amyntx

Well, heart disease and diabetes run in the family.  I have always been a BBW and at the age of 45 my mom had the bypass.  A few years after that I decided I needed to do something long term for my weight so that I would be able to avoid potentially life threatening problems.  So, here I am.Two and half years later and I'm still fat.  This was not the way I envisioned the process turning out.  I've had to go in a for a fill about every 4 months.  At one point I got down to 174, but wasn't even able to drink water.  I refused to go get the band loosened because of how good I looked.  I met my husband about four months after surgery and he is a large man and struggles with weight as well.  He refuses to get the surgery done because he sees how much crap I have gone thru.  But he is very supportive.  Needless to say, I need some support and guidance.  HELP!