I'm trying to plan things out and was wondering how the first day home was for everyone. I live alone and was wondering if I really need someone there those first few days when I get home. Did you find that you had to have someone there to help do things, or was it just nice to have someone there?

If I really don't have to have someone stay with me I would prefer not to...I know I won't be much fun!

Being a very independable person, I didn't need anyone, however, my hubbie and daughter where at home . . . I came home and carried on like normal. . but then of course this having been my 18th major surgery I knew what my limitations were and what i could do. . .so in other words, you do what you think you can do, if you have a really low threshold to pain and movement, maybe you need someone, if you are independant and can do a lot by yourself and know how to control your pain, you'll be ok. . remember not to lift heavy things, don't do any heavy housework, follow the doctor's orders and you'll be fine. . . good luck

You can probably get by on your own...but it sure is nice to not have to get up when you're resting comfortably.

My hubby's recliner is where I parked my butt...that not laying flat and yet not sitting straight up is how I was most comfortable. I got up to do my walking but other than that..that first day was just rest and he fetched me drinks, and jello, etc.

I could have gotten by on my own, but with the abs so sore the firs 2-3 days, it sure was nice to be able to say "Hey honey... can you grab me a popsicle while you're up?"

I agree ... you can do it on your own, but having someone with you really helps. I would suggest keeping Water bottles and allowable foods within close reach so that you don't have to move more than you need to (remember - you still need to rest, sip, walk). If you have a recliner, it really does help with getting up and down.

If you are going to be alone, but sure to have a writing pad by your medicines - you will need to keep close tabs on when you took your medicines. You don't want to over- or under-dose while you are resting/napping.

It wasn't because of any of my physical needs that I liked having people around, but for my emotional and mental needs. It was good to talk about my feelings and know that I could get through the rough few days. I was in no pain, but did have some nausea and it was nice to have a Mom who was willing to run get me a variety of popsicles.

you'll probably know within 12 hrs of your surgery, I came home the next day. I didn't need anyone but my hubby was here outside on the tractor. A recliner is wonderful the first few days. Better safe than sorry tho in case something happened and you couldn't act for yourself. Carla

I agree with others. I think that you can manage on your own but it is nicer when someone is around to help. I got tired a lot throughout the day and sometimes it was easier for someone to get things I needed. I could have done it on my own but it was really taxing on my energy.

If you can have someone stay for a couple of days to help you. Everyone here is spot on. You can do, but you would be more comforatable if you can have someone to help a little bit.

My experience is that the first day was cake, since I was so stoned! It was day 2 and beyond where I really started feeling it...