there was a squirrel at the sliding glass door, paws and nose against the glass, staring at the tin of nuts....'yo! Hey! We know they're in there!!! Gimme some nuts dude, come on!!!' Now the little rats do it all the time.

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Hi Seagirl! Bet this is quite the read Nice to see you here and posting :) It must be hard to travel for work and be away from home ( wait that part sounds good! Teenagers) and take of your meals out. I don't know if I would stay on the straight and narrow. Oh thanksgiving, every year we cook the day before (and eat like pigs) then on thanksgiving I pack up turkey dressing cranberry sandwiches and go to the beach just my husband, kids and me. It's our own personal fuckED you to our families :D Last year was my surgery a week before.. so that didn't happen. It's funny my mom called today and said hey can we come with you? Ummm yeah...I told her ok but you won't see for me for Christmas (yes I'm mean) so thanksgiving I think will be easy not to over indulge its Christmas that has me worried! Family = stress and tons of food = eating ...

Thanks for responding...I'm back in Denver now with about 600 foils in my hair waiting to revert to a blond again.....deep sign of relief.

Being on the road is good and bad. I love the work, but I get a little lonely. I do get 3 day weekends almost every week, so I'm sort of ruined for the real world. I was feeling fat, but realized it was my new pants and belt that felt a little tighter than the ones I bought a month ago. I was sure I hadn't lost any weight. My Friday routine is to wake, pee, strip, weigh....today down another 4 lbs... So that makes 50lbs since surgery! 59 total. My mind fucksED with me. Continually. I have a thinking disorder to go with the rest of my complex set of not so unique food issues.

Thanksgiving on the beach sounds wonderful!!! We are doing Prime Rib this year. I'm not sure how I'm going to negotiate that. Lots of family and friends and food. I'm sure my usual week on the road is easier than holiday meals. In fact, now that I'm down to one breakfast taco, sans the tortilla, and one beef taco (for lunch), without the tortilla again.. and greek yogurt from the hotel breakfast, eating on the road is much more sane and simple than before surgery when I ate it ALL, and was fucked in the brain the whole time. Weds was a bad day, maybe more tired or hormonal than usual.

Good news is I'm home. I weigh less. I'm sure to be blonder in another half hour. I'm having Prime Rib for Thanksgiving. I have friends here on this forum who truly understand me.

Good news is I'm home. I weigh less. I'm sure to be blonder in another half hour. I'm having Prime Rib for Thanksgiving. I have friends here on this forum who truly understand me.

doesn't suck does it? :) Congrats on 59 lbs! that's fantastic.

My dog, Nutmeg, jumped through our picture window to chase a squirrel. Fortunately she suffered not even a scratch.

The squirrel got away, and he laughed at her.

Squirrels are evil but entertaining. I moved to the country and there are none... now it is the coyotes who look in longingly thinking they can eat my lil dog or kitty.

whataburger and that 5 guys place are good - but I have a serious question... don't you get ill eating that food? Problem I have is that I am not in training..haha...not used to junky and fast good so when I do eat it, it gives me a tummy ache.

<p>Squirrels are evil but entertaining. I moved to the country and there are none... now it is the coyotes who look in longingly thinking they can eat my lil dog or kitty.</p> <p> </p> <p>whataburger and that 5 guys place are good - but I have a serious question... don't you get ill eating that food? Problem I have is that I am not in training..haha...not used to junky and fast good so when I do eat it, it gives me a tummy ache.</p>

The crappier the food, the worse I feel. Every time.

I've been to Auckland and they definitely have McDonalds. How come you had to go to the US to see it! By the way, New Zealand is my favorite country, and the Bay of Islands is my favorite bit.

I didn't explain properly - I went to Des Moines in 1971. I grew up in the UK. No McDonalds in the UK in 1971! And trust me, they hadn't even HEARD of the golden arches here in NZ until the late 80's. Haven't heard of the other ones - Whataburger?

I live (almost) on the beach on the North Shore. Dolphins play in the bay on occasion, and I have seen Orca out there too (3 times in 8 years!). I guess we all have our wildlife :-)

Squirrels are evil but entertaining. I moved to the country and there are none... now it is the coyotes who look in longingly thinking they can eat my lil dog or kitty. whataburger and that 5 guys place are good - but I have a serious question... don't you get ill eating that food? Problem I have is that I am not in training..haha...not used to junky and fast good so when I do eat it, it gives me a tummy ache.

I haven't eaten 5 guys in about 1 1/2 years but when I did eat it, it was scrumptious

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