Hi all,

This may be a little bit of an odd question, but how long before i will be able to be intimate with my wife after surgery?

Is there a specific period of time we should wait?

Thanks

That's to funny now I got a good laugh

Sweetie, Don't take anything on here seriously. At night some of us (not me) get a little crazy. We never mean to hurt anyone's feelings. We just crazy!

I was banded 10-12-12 and last night was our Forster time after surgery. I'm not in any pain or discomfort so we gave it a go but hubby did most of the work. We weren't as aggressive as normal so it was enjoyable without any port discomfort! Good luck!!

Shoot I'm happy about that part.I have an excuse I'm of course probably gonna have to get an excuse lol. I could be a nun in that area wouldn't bother me. But maybe after I shed some weight I will feel better about myself.

you and me both! Ive been married 30 years too, might as well be a nun. I hate fat. Im sorry and I know its not politically correct, but I was NEVER fat before I got alll those dam pills, made me tired. The past two years I gained like 100 pounds. Look like a friggin macey day parade float! AHHHHH!

I look forward to drop dead gorgeous again, with my clothes on , of course. A REEEEEally dark room otherwise. Blame it on the dog!

Ill have to get me one of those chinese wrinkly ones. LOL!

Ill have to get me one of those chinese wrinkly ones. LOL!

LMAO

My mind was going way in the wrong direction and a little slow.

Boogers, chinese wrinkly ones. I'm thinking where in the world are you ppl from.

Dawns on me you're talking dogs right?

LOL