Bandquisitive

Thanks so much for the replies. It's helpful to me to realize that this issue isn't necessarily only my issue - that others have thought this over too. The mechanics - the surgery - the recovery - the ongoing support are all important, but there is tons of information about that. I feel strongly that I have to address the emotional issues before I'll actually be ready. Thank you again

Thanks for the response. Perhaps I mis-stated things. It's not my friends, it's my exploration as to whether I'm ready to give up the food, and the perceived fun I'll miss out on. My friends are supportive - but this isn't about them holding me back. I'll grieve over food and I believe that will hold me back even after surgery unless I address the issue before surgery. Thanks

Hello everyone, I'm in the process of researching banding as an option and need your assistance. My greatest fear is of losing friendships. food is my friend, and I have a few relationships that are based on food and alcohol, and my greatest fear is actually all about losing these friends. I'm a huge emotional eater and party girl, and it's not the food and or the alcohol loss that scares me, it's losing friends that scares me as most of my friends are just like me. Any of you share these concerns? Any advice?