Kinda embarrassed to ask but I'm 4days post op and got my exercise in yesterday with my new boyfriend, worked out well but the condom escaped us somehow...I need to take the morning after but not sure if or how it'll work...doctor is not in until tomorrow...I got 72 hrs ...

obviously call your doctor/surgeon/nurse ect first before deciding anything, but from what i gathered it is a small enough pill and should work just fine, take with food and lots of (sips) of water, also you may want to consider an iud, i have the copper iud (hormone free) and we use rubbers and even spermicidal foam when i am VERY paranoid, we have only *ahem* been intimate twice since surgery but are taking NO chances, of course as soon as I hit that 18-24 month mark all bets are off! I can't wait to start TRYING to get pregnant! we lost a baby a year ago (canada day) and it was a huge hit to both of us emotionally, but when we found out my surgery was coming up it helped ease that feeling of desperation and helped us look forward to the possibility of another child soon and far enough away from the miscarriage that we have both moved on with great success

obviously call your doctor/surgeon/nurse ect first before deciding anything' date=' but from what i gathered it is a small enough pill and should work just fine, take with food and lots of (sips) of Water, also you may want to consider an iud, i have the copper iud (hormone free) and we use rubbers and even spermicidal foam when i am VERY paranoid, we have only *ahem* been intimate twice since surgery but are taking NO chances, of course as soon as I hit that 18-24 month mark all bets are off! I can't wait to start TRYING to get pregnant! we lost a baby a year ago (canada day) and it was a huge hit to both of us emotionally, but when we found out my surgery was coming up it helped ease that feeling of desperation and helped us look forward to the possibility of another child soon and far enough away from the miscarriage that we have both moved on with great success[/quote']

I'm sorry for your loss. congrats on the go ahead.

Kinda embarrassed to ask but I'm 4days post op and got my exercise in yesterday with my new boyfriend' date=' worked out well but the condom escaped us somehow...I need to take the morning after but not sure if or how it'll work...doctor is not in until tomorrow...I got 72 hrs ...[/quote']

dang I'm still sore from the surgery. Happy to hear your not hehehe. Yeah maybe you should call your surgeons office.

I'm sorry for your loss. congrats on the go ahead.

thanks, i have always taken solace in the fact that it happened on canada day, the day we lost the baby we came home and my partner put our recliners on the balcony (15th floor) and we sat holding hands and watched the fireworks, it made me feel like we were able to Celebrate the possibility of life and this year we did the same thing, sat on the balcony and watched the fireworks for him and it made it feel less lonely and more significant.

I am also able to rejoice in the fact that the next time we try for a child i will be in much better health and will be in a much better capacity to parent two children. it is all about self-care, which in turn helps promote a better family life <3

Punk Rock Mama, you are some kind of wonderful my dear, thanks for sharing and I'm sorry for your loss.

The pharmacist said I have the go ahead and just to keep an eye on things.

Btw, the sexy night made for some awkward positions but it really helped me gas today, my breathing is deeper and I slept like a baby without any meds at all!

Punk Rock Mama' date=' you are some kind of wonderful my dear, thanks for sharing and I'm sorry for your loss.

The pharmacist said I have the go ahead and just to keep an eye on things.

Btw, the sexy night made for some awkward positions but it really helped me gas today, my breathing is deeper and I slept like a baby without any meds at all![/quote']

Ahhhhhh lol, too bad my hubby is still in the hospital lmao. You go girl

Bawhahaha we went for some good old slow sweet vanilla, which with the pain was actually quite spicy

I have no problem sharing my experiences, you never know who has been through what until you ask, and you never know what you can relate to until you hear someone else say it

I tolerated getting rode like a prize stallion 7 days post op. was great for the breathing and gas!

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I tolerated getting rode like a prize stallion 7 days post op. was great for the breathing and gas!

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Yeah but you're a guy, guys would be willing to canoodle lying in a ditch after having their legs blown off by a landline ( not to generalize, just in my experience lol)

That seems like a perfectly accurate statement lol.

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Lol! Too funny, it's incredably how much it does for the body though, especially after surgery.

It's all about the endorphins baby! An I think a) not being able to do it makes you want it more and personally, having my man cater to me night and day made me crazy about him and re-awakened a deep love and appreciation for him...and what better way to show him lol

Just to follow up, the pharmacist said its all good to take the pill. No side effects as far as I know:)

Yeah but you're a guy' date=' guys would be willing to canoodle lying in a ditch after having their legs blown off by a landline ( not to generalize, just in my experience lol)[/quote']

OMG thIs had me laughing out loud...so true!!!!!

It's all about the endorphins baby! An I think a) not being able to do it makes you want it more and personally' date=' having my man cater to me night and day made me crazy about him and re-awakened a deep love and appreciation for him...and what better way to show him lol[/quote']

Except my boyfriend is way more concerned about me than I am....I think after the incisions stop hurting I am going to want to have mad crazy sex. Doctor said when I felt I am able to, then I can.