How do I be thin? I don't know. I know the WLS will help my body to lose the weight. But how do I make my personality thin? You've heard the quote, "God made me fat because he knew a skinny body couldn't hold all this personality"? That's me. I have a loud, crazy, say anything, flirtatious personality. And nobody is threatened by it because I'm a fat girl. I'm scared females won't like me when I'm skinny. I'm scared they will think of me as "The Skinny B!+€#. I'm scared men will take me seriously when I make an off color remark and they'll take it as flirting. I'm scared my fat mouth will write a check my skinny ass can't cash. Can anyone identify with this?

No one raises a special needs child without developing a thick skin and the ability to laugh a lot Well I suppose some do but they aren't much fun to be around a lot! This weight loss thing is easy in comparison And you KNOW it!

They make these cushions I see in the back of people mag when I'm traveling...they slip into your pants and give you a nice fat butt. Perhaps a pair might come in handy heh heh

I needs a pair of those! I have noassatall disease at 245lbs! What's gonna happened 100lbs from now?

I needs a pair of those! I have noassatall disease at 245lbs! What's gonna happened 100lbs from now?

You'll have to just sit on the dog....

Girl I could weigh 60 lbs and 50 of it would be ass.

I would have that 50 on my gut! I look like a watermellom with toothpick arms and legs and big ole fat face! I hate the fat girls with skinny, pretty faces! LOL

Girl I could weigh 60 lbs and 50 of it would be ass.

The other 10 would be in my boobs.... It's killing me!

Ok ladies. I did it. I started a blog. "The Princess and the Sleeve" hope you will follow me.

Ok ladies. I did it. I started a blog. "The Princess and the Sleeve" hope you will follow me.

How do we find it?

I say embrace it. Shine with all your light, and whoever cant hadle it better get a pair of shades

Although, I haven't been sleeved yet. (I was approved today Yay!) I have lost all of my weight before and it was scary learning to be thin. I honestly, don't think I was emotionally prepared for it. Something that really bothered me was all of the positive attention from Men. It made me angry because to me I was the same person with the same personality. I almost became bitter and untrusting. Always thinking, would this person have liked the "fat" me. You will learn how to be the thinner version of yourself. Especially with such a strong personality. Now you'll just have a body to match the sassy-ness.

How do we find it?

I think by going to my profile. Not real sure.

Here is link to my blog. Hope to see some of your comments there.

http://www.verticalsleevetalk.com/blog/2215-the-princess-and-the-sleeve/