Well it's been 3.5 years since LB surgery.... and i have a serious question.

Since losing the weight my sex drive it through the roof... It's all i seem to think about.....Can't seem to get enough... This has to be how teen boys feel... OMG... i'm going to be 45 in July..how is this possible.

Any one else?

I thought maybe its because I'm turning forty. Its insane...the while gambit, dirty dreams and everything.I'm also single and am trying to make weight loss a priority but wow...its hard to concentrate. Once I'm healthy and thin and get male attention I'm going to have to come with a warning label frankly.

Glad I'm not alone...

I wish mine would. My husbands is higher since i lost surgery. Lol. He's driving me crazy. Wont leave me alone!!

I wish mine would. My husbands is higher since i lost surgery. Lol. He's driving me crazy. Wont leave me alone!!

Lucky girl!

Definitely higher after the surgery! It was high beforehand, but it's definitely through the roof now. I guess I need to find a husband quick, lol.

Lol. I used to have a high drive and it went down with the wt gain. I already find myself wanting more.... But no current partner so have fun for me!

girl... one thing i do know.... Men don't care what size you are... P is P (you know what i'm talking about)... and as long as you have one, you can have as many of THEM (d...) as you want.... lol

Something to look fwd to! My husband will be thrilled. Last night he was pulling out all his top moves but it was Day 2 of pre op diet and an 18 hour day and it was never gonna happen.

Yeah during pre-op diet and in the weeks after the op he's going to have to be patient, but tell him to hang tight, if all goes well, you'll be tiring HIM out soon!

Ha now you ladies have me concerned I already want it more than my hubby but he spoils me so I usually get it when i want it. I may have to take cold showers to control myself after i am banded.

*FentonMama*

My libido increased greatly when I was near and at my 87 lbs lost mark. Then I started to regain a little and I saw a drop in the libido. I'm am back to losing again and have seen it picking up again. Idk if it has to do with mentally feeling more self confident or what but ill take it!

I am actually the opposite direction. Prior to my surgery I had a very active libido. I've been banded 7 months now and have had sex...three times. Im not interested in sex the same way I used to be. Im down 60lbs but I don't have the same confidence I had when I was heavier.

I'm counting on it!!

I am not banded yet, but if this is the case I need to start prepping my husband!!

I am not banded yet, but if this is the case I need to start prepping my husband!!

Yes, yes, yes!! I have to almost give him a break here and there when I know he's tired but will do it anyways LOL......keep lovin' ladies <3