I understand that post op is a difficult transition and energy isn't overflowing at the moment. However, for those of you who have completed it and recovery is going well, how long did it take you to get your libido back, or did it ever go away?

I know this is fairly personal, but if you're comfortable I would like to hear your story on this matter. You can send me a private message if you like too!

Hi there. . . not it didn't leave. .

Never went away........we were back at it rather quickly.....2 weeks maybe.

We made love one week after surgery. It hurt. That didn't stop us. :laugh:

I haven't had a huge sex drive since I've put on weight, about 8 years ago. Things haven't changed nearly a year after surgery, once I get going I enjoy it, but I can go without sex for a month or even more.