I'm so Tired of people tellin me not get this surgery nothin goin Change my mind I wanna be Healthy and Smaller and feel good about myself Then this guy I really like have nerves to call me today and tell me I don't know why u getting this surgery u sill goin be fat that hurt my feelin so bad I always try make him feel good about his self I always try do Everything make him happy and show him I really care about him I feel that he think I'm not Good enough for him because im fat smh and I think no Nobody else want me so I deal with him until I lose weight I know that bad It makes me feel worse about myself when im around him I'm justs So tired of everything Im tryin be happy about me getting my surgery more people try put me down then my mother wanna go wit me when I have my surgery tomorrow but she sick and her leg swollen I have nobody Else to come wit me So I might go by myself all I wanna do is Cut my phone off and try take a nap and hope I feel better when i Wake up

You will be just fine. And won't it be sweet when you lose weight and you're looking fine. Then what will they be saying? ha ! Actually, I am sure the negative people in your life will find something else to try to hurt you with. Be strong, be happy !

Your doing this for you.Forget about your boyfriend.You are more important.You

are going to feel,and look better when you have the surgery. When they see you months after your surgery they will be eating there words. Some people have nothing good to say or there very negative.Don't let anyone change what you want in life.This is your journey,and forget what one says , because they are not your friend.Good luck with your surgery, you'll do great!

I agree...be strong. Do this for you and you alone. You have the power...and soon the tool...to be successful. Hang in there.

Do this for yourself, not anyone else. Also- toxic relationships are toxic no matter what your size is. You deserve someone who values you and makes you feel good about yourself, the way you value them and make them feel good. You don't need saboteurs in your life.

Sounds like you have some haters in your life and your guy "friend" and I use that word friend losely is the biggest one. The truth is once you lose the weight and gain confidence... things are going to change for the better. You have valid reasons for getting this surgery and I wish you the best....

I was told that when you get this surgery you find out who your real friends are maybe its the same for lovers. I can not wait til my significant other comes out his face and say something negative its the day he will feel my fury cause I have given him every opportunity to get out how he really feela and even took him to see the surgin. I wish you luck because when you love someone their feelings usually come befor yours but your on your way to taking care of you. Good luck I want to know in the future how this turns out.

Awww thanks for The support y'all justs Readin Y'all comments making feel better already lol I'm starting a new journey in my life so that mean out wit the old in the wit new no more bein sad So I have to kick that a*****e To the curve lol

You will be fine don't let other people control your happiness. Like that saying goes misery loves company everybody's just hating because they know your gonna look good after your surgery. And your confidence is gonna go through the roof. So just be happy and remember this is your time to focus on you.

Awww thanks for The support y'all justs Readin Y'all comments making feel better already lol I'm starting a new journey in my life so that mean out wit the old in the wit new no more bein sad So I have to kick that a*****e To the curve lol

He does not sound very supportive. You deserve better...at any weight! Congratulations on taking this step towards better health. You will do great!

Support comes in many forms. Find yours wherever you can! Good luck with your surgery.