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Are you looking for followup care from them? I wouldn't change a thing about where you're having surgery.

It seems like mostly they'll be miffed that you didn't spend your cash with them so they won't provide any care for you. If you're looking for post surgery care, you might fare better asking for recommends from a WLS friendly clinic or surgeon. IMO bariatric centers are in business to make money off of us...not in providing services for people who didn't choose to have an expensive procedure there.

Just my take.

Are you looking for followup care from them? I wouldn't change a thing about where you're having surgery.

It seems like mostly they'll be miffed that you didn't spend your cash with them so they won't provide any care for you. If you're looking for post surgery care' date=' you might fare better asking for recommends from a WLS friendly clinic or surgeon. IMO bariatric centers are in business to make money off of us...not in providing services for people who didn't choose to have an expensive procedure there.

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That's kindof what I wanted to hear. 0.0 lol I hope Thera agree.

I'm not wanting follow up care, really. Just wanted to go to support groups which is fine, she said. I wl feted of it was just a scare tactic of sorts.

Move on! And prepare for four Weeks! If you are sure of your research move forward... There are a lot of patients here in the states with complications...my Mothers bariatric surgeon said something similar, 'you dont want to go to Mexico, we see alot of patients with have problems' yadda yadda yadda, I am confident in my research and my decision, I have made a decision based on facts and testimonials. I do not like the fact that some Americans feels as if no one can do it but us, thats untrue prejudice, as I stated here my first ever consulation with a local surgeon included the option for him to travel to Mexico with me, that is enough stand confident in your decision there is more than one bariatric surgeon, because once he saw that I was secure in my decision he offered me unlimited support group sessions and will be a go surgeon if needed...

That's kindof what I wanted to hear. 0.0 lol I hope Thera agree. <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/biggrin.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt='' />

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Try Overeaters Anonymous for a support group. I plan to.

Amanda Rae

So does that mean they dont want you at their support group either?

amytug,

The surgical follow-up from the bariatric surgery group here is at two weeks, three months, six months and one year. I plan to go to my primary care at those intervals, and possibly get referred to a gastroenterologist if I'm having problems. I'm guessing that the two-week appt. is mainly a surgical incision healing check, as well as being sure that the patient is getting enough fluids and protein. For the 3-6-12 month appts, I'm hoping to use the forums to find out what bloodwork is typically ordered at those intervals. But...If it's a surgery complication, I'm heading right to the ER because I won't want to wait to get an appointment at a gastro or surgeon's office!

BTW, I think we are going to be in Tijuana around the same time! I'm scheduled with Dr. Fernando Garcia on Feb. 21st

I have heard this is very common in the US...the dr's here don't want to deal with complications from Mexico. I don't think it has to do with the fact that they are upset you didn't go with them to have your surgery. This is one of the risks you take if you go to Mexico, also some insurance companies won't cover complications if you went to Mexico...this is what I have heard.

I did all of my follow up care with my PCP. I asked her not to write in my notes that I had surgery in MX. She made notes that I had surgery but not which dr. it was with. She was supportive of this. The only "complication" I had was that I became dehydrated. My PCP sent me to the hospital to get fluids. While there they asked why I was dehydrated I told them I had surgery and left it at that, got my fluids and went home.

You can call around and ask other surgeons if they will cover you if a problem arises. I can't imagine there wouldn't be anyone at all that would help you if there is an emergency.

It's hard to get any doctor to see you after another dr has operated on you. I don't see it being just a Mexico surgeon thing. I wouldn't let her worry you. Write down everything pros and cons and make the best decision for you.

They would welcome me at the support group. *nods*

You know what you guys? I was having reservations yesterday, and today - after three long months of anticipating February(tax money). I didn't understand why I was having these feelings after wanting this do bad for so long. I prayed about it and asked for a sign. Anything, to let me know of I'm on the right path.

At first I was mad at this lady for what I thought was bursting my bubble. After talking I dh about it, with our financial situation, this really is a no brainer. I'm going to Persue (sp) the 6 month insurance route. Man how I wish it was 3 though. Darn it. Lol. I can't believe how calm and at peace I am with this. I feel like I've waited forever and now I'm ok with waiting 6 more months, what? The fact that its a center of excellence helps too, and the surgeon gets good reviews here.

Bad thing about it is that I have been eating healthy for about a month now and have lost a little bit of weight. This puts me at a lower BMI them 40 and now I have to gain the weight back. Hopefully I can get my appointments very quickly, that way I can get back to losing very soon. I am super depressed when my pants are super tight and I'm cellulite city, so gaining has me in the dumps. not 6000.00 worth though.

I personally would not do the Mexico thing. If your insurance or the sixties office can get it covered, then why not???? They don't call this the greatest country in the world for nothing! The US has agencies to ensure a certain quality of healthcare is received and if not the sic can be held accountable. You got no protection in Mexico. It's your choice but you wanted opinions and that's mine. I wish you the best!!!!

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Try Overeaters Anonymous for a support group. I plan to.

Amanda Rae

I think over eaters or WW might be a good option as well. I plan to follow MY plan until nearly at goal and then join OOA or WW to help with suiport inthe months ahead. Maintaining to me will be my biggest challenge.

AmyT as long as you have peace about your decision that is all that matters! Six months will fly by, and the good thing also is that you are educated about the surgery. So congratulations on peace! : )

I think over eaters or WW might be a good option as well. I plan to follow MY plan until nearly at goal and then join OOA or WW to help with suiport inthe months ahead. Maintaining to me will be my biggest challenge.

My doctor and nutritionist follow us for years with support group for year and beyond, etc.

They would welcome me at the support group. *nods*

You know what you guys? I was having reservations yesterday' date=' and today - after three long months of anticipating February(tax money). I didn't understand why I was having these feelings after wanting this do bad for so long. I prayed about it and asked for a sign. Anything, to let me know of I'm on the right path.

At first I was mad at this lady for what I thought was bursting my bubble. After talking I dh about it, with our financial situation, this really is a no brainer. I'm going to Persue (sp) the 6 month insurance route. Man how I wish it was 3 though. Darn it. Lol. I can't believe how calm and at peace I am with this. I feel like I've waited forever and now I'm ok with waiting 6 more months, what? The fact that its a center of excellence helps too, and the surgeon gets good reviews here.

Bad thing about it is that I have been eating healthy for about a month now and have lost a little bit of weight. This puts me at a lower BMI them 40 and now I have to gain the weight back. Hopefully I can get my appointments very quickly, that way I can get back to losing very soon. I am super depressed when my pants are super tight and I'm cellulite city, so gaining has me in the dumps. not 6000.00 worth though.

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Amy,

I just want to say that I admire you. And your incredible willingness to look beyond the mentality of I need it right now! I am an impulsive person and when I came here I realized a lot if people had to wait 6 months. I thought that was a long time, but I wonder now if it doesn't help prepare you more for what's to come...

I know that whatever route you take you are going to be successful!

Best of luck to you my dear!

Laura

I personally would not do the Mexico thing. If your insurance or the sixties office can get it covered, then why not???? They don't call this the greatest country in the world for nothing! The US has agencies to ensure a certain quality of healthcare is received and if not the sic can be held accountable. You got no protection in Mexico. It's your choice but you wanted opinions and that's mine. I wish you the best!!!!

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I agree. My situation is different. There is no way I want to gain from a 32 BMI to 40 BMI to qualify. If you have less than 10lbs to gain, do it. And, wait the 6 months.

Mary