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...for a week, and right about the same time my tummy seems to be able to have solid foods! Poo!

My Hubby had to leave for some refresher survival exercises and I am alone for the first time since the surgery and my Mom passing away. I have tons to do but I find myself kinda sad - more sad than I should be. I don't normally care if I am alone.

I think this might be the first time I have felt real head hunger.

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awww I'm so sorry all that is coming down on you right now. . . but your strong, we are never given more then we can burden. Don't let the head hunger win out on you. . . get yourself really busy. . . not only will you feel better for getting stuff done, but your going to be proud of yourself for beating out the hunger monster. . . you can do it honey, and know that we are here as well to help you along the way. . .

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Aww, Pookey im so sorry you're missing your mamaHang in there, hubbie will be home soon. You can make a shout out to us when you need to talk. I know we can't replace them, but at least we know how you feel

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Awww hang in there it'll get better and I'm sorry to hear about your mom.

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Sorry to hear about being alone when you're feeling a little down. We're here for you girl!! I know it's not exactly the same, but know you're absolutely not alone in your struggles and your journey.

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Stay busy, maybe hang out with friends, go to the movies or shopping. It will get better.

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I'm sorry about your mom. I have a hard time battling head hunger too, and it can help to get up and go take a walk, or a nice drive, or do anything that is away from hearth and home where the pantry is. It helps distract my brain from what it thinks it wants. Maybe you can call some friends to schedule a game/movie/spa night? Go on a mad cleaning frenzy? Put on some music and dance? Knit? Just remember that you are not alone in this!

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I'm sorry :( I hope you can find something to pass the time more quickly! I'll be praying for you.

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My heart goes out to you along with some prayers. When feeling down , do what you have been doing , give back. YOU help so many of us on here. In times of struggle to endure it is always helpful to give what you are needing. Do you know what I mean.. That does not mean do not take time for yourself but fill your time knowing your are needed and valued. (Right here with us!!!) :)

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I'm sorry to hear about ur mom :( .. Stay strong

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